Wouldn t it be tiring to marry such a man

Violence should be avoided, but you still have to think about it carefully.

I think it's better to make it clear to him that if he can't change it, then it's better to break up, and the long pain is better than the short pain, so that he can also realize the seriousness of the problem. Of course, he can change it to the best, and it shows that he loves you very much, but according to what you said, I think he should love you very much, which is better than him ignoring you. And after you get married, you live together, and there is no problem you said, he can see you when he comes back, not to mention that he will not say that you don't love him when they are married.

To sum up, he deserves your love, try to tolerate him!! I wish you happiness o( o

I have a relative who died of alcohol poisoning due to an overdose, leaving behind orphans and widows, and it looks pitiful.

Not to mention those who drink and drive, it is said that drinking for a long time is extremely damaging to the liver and kidneys, and even the life of the husband and wife is affected.

Alcoholics do not live long, and their health will not be good.

That temper is even worse, and you still see his good side now.

Gambling, drinking, and violence must not marry.

Don't marry this kind of person. Because that's the kind of person I'm marrying, and I don't know how painful it is.

There are two situations when a man is drunk, one is that he is calm after drinking, but he is a little sleepy. There is also a kind of person who is drunk to vent his anger at some injustice, complaining about his friends or relatives, and over time there will be a tendency to be violent after drinking, according to what you said, your boyfriend is very vexatious, and his girlfriend is willing to wake up and say some sour words when he sleeps, irrational, you will love very happily, you can't change it, what is revealed after drinking is the magnification of human nature, tell him to change his mind, drink less, be wise, and maybe saved, a man who will get drunk is not a good man. Although I am also a man, I hate to shout when I am drunk, and this kind of person is a little irrational.

First of all, find out why your boyfriend loves to drink, is he drinking or just drinking?

My husband and I also love to drink before dating, I asked the reason, he said it was because of loneliness, he was very tired when he went to work, and he didn't even have a real friend after work, so he often went to drink with friends to numb himself, and the performance after getting drunk was almost the same as your boyfriend's condition, I couldn't stand it at the beginning, but after being together for a long time, we all knew each other and had something to say, and I also persuaded him to drink less, and often told him how I felt about him, and he was quite understanding, and now he is much better, and he also drinks, but it is very regular, Two beers a day, I go to bed after drinking, and I sometimes have a drink with him to share a happy time during meals.

It is recommended that the landlord consider it carefully, he is so addicted to alcohol, it is really not a small problem. Think about whether you can stand it if you marry him and get drunk two or three times a week. Be careful.

Do you want to marry him?

I seem to have asked this question redundantly. You're thinking about what to do after marriage.

If you don't marry him, you won't have these problems. Marry him, then there are these problems you mentioned.

The key is whether he will change? How old is he?

It seems that drinking alcohol is still a big problem. In fact, age is sometimes important. Because I'm older, I'm steady!

If he loves you enough, he will definitely change it for you.

However, you can't use threatening ......

It's going to be tiring, but you still want to be with him. I can't bear to be together, and it's painful, hey, I'm just like you.

There are many such men around us, and they are machismo.

It's very serious, thinking that you just need to work hard and earn money to support your family, you won't care about your wife's thoughts, you won't help your wife take care of the children, do housework, you won't share all your wife's sorrows, and you'll be pure and macho.

of boys who get married will not feel married life.

Tired? Let's talk about this topic together!

1. A macho husband will not help his wife with housework, and the wife will be very tired.

If your husband is macho, then burying quietly as a wife is very tired, such a husband will not help his wife do any housework, the wife needs to buy vegetables, cook, mound, wash clothes, all the housework is borne by the wife, the husband treats the family as a hotel, only stays here, regardless of what to do.

Second, a macho husband will not help his wife take care of the children, thinking that the wife should take care of the children, and the wife has to work and take care of the children, which is very tiring.

If the husband is machismo, then he will not take care of the child, although the child is the crystallization of the love of two people, but the husband thinks that it is natural for the wife to take care of the child, he only needs to earn money to support the family, earn enough money, let the wife and the child spend, no matter how tired the wife is, the husband will not help, after work, the husband watches TV, reads the newspaper, lies on the sofa to rest, and does nothing else, if you marry such a husband, the wife is very tired.

3. A macho husband is not even willing to let his wife participate in the work, and only wants his wife to take care of the family.

A macho husband thinks that earning money to support the family is his own business, and the wife only needs to take care of the family, and if the wife affects the care of the family because of her participation in the work, then the husband will hold crooked pants and resent, and even alienate his wife.

Yes, because he always focuses on self-defeating and stares at me all the time, and has very high requirements for his scumbag wife, and he will be very angry when he is a little dissatisfied, so it is difficult to get along.

