poured out my money to ask for help on a blind date, and I didn t feel like I should give up or cont

Your situation is much better than mine.,I'm not sure if the girl is very interested in you.,But at least you can come out for a meal or something.,It means that I don't particularly hate you.,I think,Since the conditions are okay or something.,Or should you get in touch.,After all, it's not so easy to find a common topic in the beginning of the relationship.。 Try to talk to her about things that interest her, and she's the kind of person who talks a lot, so you don't have to get too tired. I've met the kind of person who asked the other party to answer a sentence on a blind date, I asked for a long time, and the other party sent me a few words, very tired.

So according to your situation, that girl should also be trying to date you, you should continue to be a girl for a while, if after a month or two, she still doesn't take the initiative to contact you, then it really doesn't feel it, you can give up.

You have to figure out what kind of girl you're looking for.

After all, it is with her that will live in the future.

Inevitably, there will be pressure at home.

If you are identified, you must take the initiative to pursue it.

Women like men to take the initiative.

Make an appointment to come out and have fun and get in touch.

Don't always have QQ text messages.

Really, two people get along with each other face-to-face.

Hopefully, you will succeed in finding your significant other.

I don't feel like it's going to be clear as soon as possible, don't delay other girls.

I recently went on a blind date, and the girl didn't take the initiative, but I was very active, and now the development is okay, and I have nothing to say at the beginning, so the boy will take the initiative, don't chat online, send text messages and call **.

If you don't like it, let it go, and there are still people waiting for you?? Ask yourself first, what kind of one do you want to find, and my brother is optimistic about it before starting

If you don't feel it, don't be together, or you can cultivate your feelings and take your time.

If you don't feel it, don't force yourself, maybe people feel it too, be honest with your parents, good child.

If there is no feeling, even if it is painful to be together.

Then give up.

When it is broken, it is broken, and it is constantly disturbed.

Two originally strangers suddenly got together, there must be no topic at first, the important thing is to get to know each other first, if you don't even feel this way after getting along for a while, then you don't have to be far-fetched together.

I don't feel like I'm touching anything!

Give up if you don't feel it.

It's very simple: if you like him, go after her, and if you don't, tell your parents that you don't like him.

Being together without a common topic can also be tiring. Happiness is your own, and if you want to go your own way, you should learn to make trade-offs. Your parents want you to be nice to her, but they want you to be happy. Got it? If you like it, try again, take the initiative, I really don't feel like it ended early.

The blind date is to give two strangers a chance to get to know each other and explore whether it is possible for Rukai to develop into a romantic relationship. Therefore, in the process of blind date, it is not necessary to immediately confirm the relationship, but to understand the other party as much as possible, including the other party's personality, interests, values, etc., to determine whether there is enough common ground and attraction.

Confirming a pre-Oak relationship should be based on sufficient understanding and trust from both parties, rather than making a hasty decision just because you attended a blind date. Therefore, after the blind date, both parties can stay in touch to get to know each other better, and only consider further developing the relationship if both parties feel right.

It should be noted that during the blind date process, you should respect each other's feelings and choices, and you should not force the other party to make decisions or feel pressure. If you are not willing to develop the relationship further, you should tell the other person directly to avoid causing unnecessary harm to each other.

I think if you have a good impression of others, you can take the initiative, and you can also ask the other party to be more introverted, and they are also waiting for you to take the initiative, so love still needs to be fought for by yourself.

According to my experience, if she says it's not suitable, doesn't feel it, and you're a little confused, then there are several possibilities:

1.Generally, after the blind date, her parents will go to your village and neighbors to explore the family history, reputation or something. This is especially common in rural areas, where 80-90% of blind dates die on it.

Because there are so many long-tongued women in every place, lest the world is not chaotic, nonsense, my friend once encountered, first the man in the village someone went to the woman's house to say that the man's house has a fox smell, and then the woman's village someone went to the man's house to say that the woman's family has hepatitis, and so on, these people are really hateful, but there are everywhere. In general, in this case, the woman will use the excuse that her personality is incompatible, she has no feeling, and she has no fate. There's nothing you can do.

My friend succeeded in the end because the parties were very resolute, trusted each other, and even did not hesitate to turn against their families, get on the bus first and then buy a ticket...

2.I don't hate you, I don't like it, I talk about it first but continue to go on a blind date, and I get to a better place. (She thinks she's not necessarily better than you).

3.I talked about my boyfriend before, but I broke up temporarily for various reasons, but after going on a blind date n times, I found out that it was still my ex-boyfriend, and I got back together.

This is the most disgusting person, and generally this situation has been talked about for n years, and it is all bad.

The first possibility is the most likely, and there are almost no solutions.

But there are 2 pieces of advice: meet the girl you like on a blind date next time.

