After the breakup, there is remorse, which party should take the initiative to get back together

Prove that there is still affection by tempting and sacrificing yourself.

Some people find a new love immediately after a breakup, not because they really met a suitable other half, or because they are emotional, but because they want to stimulate the other person's potential feelings in this way.

There is a high probability that the breakup is a decision made by the other party after weighing the pros and cons, or even saying that the other party has a sense of disgust with you. This kind of detection method will not only not arouse the other party's jealousy and good feelings, but will make him feel that you are abusive. This kind of one-man show will not be cooperated, and it is very orange and may put yourself in another relationship entanglement.

After the breakup, spread unfavorable scandals about the other party.

There may be grievances in your heart, or it may be true that the other party has hurt you, but since you have broken up, who is right and who is wrong is actually not so important.

What's more, the end of a relationship cannot be a one-sided problem, if you have to wantonly spread scandalous news about the other party everywhere after separation, in addition to making the other party more disgusted with you, it will make the people around you think that you have a problem with your character.

Don't let others be your emotional judges, no one can empathize with your heartache at all, do you think your hurt, your pain will anyone care? No one really cares about your feelings and experiences, it is nothing more than a joke after dinner, or thinks that your character is poor, and spreads rumors and stirs up trouble because of love and hate.

After the breakup, it was sluggish.

A life is very long, although falling out of love is also a setback, but the sedan chair really does not prove that there is no hope in life, the state of slump is insignificant in the eyes of the other party, people may not pay attention to it at all, only their parents will really feel heartache, and what is really ruined is their future and life.

If the loss of love has really made you pay a painful price, then the collapse at the moment is the accumulation of misfortune in superimposed pain. What will people have a good impression of, one is the value you can bring to yourself, on the other hand, you are really good enough, with the advantages, ability, appearance, and figure to attract the other party, and it is more likely that just because you have a good job, but after the breakup, you give up on yourself, so what disappears together is still attractive.

The next way to make your ex regret it, and even want to re-seek the conditions for getting back together, is to make yourself better than before, not how miserable and depressed you are.

I don't like you, I don't love you, I don't feel for you.

Annoyed that you don't want to be with you.

Think about why you broke up in the first place, think about what you did in that relationship, what you didn't do well, why you didn't do it well, and whether you have reached a comfortable level in this relationship.

There is no relationship, whether the personalities of the two people are compatible or not, whether it is necessary, if you see these three issues clearly and then decide whether to get back together.

It's best not to reassemble, it's hard to break the mirror, and if there is a crack, there will definitely be problems. First of all, was the reason for the breakup solved at that time? If not, then the reunion will also be settled; Secondly, is there really a relationship, the relationship has faded after the breakup, can you still have the same feeling as before?

Finally, look forward and everything will be fine.

1. Think clearly for yourself.

Just like at the beginning of love, you decide to chase someone, or decide to accept someone's pursuit, in fact, you will have no regrets when you think clearly before making a decision. It's the same thing if you want to get back together after a breakup. Don't have the urge to get back together because you miss each other too much, and don't have the urge to get back together because you have done something that would have been done by two people.

At the beginning of love, it is normal to have an impulsive component. But having broken up, and then getting back together, you have to lose the impulse. Reflect on your previous love and think about why you broke up when something went wrong?

If they are compounded, do these problems still exist? Will you break up again because of these problems? You have to think about all of this, because what you want to get back together is not just one person, but the whole of love.

2. Be able to accept any result given by the other party.

Love is a matter of two people, breaking up is also a matter of two people, and getting back together is a matter of two people. Therefore, after a breakup, it is understandable that the partner in love unilaterally wants to get back together. However, whether the other party is willing to get back together with you is the key factor that determines the final outcome.

If you have already figured out that you want to get back together, then don't rush to find the other person, and then think about whether you can accept any results that the other person gives. If he agrees to get back together with you, everyone will be happy. But if he refuses to get back together with you, will you calmly let go?

This question must be thought through, otherwise you will get back together with the other person on impulse, and once you are rejected, you will be even more miserable.

When loving someone becomes a habit, everyone will feel like they have been poisoned, and they feel that they can't quit the days of having each other's company. After a breakup, this psychology will be more obvious, which is the root cause of many people who miss each other and want to get back together. And whether you want to get back together or not, you have to make your own decisions.

Whether they can get back together successfully depends on the other party in the end. Anyway, no matter whether you choose to get back together with the other party or not, as long as you think about the problem of getting back together, you must have the above two psychological preparations. When you think about it yourself, what to do and what the result is, so that you don't have so many regrets.

Hello dear, I'm glad to have your question of whether or not to get back together after a breakup depends on your own heart, and my advice is not to get back together. 1。If you really want to spend your life with each other, you are willing to do more for this love and tolerance.

You really love him, you can't do without him, you like everything about him. Willing to be with him, in this case you can compound 2. If you waver, you are not sure if you can still trust him, accept him, and live with him for the rest of your life, just simply possessive, or because you are alone and lonely, but you don't really want to be with the other person.

Don't get back together in this way, and getting back together is also torturing each other, and you can't get together. 3。When two people are uncomfortable together, even if they love each other, they will drain their love.

Now that you've made up your mind to separate, don't look back. Since you broke up because of some issues, and you will quarrel in the future for these reasons, you have to think clearly about what you want.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

Kiss, 1, most of the usual breakups are because of quarrels, in the case of impulse, two people do not want to break up out of their own answers. Often after calming down for a while, they still love each other. 2. After the breakup, if one party still can't forget the other party, then I suggest that you can go to the front and ask if you can be together again?

Because if fate really comes to an end, you should also be completely dispelled from the idea of being together, and only by completely dying will you not forget. 3. If the original separation was due to some uneasy reasons. I think the two sides can settle down for a while, and when the time is ripe, they will act decisively.

4. After experiencing the current one, I found that I still love you more and will get back together. Everyone likes to compare, and parents will say that other people's little groups are staring at their children. Couples will talk about how good someone else is.

Sometimes we don't talk about it, but in our hearts we mind more. 5. The value of the other party has increased, and you regret it. Or maybe your value has decreased, and you're afraid that no one will want it.

Man is always afraid of losing, even if he doesn't need it anymore and doesn't care anymore. But he got used to it, especially when the other party changed.

This is because most of the people who take the initiative to say that they are breaking up in the relationship are more impulsive people, who do not think clearly, and after separation, they feel more and more that the other party is very good, so they will feel regret and want to get back together.

Maybe it's because when you break up, you don't really think about it, but you just want to do things, and in the back, with the accumulation of time, you slowly remember the good of the other party, and think that only one person who really loves you is the best in life.

Because after saying that I broke up, I knew how much I liked each other and knew the benefits of the other party, so I regretted it and wanted to get back together.