I ve been so tired lately, my mom is sick, my dad is not doing well in business, and I m arguing wit

When people grow up, they have to take responsibility!!

There is a solution to everything, as long as you are brave and positive to face it!

Go for it, friend! Everything will pass, and the light is in front of you!

Wishing you happiness and good health! Family harmony and happiness!

Hey, life, helpless, troubles also like to catch up with the excitement.

Taking care of your parents is the most important, I don't think you want such a boyfriend, you may not like to hear this, a person who has lived with him all his life must understand himself, and he can use it when he needs help the most, but he comes to fill in the trouble.

Hey, I hope you can get through this low point in your life, everything will be fine, and you will have better luck, such as winning the lottery.

1. You are 16 years old, presumably in school, and your top priority is to study. Now you may not realize it, but remind you of one thing: learning is your own. Do things lightly, and the top priority must not be delayed!

2. The conflict between parents has their solution for many years of getting along. You don't have to rush, it's a good way to do nothing!

3. Of course, you can actually set a rule for their quarrels, which is not a problem. I'll teach you a way first, can you try?

1. Dad loves you.

If yes, then you go directly to your dad and say: Dad, when you quarrel, I feel the most uncomfortable. I'm even more uncomfortable with you now, I can't read books, I don't have the heart to do anything, I don't want such a home!

Second, mom loves you.

If yes, then you go directly to your mother and tell your mother that you feel uncomfortable, it is difficult to study in your heart, you feel annoyed by doing anything, and you hate your parents for cold wars!

Three, you can have a little wisdom.

Just sit in the living room, do nothing, just think about how uncomfortable your heart is, and then you will definitely shed tears, maybe you really want to cry, then cry, when Mom and Dad come to ask, don't say it, continue to think about your grievances, vent your grievances, you can feel better. The second is to let parents know that they are fighting a cold war and hurting their children! Let them know to converge their character.

Fourth, in the family, children are a bridge, a bridge of spiritual communication. You have to learn to be coquettish in front of your parents, and when the atmosphere at home is bad, you don't hide, you should stand up bravely, break the silence and depression, and let them talk to each other through you.

If you understand things enough, you can understand and digest the distress of your father and mother, and then pass it on to the other party, the purpose is to let them learn to empathize, think more about the other party, and understand each other's feelings more. In fact, you can, as long as you are brave, when your mother is uncomfortable, you accompany her, and when your father is uncomfortable, you also persuade him.

When they just finished quarreling, their hearts were still puffing up, and now, they must regret it, but both sides have not gone down a step, and they feel that they can't get over their faces, it depends on how you give them both sides, let them make concessions for you, they can accept it in their hearts, as for what skills to use, you know your parents, you use your brains, there must be a way.

Tell them that in fact, the other party has also put their heart and soul into this family, in fact, this family is inseparable from each other, so that they can feel the importance of each other. Then I will persuade them myself.

It's none of your business for your parents to quarrel with your parents, if you care, you're blocking yourself.

Play games, watch highlights**, turn on the volume, and leave it alone.

I can understand you, if the relationship between your parents is still there, then it depends on you. You need to adjust from it. You can take a break first. Relax, and think about your parents when you're emotionally stable. You're a member of the family, too.

Try to convince them as much as you can, there's no need to do that.

As a child, do you want to make sure that they are just a daily bickering, or a relationship breakdown? If it's the former, it doesn't matter, you go to school well and act as the glue of the parental relationship when necessary. If the relationship is broken, there is nothing you can do as a child, so you can do whatever you want.

There is no way, you can try to talk to them, be honest with your feelings, if you don't listen, there is really no way, maybe as a husband and wife, they do not agree on the three views, there are huge differences in personality, it is difficult to control with reason.

When parents quarrel, we should give priority to persuading the most emotionally charged party. In fact, both parents are our relatives, and we can't help either side, but we can persuade him or her who is more emotional, let him or her calm down, and try to say a few words as little as possible. But if I can judge who is at fault, then we will try to reason with him or her, ease the atmosphere, and we must do a good job of lubricant in the middle of the child.

From a child's point of view, their world is a family that their parents build together. Therefore, the younger the child, the more dependent they are on the family atmosphere. From a psychological point of view, family harmony is essential for children's mental health.

My father and mother were very affectionate, but when I was younger, I would sometimes argue. When I was very young, I remember crying with my siblings when they were arguing. Maybe our tears of sadness and fear play a role, sometimes for a year or two without seeing our parents quarrel.

Gradually, when we got older, we couldn't see our parents quarreling, maybe our parents were afraid that we would be sad if we knew about it, so they didn't let us know at all when they quarreled, and avoided me and my younger siblings. My father passed away early, in the past 20 years, my mother was alone, and now she is almost 70 years old, people are old, and there are fewer words, when I used to see us, I always love to nag non-stop, and now, when I see us, I seem to be a little afraid of us, always don't talk much, and I am careful to follow the actions, plus the children of my younger siblings and I are older, and there are fewer people who can talk to my mother. Sometimes, when I see my mother lonely and uncared for, I think how happy my mother would be if my father lived, even if she quarreled every day!

If the parents quarreled again, we would watch from the sidelines, and no one would say anything, and when they said they were tired, we would make tea for them.

Since you can't persuade you, you can only dodge. There is no need to be sad, there is no husband and wife who do not quarrel, you don't see that they quarrel fiercely, in fact, they may have deep feelings, and no one can do without anyone.

Everyone has experienced a quarrel between parents at home, and it is certain that they are in a bad mood. Now that you have grown up, you can also try to be a mediator, patiently sit down and talk to your father and mother about life, **** ways to get along with people, and also show your desire for the state of family life, as long as you boldly express your own ideas, your parents will not ignore it, even if for your physical and mental health and study, they quarrel behind their backs, and they will not let you notice it anymore, affecting the mood.

