I m getting depressed, who can excuse me?

The point is not your own problem, but the reason why you meet the villain. I think you have a couple of options right now.

1 is to take a decentralized approach when you feel like you're feeling in a bad mood. This is done by forcing yourself to think about something pleasant in your life, or to do something that you usually enjoy doing the most.

For example, if your hobby is playing the piano, you go to play the piano.

2. You should be happy for yourself. Because. Such a villain is exposed in front of you as soon as possible, saving you from wasting your feelings. Besides, you don't deserve to be unhappy with such a villain.

3. You must do a good job in your career, which is the most important thing. At that time, all kinds of people will come to tie you up.

Finally, I wish you self-confidence. You think about your success every moment. You will look at those dirty villains with a smile on the eyes of the villains in the world.

Who can exonerate me?

Be prepared to help yourself first, and then ask for others' opinions

Instead, ask someone what to do and then do the same.

It's just a little thing that made you like this?..It's fine to clean it every day,..What other big things can be done?

I don't think he's talking to you, it's just that you're sensitive, and if your friends alienate you just because you have armpit odor, then they don't deserve to be your friends, they don't understand that people need to respect each other!

I also have smelly feet in the summer, and my friends know about it, but they don't care about it, but they also help me pay attention to all kinds of medicines, don't worry, everything is too nervous yourself.

An armpit odor makes you tired like this, what should you do if there is something else? Are today's students so vulnerable?

Everyone has their own body odor, just face it calmly, in ancient times, Yang Yuhuan had a fox smell, but he was still fascinated by the emperor!

Study hard and be a good man with armpit odor in the future, but he will fascinate a large number of people with his ingenuity and contributions!

Don't be too sensitive to some things in life, if you really worry about it for three or five days, there is a solution, which is to go to the other party and ask clearly. It's hard to guess what other people are thinking.

When the weather is cold, it is more beneficial to do armpit odor, and you can not take a bath during the stitch removal period.

Don't live in someone else's world!

You may have psychological problems and find a psychiatrist.

What kind of big problem is this, it's good to go to the doctor and solve it, don't be unconfident.

The crux of the problem is solved, I believe you will be fine, go for treatment.

Don't regard others as the pillars and goals of your own efforts, your efforts should be for yourself, always working hard for others, don't feel that life is too worthless, leaving you proves that it does not belong to you, why be sad about something that does not belong to you? I hope you can understand one thing, if you don't work hard subjectively, others can't help you no matter what, I hope you can cheer up as soon as possible, not for anything else, just for yourself! Come on!

Let me tell you a story. There was a girl with good grades, and on the day she finished the college entrance examination, the head of their class took a notebook and threw it to her! When the girl went home and opened it, it was full of the class leader's emotional narration of herself!

Later, they got together, and the class president was the champion of liberal arts that year, and they had a good relationship. In the boy's senior year, he was escorted abroad, and the boy's father begged the girl to leave his son and fulfill his son's career, and the girl agreed. The girl is going home and getting married soon!

The boy thought that the girl had betrayed him and resolutely went abroad, and a few years later at the class reunion, at this time the girl was already a mother, and the girl saw the boy turn around and leave, and the boy chased him out and asked the girl why she left herself! The boy found out that his father had found her, and he regretted it! Now the boy is in Kuwait and the girl is my teacher.

The teacher said: "Once, I deliberately forgot him, in exchange for just sleepless every night, tears dried, and depression, and then I thought about his disadvantages, thought about my husband's benefits, and slowly the depression was also cured, to be honest, my heart is struggling, he is still waiting for me to divorce!" In the end, he got married, and I was happy for him, and I lived a full life.

After saying that, she began to cry.

It turns out that the feelings that have been buried for so long are still so moving!

I've written so much, I may not be able to help you, just to send a sigh.

Hello, through your statement, I found out that you have dependent personality disorder, a mental illness that people with mental illness feel devastating at the end of an intimate relationship, and a certain escape from reality.

The reason for this psychology of yours is based on the deep feelings that have been engraved in your heart in the past.

The only thing you can do to get the so-called liberation is to build an independent personality, to try to live the life you want with your own ideas, to get rid of the habit of dependence on her.

In fact, in real life, the separation and integration of feelings are common, deep feelings are only relative in the face of reality, and the pursuit of the life they want is everyone's right, no one can live without anyone, and you are the same, I sincerely hope that you can get out of the past and pursue happiness independently.

Then you should cheer up and do your business well. So that you have the capital to pursue your girlfriend again. Prove that you are still capable of taking care of her, and you will still give her happiness!

Go to a quiet place, or listen to the wise man. If you really want to change, reflect on your life, and if you feel that you can't change your fate at this time, then try to accept what he brings to you. This is an open-minded attitude towards life, and if you can really come out of it all, then your life has been sublimated.

There is only one person in this life who can accompany you through the whole journey, and that is yourself.

Think about it, why should you be so difficult with yourself.

It seems that she is also a realistic person, and no matter what, you don't have the ability to chase her back if you don't have a career now. Put aside the emotional things first, and maybe you have a chance to get it back after you have a career. Maybe after having a career, another relationship will follow.

In short, everything is difficult for a man without a career!

If she left you because you were financially bad.

Then such a person is not worthy of your love.

The way to let go of a person is as simple as finding someone who is worthy of your love.

It was once difficult to turn the sea into water.

Except for Wushan, it is all clouds!

You are a good girl, and you have a good heart, I can see that. However, you are also a negative person, a pessimist. I think you need sunshine.

