Is it valid that he didn t write down what he promised at the time of divorce?

It is invalid according to the law, it depends on the character.

Today's society is all about evidence.

At the time of divorce, it is necessary to sign a divorce agreement, which should be carried out according to the agreement, and the oral promise has no legal effect, if it is considered that there are problems with the agreement and need to be reversed, it needs to be filed within one year of divorce, and it is invalid after the time limit.

Husbands and wives go through divorce procedures, whether they go to the civil affairs department to obtain a divorce certificate or sue for divorce in the court. Both parties are required to reach an agreement on the division of common property, the ownership of custody of minor children, etc., and form a written agreement, signed by both parties and fingerprinted.

Marriage Registration Regulations:

Article 10: Where a mainland resident voluntarily divorces, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority for the place where one of the parties has a permanent residence to register for divorce.

Where a Chinese citizen voluntarily divorces a foreigner in Chinese mainland, or a mainland resident voluntarily divorces with a Hong Kong resident, Macao resident, Taiwan resident or overseas Chinese in Chinese mainland, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where the mainland resident has a permanent household registration to complete the divorce registration.

Article 11 Mainland residents who go through divorce registration shall present the following documents and supporting materials:

1) The person's household registration booklet and ID card;

2) The person's marriage certificate;

3) A divorce agreement signed by both parties.

In addition to the certificates and supporting materials provided for in items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph, Hong Kong residents, Macao residents, and Taiwan residents who have gone through divorce registration shall also present their own valid passes and identity cards, and overseas Chinese and foreigners shall also present their own valid passports or other valid international travel documents.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the opinions reached through consultation on matters such as child support, property and debt disposition.

Article 12: In any of the following circumstances, the marriage registration authorities shall not accept the divorce registration of the parties to the divorce registration:

1) Failure to reach a divorce agreement;

2) They are persons with no or limited capacity for civil conduct;

3) The marriage registration was not done in Chinese mainland.

Article 13: Marriage registration organs shall review the documents and supporting materials issued by the parties to the divorce registration and inquire about the relevant circumstances. Where the parties are truly voluntarily divorced and have reached a consensus on issues such as child support, property, and debts, they shall be registered on the spot and a divorce certificate shall be issued.

According to Article 9 of Interpretation (II) of the Marriage Law, if a man and a woman repent on the issue of property division within one year after the divorce by mutual agreement, and request to change or revoke the property division agreement, the court shall accept it. Where, after trial, the court does not discover that there was fraud or coercion at the time of entering into the property division agreement, it shall reject the parties' litigation claims in accordance with law.

Therefore, the divorce agreement can be reversed, but it must be filed with the court within one year after the divorce, but at the same time, it must meet the circumstances of fraud and coercion at the time of entering into the agreement, so that it can be supported by the court in accordance with the law.

Since they are all divorced, let him "have no basis for his words and establish a basis for words".

You can write down any agreement between you, and then ask the other party to sign it, put your fingerprint on it, and you'll be fine.

You can find a few witnesses and indicate who the witnesses are in the contract.

It is best to be able to go to a notary public to notarize it. This is state recognition.

Let the other party write down the promised things, sign and seal them, and take them to notarization.

Sign the marriage agreement and write in it what you want him to do and what he promises.

Written agreement, then the notary public impartially.

No, you only have this right when you get divorced, otherwise your husband will find out even worse.

Of course, it's time to deal with the divorce certificate first before starting a new relationship.

It's best to settle the matter between you and your ex-husband first, so as not to have emotional problems with you.

Wait until after the divorce.

If you get divorced, you will have a big karma.

Yes, as long as you truly love each other.

It's a good thing to chase you, many men are unreliable.

After the divorce came into effect, it was useless for him to unilaterally repent, and the law would not recognize it. As for him not replying to messages, that's his business. You send a text message and take a photo, don't delete it, keep a record.

Even if he says you don't give money, you can prove that the responsibility is not on you. It's not that you're most worried, you have to think about your children... Is the child really well raised?

I don't understand, it stands to reason that he doesn't want to leave, so he mentioned it many times. Maybe he's just perfunctory and not mentally prepared.

I still don't want to divorce you, I'm just embarrassed to say it

She doesn't mention it, you don't mention it, if you want to redeem it, you have to be kind to her, be accommodating, marriage is one party overpowering the other, and one party must be weak.

She doesn't want to leave, so behave well.

You see, he didn't have this thing, so he took him to lie to you, and you went to check on him, which means that you don't trust him either, do you think you can really go to the back together, there is a first time and a second time, live well, self-respect and self-love are the most important.

If you can break it, you can break it, this kind of man can promise you to divorce his wife, and when you are not allowed to be his wife, he can also promise other women to divorce you!!

Leave him quickly, without the slightest hesitation.

Second young grandmother, I'm looking for a reliable man!