How can you tell if you ve let him or her go?

Actually, it's very simple, the real letting go is not caring about that person at all. Even after hearing his news, there will be no more inner fluctuations, and it can even be said that you don't know this person.

If you like someone, then his words and deeds, every move will affect you, for fear that he will have an accident. Once he sends you a message or a **, it will make you happy for a long time, and his face is full of happy smiles. But when you really let go of him, you'll treat him as a stranger, the kind that won't turn you back if you walk side by side.

And if you really let go of a person and are not afraid of all his news in the future, even if he calls you ** to ask for reunion, you can be full of indifference and end this topic. You can talk to him about what you can say about the day, and you don't feel embarrassed at all like between friends. Or that after he finds the new half, you can also really smile and bless him, so that you can really let go.

If you really let go of him, you will feel troublesome or even bored with his unreasonable demands, and you will no longer be accommodating to him. When you question yourself why you were with him in the first place, this is also a real letting go of him, because if you still like him, your eyes are absolutely his good points, and you automatically ignore all the bad points.

So, in fact, judging this kind of thing is actually very simple, as long as you ask your own heart, ask if there is a place for him in it. The real letting go is never just just talking, but with the consumption of time and the growth of experience, it is necessary to really move him out of his heart.

Whether you let go or not depends on your own heart. What was your first reaction when you mentioned her? This one doesn't lie.

If she is mentioned, with another schoolgirl. Your heart cares about her first and foremost. That proves that you still have her in mind.

is still unconsciously making her special. And when you mention her, your reaction is the same as everyone else's. That means you've put it down.

The easiest way to wonder if to let go of someone is how you feel when you hear that he has a boyfriend or girlfriend. If you're uncomfortable, it's very uncomfortable, it's proof that you haven't let go. If you don't care, wish her happiness, it means that you let go.

In fact, there are too many times when we can't let go not because of love, but because of unwillingness. The reason why we are uncomfortable is not that we have lost it, but that others have gained it. Everyone is selfish, and what they don't get will be uncomfortable when others get it, and it has nothing to do with liking, but with comparison.

So when you think about whether to let go of someone, you have to consider whether it is because you can't let go of love or because you are unwilling. If you are unwilling, just find a girlfriend. If it's because of love, it fades after a long time.

In fact, we don't need to worry about whether we let go or not, because whether we let go or not, it will be over after all. Whether you let go or not, you will eventually let go. Life is constantly looking forward, there is no need to always look back at the past, people who always look back and walk are prone to fall.

In fact, when you ask this question, it means that you have not let go. But whether you let go or not, it's not the most important thing. Let go of yourself and be free, and if you can't let go, you will be sad for a while.

We will eventually meet someone who will be with us for the rest of our lives, let him pass the past.

I've seen a passage that says, "Are you still thinking about him? "I've forgotten about him" "But I haven't said who it is."

You see, this kind of person is the one who doesn't let go at all. As long as someone else says a word, no matter what they say, even if it is a word in the life of a person, you will think of that person. That's the biggest thing I can't let go.

How can you decide? When you mention that person, you just smile, but you don't have the feeling of grandeur before. When looking for the next one, I won't deliberately find someone who is very similar to that person, but because I have feelings, I want to be together, that's all.

How to say it, I watched a movie and suddenly forgot what it was called. I just remember that there was a scene where the girl knew that the person she had always liked would come to the class reunion, even if she had broken up for six or seven years, she would still dress up well for that person and wear a bandeau dress in the winter, but after arriving, she learned that the person did not come because he was terminally ill. She smiled and said it was so good, and asked her friend if she could donate bone marrow to him.

You see, it's a typical can't let go.

From now on, whether you are wind or rain, mediocre or gorgeous, thrilling or indisputable, I will bless you. Happy for you, too. It should be said that if you are not doing well, I will not laugh at you, and if you are doing well, I will not envy you.

That's the best way to put it down. After breaking up, you don't have to rush to delete all the memories that a person left you, wait until you feel that you are good enough, and then slowly look at those memories again, and you will find that you are slowly letting go.

In fact, when we are in a hurry to delete a person, is it because of deep love? The answer is unknown. But I know that if one day, you will laugh at all the dynamics of that person, and not hesitate.

Even at that person's wedding scene, smile and bless her, so that you still say that you didn't let go? It's just obsession. He is the past, you have a better future, hold the past too tightly in your chest, you will not be able to free up your hands to embrace the present and the future.

Let's let it go. In the world, there is always your best.

I want to make sure that I have let go of the other party, but I don't feel so heartache when I think of him, and I don't have the same attachment to her as I just broke up. When he met someone or something he had experienced before, it was still the same as the first time he saw him, without any complicated emotions.

From time to time, ask yourself if he will be nervous if he comes back to you, whether he will feel the urge to embrace him, or if he wants to say sorry to him, that he can't give him happiness in this life, or something like that.

Either it's like an old friend you haven't seen in years, or it's like seeing a stranger, not happy or sad. If you are in love, will you be 100% emotionally invested in the other person, whether there is really no impurity in his feelings, and will not compare him with your ex.

