How can you let yourself see and not be upset

Do your own thing, what do you care about a child?

Since you are helping your wife and sister take care of this child, then be kind to him, what are you doing so much, if you manage too much, it may make your wife unhappy, and she will be angry, then it will be a big deal in your family.

Let your wife take care of him! If you really can't stand it, just scatter your mind and let yourself enlighten yourself is the best way to deal with it!

It seems that you are a person who is not self-sufficient, and what is the anger of a 4-year-old child? It's a kid at best, it's unnecessary! Relatives entrust their treasures to you, it is a trust in you, it is the result of family affection, and besides, it will not be a long time, you should be patient and take care of it.

Now the four-year-old child has learned to speak, what you do, the child is in the eyes, remember, why the child is afraid of you, it is this, don't because the child affects your intimate relationship with relatives, it is not good.

Cats and dogs know how to be warm", if you are good to him, he will kiss you and listen to you. No matter how stubborn other people's children are, they don't need us to correct them, you should be open-minded, don't be like children, think of this, you won't be upset when you see it.

The child is like this, he has to use his brain to move, just let him move! You do your thing, out of sight and out of mind.

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life!