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In fact, it's good to say anything, you have to ask your heart what you think, just like the Supreme Treasure He can't deceive anyone who can't deceive his heart, you have to figure out whether you will be willing to live that kind of life, if you give birth to a girl in the future, will she protect you without hesitation, will you be happy together, in fact, most of the love that can't get the blessing of your parents will not be happy, love is only interesting when it comes to reluctance, it will be sweet, sometimes even you can't tell whether it is love that you are reluctant to separate, or because you are reluctant to be together! In fact, my experience is very similar to yours, and my parents disagree, and my family environment is not as good as hers, but the difference is that I am still young and have a bright future, I can take her to settle down in the big city, the difference is that my parents are very good, and they will like it because I like it! But in the end, it was still separated, I thought I would go crazy if I left her, but the truth is that I have forgotten the past, and I am trying to work hard for my future wife, everything is up to me!
Wishing you happiness!
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My parents don't like him either, saying that Zhanjiang is too poor, and he won't have the money to buy a house in Guangzhou, and Zhanjiang is very patriarchal, if he gives birth to a girl in the future, he can't even enter the house, my grandfather also said that he helped us tell our fortunes, and our physiognomy is a big murderer, which is not suitable.
Your family is good for you, it seems that you are really not suitable, and if you have a good relationship now, it does not mean that you will always be so good to you in the future, if you marry into his family, his parents don't like you and treat you badly, do you think he will help you or help his parents?
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Sometimes, we say that love can conquer everything. But in fact, love alone is not enough.
Love, after adding a lot of labels, is no longer pure.
What you should care more about is your later life than love itself.
Obviously the two of you are together and have a hard time with your life later on. Unless this boy is accomplished, he just can't hold his head up in front of your parents. And if you want to marry him, then you will definitely be offended more.
So, when this kind of thing happens, either your family is very wealthy and doesn't ask this boy for anything, or this boy is very competitive and works hard for you to achieve something.
Don't say anything, just have love. When you're a little older, you'll understand. But I hope you don't regret it at that time.
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I think love is just two people who get along well with the opposite sex yearning for a better life, I think as long as you can respect each other and fulfill your obligations, living in harmony can be completely ignored. Feeling is something that doesn't last long, but material things last a lifetime. What's more, their family still has that kind of patriarchal thinking, it's too terrifying, if the two of you get married, you will be the one who suffers and suffers.
Think about it. Many female compatriots have learned from the past, and after getting married, they regret not listening to the advice of their family and friends. After all, people live to live better, not to suffer for whom.
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If you want to love, you have to be desperate!
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Hehe, if you really like and love each other, then no difficulties can stop you! Because money can be earned, and if you don't choose the right relationship, you may regret it for the rest of your life, you can choose a compromise with your boyfriend, such as don't go back to his hometown to live, and don't let him buy a suite in Guangzhou, as long as you like it, it's not the same everywhere, do you say yes?
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A marriage without family support is imperfect, and you are not approved by both parents, can't you elope?
Now you love each other, you can think that true love trumps everything, but what about later? Can you guarantee that you will love each other forever? Maybe you will always quarrel over small things like firewood, rice, oil, and salt in the future Society is realistic, and it can only be said that your parents are absolutely for your good, if you swap roles with your parents, I believe you will make the same decision, think about it carefully, don't be carried away by love, reason can solve everything
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It's really not a good fit
Marriage is a matter of 2 families, you think clearly
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Don't give up just because of someone else's opinion.
Because their fate is in their own hands.
Bless you all! Remember: you can earn money if you don't have money, but it's hard to find true love if you lose it.
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True love can complete everything.
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The same is true for the feelings that ideals will eventually yield to reality.
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Take your time, now that he has just started working, his ability still needs to be exercised, as long as he has a self-motivated heart, everything will be fine! Moreover, you are still studying, and it is still early to get married!
Use your hearts to slowly influence both parents!
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If you truly love each other, nothing is a stumbling block for you. You're making excuses for yourself.
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