When everyone can't let go of their ex, even if they are in love, they are not in their hearts, which is why some people always feel that their current person hides a lot of secrets in his heart, and he is unwilling to open his heart to tell himself.

In addition to having something to do with personality, a very important reason is that he didn't let go at all, sometimes openly and honestly tell the other party about your past and your past, without any nonsense, dare to confess to the other party how sweet and happy he was with his ex, these are all manifestations of having let go.

Some people begin to cringe when they talk about marriage, even if they are good to each other before, if they really mention marriage, he begins to hesitate: whether this person should marry or should marry in his life, and even when he hears the news that his ex is going to get married, he is particularly worried, and he can't wait for the other party to marry himself.

His heart is jealous and broken, instead of sincerely blessing, if so, then he will definitely not let go. I want to remind those who haven't let go of their ex by the way, don't fall in love casually, if you want to talk, be really good to each other, if you still have someone else in your heart, then don't deceive yourself.

I used to like someone, but after all, I had to separate, and I had to leave before I could confess. After that, it can be said that she lived in my heart for a long time, so long that I forgot her appearance in my memory, and it was so long that she was yellow when she was damp. <>

At the beginning, I would still think of her from time to time, the girl I used to like, and I regretted why I didn't confess quickly, maybe I would keep her, but everything was not possible, just self-deception. In the time after that, I didn't see her, and whenever I missed it, I would take a look**, but because of the move, **I also lost it, and I could only rely on memories to miss it, but how long can memories last? I don't know, but now that I can't remember her face clearly, it's like a mist, and the number of thoughts is getting less and less, and I believe that I've begun to let go, let go of this relationship that didn't start.

Time is the best medicine, let me forget the past, let her who was once important in my heart become insignificant, maybe this is a sign of letting go, liking someone may be simple, it only takes a second, but it is difficult to let go of a person, it takes six years. As mentioned above, the number of memories gradually decreases, and the memories become more and more blurry, I think these are enough to judge whether I let go of her, and indeed I let go of her, but why do I still remember her? I don't know, what I know is that I let go of her, and my memory is blurred, but I don't want this little memory to disappear in the end, I want to keep it desperately, but I find that I can't keep it anyway.

Since the breakup two years ago, there has been no news of her for a long time, one is that I don't take the initiative to contact, and the other is that in my opinion, there is really no need for that, because the wrong person is not me, so I may still have some grudges in my heart, and I don't want to think about the person who makes me sad again.

Originally, the relationship between the two people was very good, and I never minded saying that I felt troublesome and tired because of the long-distance relationship, but I can also accept a normal and reasonable reason for breaking up, but my last girlfriend just made me have a shadow of a long-distance relationship. Maybe for many people, especially girls, long-distance relationships are a very painful thing, because they can't find anyone when they need help a lot, and they feel lonely when they need someone to care for themselves, so I really can't stand it and break up, my situation is almost like this, it's just that I was deceived in this way, and in fact I have a new boyfriend, I really feel disappointed and hated after I know it. <>

Later, during a milk tea drink, a sister talked about this problem and said, "If you see her again, will you say hello to her again?" Maybe it wasn't a long time at the time, and I didn't spend that painful time, so I just said that it wouldn't, and then she said that it was because you hadn't let go of your ex-girlfriend, and if you really felt that you had let go of your previous things, it wouldn't be like this, and I really didn't understand what she meant at the time, maybe it was out of a boy's face, I think no one would allow such a thing to happen, because if two people really want to break up, that's okay, As long as it's a suitable reason, it's acceptable, especially for me, if you can't be a lover, you can continue to be friends, why do you want to do such a shameless thing, let yourself be embarrassed and hurt others at the same time.

Since I experienced that incident, I really don't know if I let go or not, but as time goes by, I think I will slowly forget, after all, it is a really unhappy thing.

If I've given my youth to someone I've loved, but we don't end up being partners, then I'll have to learn to put him down for a new life. I think people who have truly loved each other want each other to be better than themselves. At least that's what I think.

When two people fall in love, every bit is a memory, this sentence is not wrong at all, so that when you choose to give up the person you love deeply, it may sometimes seem quite easy because of stubbornness and stubbornness, and the real difficulty is to come out of the memories and space full of him. One of your turns may habitually feel that he should be waiting behind him, one of your actions may be empty there and imagine that he will reach out to take it, sometimes wake up, always feel that there is still his temperature and breath around him, yesterday's all kinds of dreams are like the first dream, people who nourish life by love, when they lose love, the most painful thing is also this kind of sadness and distress that is not a big sadness but is full of small losses.

But no matter what, you have to learn to let go of this sadness and stop yourself from looking pathetic and lonely. In your heart, you have to build a new aura and motivation for yourself. Then start picking up those loves that you have no choice but to give up because of love.

I think that there is no one who breaks up in love who is not wronged, and there is no one who does not give up something for love. So at this time, put away the self-confidence you have forgotten, give yourself a step of self-confidence again, take a step up, the sun will be closer, and if you take a step upward, you may be radiant.

At this time, when you think of him again, you may feel that how hard I love is, and the invisible smile on the corner of my mouth will become the real beginning of letting go of him.