When I was a child, my parents were also not in harmony, and often because of some trivial things, things that even I didn't know, the two of them had disputes, and then there was a long cold war. I was very young at the time, and I felt bad knowing that the two of them didn't talk to each other, so I would look for opportunities to talk to them. In the end, and often because of me, the two of them began to communicate, and finally the rain and the weather were as good as ever.

However, because of the conflicts between my parents over the years, the relationship became weaker and weaker, and finally broke up peacefully.

Therefore, you have found that your parents have a bad relationship, so there are many contradictions, so find out the emotional intensification point with them as soon as possible and help your parents resolve it. Otherwise, the final outcome may end in divorce like my family. And the person who is most affected is still the most innocent person in the family.

If you really feel that your experience is limited and the effect of adjustment is not ideal, you can suggest that your parents consult a professional counselor, or seek help from a counselor who specializes in marriage and family. Let a professional help your parents resolve years of emotional conflicts.

Although this method is a bit expensive, if your parents can cooperate patiently, the effect will be very significant. People have some tangled points in their hearts that they can't say, but can perceive, and once someone expresses them for themselves, they won't vent them in some unreasonable ways. Slowly, you will live more clearly.

In fact, I want to say that every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and I often become in a bad mood because of my parents' quarrels, so it can be said that no parent has never quarreled since they got married, and there will be some small conflicts more or less, which is inevitable. If you're in a bad mood, you can think of ways to make up for it. You can go out for a walk or find something else to do to distract yourself so that you don't get too upset.

But I think it's useless to just avoid the quarrel between your parents, we dare to face it and improve it, don't get more and more intense, you are the one who can resolve the parent's quarrel, you have to make good use of this relationship, because your parents still care about you very much, as long as you come out to make peace for them, it is the best.

With the passage of time, our parents are old, they have their menopause, we must learn to understand them, we must enlighten them more, and we must be sensible, do not add some troubles to our parents, and do not cause trouble, otherwise they will be anxious, which is the fuse of their quarrels. As children, we may not seem able to do anything about the discord between our parents, but in fact, we can also play a key role, because our parents' whole life is centered on us and the family.

And I think that part of the conflict between parents comes from the stress of life, so what you can do is try to reduce the pressure on their life for them, as long as they are doing well, they will no longer decide to be irritable, and naturally the conflict will be reduced. You also have to pay attention to their mental activities and help them get rid of their heart problems. Do more ideological work for them, chat with them more, spend more time with them, and don't let them feel lonely.

They don't quarrel anymore, and your mood gradually improves.

In a family, the harmony of the parental relationship plays a very key role in the atmosphere of the family, and the relationship between the parents often affects the mood of the child.

If your parents quarrel over something in your family life, it will directly affect your mood, make you feel irritable, and depression will fill you.

But many times the quarrel between the parents, after all, is still a matter between the two of them, although they are their children, but they can't ask too much about the problems between them. Therefore, when they quarrel, the most important thing is to regulate your mood, you are all independent individuals, and don't always affect yourself because of your parents' quarrels.

So when our parents quarrel, we can choose to stay away from them, they have been together for so many years, and quarrels are not a big deal in their lives, so you don't stay next to them when they quarrel, you can choose to go out and find some entertainment activities to regulate your mood, if you can go to KTV to sing, you can also go to the gym to keep fit, you can also go to the Internet café to surf the Internet, and wait until you feel that your parents' quarrel is almost over, and then go back, When the two of them can't pull their faces to each other to speak, you can adjust the atmosphere for the two of them and help them reconcile. This will not only make your own mood not look too bad, but also help your parents, the best of both worlds.

If you don't have the conditions to go out under the circumstances, you can also choose to stay alone in the room, if your mother's normal life is too big, you can put on headphones and listen to songs, I can read a book quietly, you just believe that the quarrel between your parents is just a small episode in their life, and it will not bring any problems to your family, so you can naturally not let the quarrel of your parents affect your mood.

And if your parents are in a bad mood when they quarrel, you can choose to sit down with them and talk calmly when both parents don't have too many quarrels, so that they know what you really think in your heart, so that your parents may reduce the number of quarrels in front of you out of consideration for your feelings.

First, you can keep a distance from them, at this time, you don't need to say anything, after all, it is a matter between adults, if you go to them to adjust on the premise of your communication skills or things have not yet understood, it may cause a counterreaction, under the premise of not being sure, you can still keep yourself away from them first, you can go to live on campus by yourself, or go out to a friend's house for a period of time, keep your mood a smooth feeling.

Second, you can go out for a short trip, or you can't say it's a tour, just like the city around your home, there are any large playgrounds, you can let yourself arrange a vacation for yourself, go to the surrounding cities, play places to fully relax your mood, this is very effective, as long as your mental attention is invested in other places, you can fully forget about this trouble, and, maybe after playing, you will think of a new entry point to help your parents solve their quarrels, Maintain the relationship between the two of them.

Thirdly, you can find your parents separately to talk to them, tell them the distress in your heart, pay attention to the way and the tone of your voice, which is very important, as long as you speak well, they, as your parents, will definitely pay attention to their behavior.

Fourth, you can find people from your grandparents' generation, explain the situation to them, and ask them for help, and you hope that they will use their generational advantages to help you persuade your parents, so as to achieve a harmonious family atmosphere. And you can let your grandparents warn them how harmful their behavior is to the child, and they need to give a reasonable lifestyle and keep their lives normal, so as to achieve a good role in promoting the child's growth.