1.Confidentiality: You must keep it secret, she must also keep it secret, and you must not let the people in the village see it until the relationship is fully confirmed, even to the extent of meeting both parents, you have to go out for dinner and meeting, and you have to keep a low profile when you go to the house at night when there are few people.

2.Fast, fast, fast: quick knife to cut through the mess, no trick, just fast, before those boring people have reacted, you have already received the certificate.

Of course, the most important thing is that the girl you are looking for and her parents have strong ears, are not easy to listen to rumors, and have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong. Of course, it's not up to you to decide.

Finally, I wish you to find your desired object as soon as possible.

If you think it's useful, add more gold coins to me, haha, pure manual experience, and my hands are sore.

I'll talk to her again in a few days. Have a meal together, prepare a small gift she likes, get rid of some of your problems, be gentlemanly, be generous, and it is best to do what she likes, If she still feels that it is not suitable, then you can only let it go completely.

I must go to her again, if I don't agree, it's the same effect as if you don't look for her, but what if she agrees?!!

Got it??

If you don't go, you may regret it for the rest of your life!

It's not appropriate, it must be that she thinks she wants to find something better. What you have to do is to show yourself the best in yourself, there is no one person with 100 points, only two people with 50 points. The most important city:

Sincerely, persistently. If she doesn't reject you very much, hold on for a while, impress her with sincerity, and show it with practical actions. I wish you happiness.

If you can't do it once, you can do it twice, and you have to cherish it even more after all the hard work.

Feelings are consensual, and twisted melons are not sweet.

I'm looking for it, there are still a lot of good girls. He's not alone.

The family conditions are good, and the honest blind date man, but there is not much common language, should such a man marry?

The family conditions are good, and the honest blind date man, but there is not much common language, should such a man marry?

Netizens confided: If the blind date man is honest, has a stable job, and has good family conditions, but after a period of contact, I find that I can't talk to him, what should I do, is it important to talk about it or not? I can't talk about it, for example, if he says something, I think it's interesting and happy, but I think it's boring to talk to him!

This is not a question to ask anyone else, but to yourself.

For example, I can't talk about it, but I can let other things go in order to talk: for example, my family background is average, my work is average, and my appearance is average. Because I'm more focused on spiritual fit.

But there are also people who don't value this, or in other words, in terms of sorting, the point of "talking" is ranked last, and family background, income, appearance, etc. are ranked first. You might as well make a list of yourself and get to know yourself by the way.

Of course, love for the purpose of marriage is to enter into marriage, a stable marriage. Personally, I think that stable marital love, sex, and interests must have two, if there is no love for him, then the sex life must be harmonious, and the interests must be bound, of course, the other party must have the same idea, if you pursue a stable marriage, he pursues love, then after marriage, he may turn to the outside to pursue love, sexual harmony is impossible, three remove two, I think in most cases the marriage will not continue.

It seems to be the norm for all Chinese students to go to school, and it is also the requirement of almost all Chinese parents, the reality is that they have just graduated from college and have reached the marriageable age, and blind dates have become the way for many people to find a partner. So the question is, just graduated from college on a blind date, the blind date is right with him in all aspects, except for the lack of a heart-warming love, everything else seems to be fine, should I marry a blind date man?

From **Lily Net.

If you marry a blind date man, it means that you will step into married life, and you will have children for him before you have experienced the heartbeat, and your life seems to be like this. If you miss this blind date man, will you be able to meet such a good person in the future? The people who are excited have not appeared yet, will there really be in the future?

All kinds of uncertainty about the future are confusing and hesitant, even if there is no love, should you marry the right blind date man? This is an unsolvable problem, dilemma, it is always difficult to make up your mind, but it is more like a gamble, the bet won a lifetime of peace and joy, the bet lost, chic and said a word of defeat, laughing and saying that the besieged old lady withdrew first. Marriage is a woman's second life, and I hope everyone can find their own peace and joy.

You can't meet the right person on a blind date, do you think it is possible to find a partner in other ways? If you want to be single, you can give up.

In fact, she cares about you, you are like this, she wants to see your reaction, whether you love her, take her to your side to work.

I think she's still interesting to you, otherwise I won't tell you about blind dates and job hunting, and I want to tell you this to see what your attitude towards her is, after all, you are in a different place, maybe not often together, she can't figure out whether you want to be together with her or not, I think it's a test of you, girls are generally embarrassed to show their hearts at the beginning, I hope boys take the initiative, I think the problem between you is that you don't talk about it, boys should take the initiative, and they understand girls when they want to deal with them. That way, the girl would not have to ask such tentative questions.

She should feel that you gave her a promise and no real action. You should have picked her up first.

Listen to me, the best thing is to give up.