You have something wrong with your body, but it doesn't really matter. The main thing is that you don't dare to eat, right? I'll tell you a real thing.

I have a friend, a very beautiful girl, who has a disease and can't eat, and she vomits even if she eats even one egg at a meal. You can imagine how weak her body will be. She is still a high school student, she has to face the college entrance examination, and such a body is going to face the third year of high school, what kind of pain do you think she will face?

But she was very strong and very sunny. All she showed us was her happiness. Your situation is heaven for her.

What psychological shadow do you have? You can be as sunny as her. When there is a psychological shadow, you might as well think about her.

Besides, the doctors all said it was fine, so trust the doctors.

I have acne and scars on my face, but it's nothing. I'm telling you, my body is covered with wounds and scars. But I'm alive and well now.

You're just on the face, it's good! Scars are ugly, who said that? If it's ugly, it's not as good as others, and who said that?

If so, then table tennis player Li Xiaoxia can go and hang herself! Believe in yourself, you're good, really good.

Your boyfriend is very good to you, and he's getting married, so what's not worth it? It's not easy to find a man who is good to you, cherish him and let him love you. I wish you all happiness.

Life is actually beautiful. How nice it is to wake up early every day, see the rising sun, go to the park to feel nature, and experience the existence of beauty. Even if there is a sunset, it is a gorgeous curtain call for the opening of the stars. Life is nothing more than that.

Look for the light with a pair of eyes that are good at discovering beauty, and tell yourself every day, im the best!You'll regain the sunshine. I hope you will get rid of the shadows as soon as possible and regain your beauty.

None of this is a big deal for you, as long as you work hard and be diligent in other areas.

A little relieved, I thought like this: there are many people who are uglier than me, and people who are worse than me. What are they afraid of, what they like to say.

I want to know to myself that I have raised a white and beautiful person, what else can they say at that time? Dress yourself up well. It's not that bad.

The so-called ordinary people are less than the top and more than the bottom. You are not the only one with tooth decay and acne scars on your face. Appearance does matter.

But as a man, it's the inner qualities that matter. Why not take a look at those athletes with disabilities. They can get out of the trough of their life that is much deeper than yours.

Why do you always look at yourself with pessimism? Inner inferiority complex is so painful. In fact, everyone has advantages.

You may not know yourself at all, which is why you have such low self-esteem.

Your girlfriend loves you so much, why don't you ask her what she likes about you? She may have spotted your strengths. In the future, I will have to find more of my own strengths. Hehe.

Actually, I felt like I couldn't do anything compared to others.

I often use this phrase – I am deeply honored to be one of the most advanced species on earth. I'm at least still a human being.

Lad:

Hello, I understand your current mood very well, from a psychological point of view, your current disorder is called "body image disorder", which is mainly reflected in dissatisfaction with your physical appearance and causes thermal inferiority. The main reason why people suffer from physical image disorders is that they are afraid that others will not accept them because of their physical defects. For example, if you are afraid that others will not accept you because of the acne on your teeth and face, you will not dare to fall in love.

What can be done to change this? The first thing is to accept reality. Because it is difficult to change people's appearance in a short period of time, since it is not easy to change, then accept it and acknowledge it.

Second, when accepting it, look down on it and adopt an attitude of indifference. Secondly, increase personal cultivation and practice personal internal skills. There was once a world-famous pianist in France, and his ** touched countless audiences, but his height was talented.

He says his height makes his art. So, it's not terrible to have a flaw in appearance, it's scary to let this flaw defeat you, right?

Melancholy, find something to vent out, such as going to climb a mountain or something, playing ball or something, to reduce stress.

Do you want to be perfect in everything?

I think everybody has this kind of mentality, it's just a different severity, and according to you, I think you're a perfectionist and you strive to be perfect in everything.

So you will be very concerned about whether things are done well or not, and at the same time, you will also be very concerned about what others think of you, and you always want to be a capable and effective person in the hearts of others.

Therefore, there is no room for any flaws, no shortcomings.

Actually, I don't know what to do.

Can only give you some advice :

1.Try not to compare yourself with others who are better off than you, as you will feel inferior.

2.Try to think about your own benefits, strengths. Increase self-confidence.

3.Feel your own shortcomings, and dare to talk to others about your shortcomings (if not something unseemly).

4.Think of people who are worse off than you, they can all live happily, why can't you?

Hehe, actually, I belong to people like you, and I have a strong self-esteem.

Finally, I will give you a word: There is no one who is perfect.

You can't see a psychiatrist for your situation, they can't help you. Alarm clocks won't help you either. I'll help you change your life:

Remember, from now on, don't draw lots, don't tell fortunes, don't pray, don't make wishes, don't ask and don't think. Only alms and labor. Three years later there was a miraculous effect.

You are typical of OCD, "**" approach to four words "go with the flow".

1 Psychological cues affect you a lot.

2 Special abilities. It is necessary to find professional talents to solve it.

I didn't find the motivation to live and there was nothing to be happy about.

It is recommended that you spend more time with your family and find your own value in life.

Living is not just about eating, but about having a higher quality of life.

In the same way, I feel happy to find something that interests me to do.

What causes it?

I feel the same way, I don't know what the use of being alive is.

What's wrong? If there is anything to ask, come out and see if I can help.

I'm sure you'll be able to have fun all day long.

I seem to have had days like you before, and it's really uncomfortable, thinking that I was independent, but I was out of the group.

You just need to smile at others, even if it's just shallow, and I believe that in the long run, you will become like me, and you will be very happy every day.