It should be more tiring than the infiltration match. Because of this machismo of theirs. It will make you feel especially unequal in your married life. And they have a strong desire to control and sell, which will make you feel that you don't have the freedom to accept it.

Many times married life will become more tired, because this kind of boy's thinking will be very special, and it will make his status very low.

In fact, I don't feel that life is very tiring, because most of the things have been done by this man, and I will become very relaxed.

No. My husband is not like this, my husband will not say tired in front of me, he is always very positive in front of me and never complains.

It's the same with my husband, who always says he's tired after work.

That's not the case with my husband, he will do the housework together when he comes home.

I think some men who eat soft rice are the most tired, because their hearts will be very entangled, they want to refute and keep their dignity, and they also want to live a good life, so their hearts will be very tired.

Men who like to be suspicious are the most tired, because men like Xu live in sorrow every day, and they have no privacy space for both parties, so they are very tired.

Men who like to be suspicious are the most tired, because such men live in worry every day, and they have no privacy space for both parties, so they are tired.

Men who can't make money are the most tired, because such men may be disliked by their other half in marriage, and they may also put a lot of pressure on themselves.

Careful.,Particularly selfish.,Always quarrel with women because of some small cherry blossom problems.,Particularly responsible.,Very good to everyone.,Such a man is very tired in marriage.,Bu Shou Cong is two extremes for these two kinds of men.。 One of these two types of men is that they care about their own feelings. Always self-centered, and always caring about other people's feelings, these two types of men are the most tired.

Men who love to worry are the most tired. Because such a man wants to manage everything well and wants to participate in the lives of all kinds of people, he is very tired of traveling and arguing.

In marriage, a man with a strong ambition is the most tired, because such a man is very tired outside, but he is not understood by his wife.

If you want to go to the Jane class, you have to cook for your other half, and when you go home at night, you have to open your eyes to coax the children, very responsible, and responsible men are generally very tired, but they are also very happy.

Men who are not assertive are the most tired. Because such a man doesn't know whether to listen to his wife or his mother, he has always made a choice in the middle.

If a man marries a wife who doesn't understand him and doesn't care about himself, he is most tired. This early man who works hard outside to make money to support his family, and when he returns home, he can't get the comfort of his wife, he will feel that life is very meaningless, and his heart is full of pain.

Men with very negative personalities are the most tired, because this type of man thinks more and feels that life is very tired and full of negative energy.

Very honest, very silent, such a person is very tired, because there is no way to express his thoughts, he can only endure it.

What kind of man is the most tired in <> marriage? Why is this filial piety? The kind that isn't honest enough with each other.,The kind that wears too many masks.。

The answer to this question depends on what the person values more about marriage, some people think that poor communication is the most tiring, and some people think that it is more tiring because of unequal feelings. Trust here includes two meanings, one is the most popular understanding, trusting the other party. Because of lack of trust, it will lead to problems such as not being honest, tentative, covering up, and not communicating, which will lead to unpleasant relationships between the two parties, and I am afraid that even quarrels will not be happy.

This kind of married life will only consume more patience and affection, and after a long time, of course, it will be tired. Another meaning is to trust yourself. Self-confidence in marriage is also important for managing married life.

I don't trust myself, I can't devote myself wholeheartedly, how can I really experience the ups and downs, if I don't really do it, I won't be thorough, if I don't have thoroughness, I will have worries, and if I have more worries, I will be tired. Some people avoid some problems in their marriage because they are not confident, and some people are overprotective of themselves and do not believe that they can manage a good married life.

But blind self-blinding and avoidance are useless, and the end result is that you have to be tired all the time, or you can't stand the outburst. Couples who only care about their own feelings and do not take the initiative to communicate problems are the most tired. Both sides always see that the other party is not doing well, cannot do what they think, and always feels that the other party cannot respect themselves and cannot be considerate of themselves.

So I feel that the other party is not good for me, and the reason for making up all kinds of things is not to take the initiative to communicate, you think you know the other party's thoughts, and you think you know him well enough, and he is like this. You think that he can do such a thing, it must be the cause of what you think is the cause, etc. And then the more you don't communicate, the more you can't communicate.

The quarrel and the cold war began, and both of them ended up getting tired of each other, feeling that the other didn't love them. Couples who also have to live together for children and families are the most tired.

Ma Bao Nan either cares too much about other people's feelings, and cares too much about some small details in marriage, which is the most tiring, because returning to envy some small auspicious disturbances will affect his heart, and he will also think crankily about himself, so he is very tired.

Men who worry about everything are tired, because in life, Duan Mo will not let his women do anything, he will do everything by himself, and he will do it himself.

Some men who do not have their own careers are the most tired, because such men will be disliked by their wives if they do not take responsibility, and they will also bear a lot of pressure in life.

Girls lack a sense of security, are suspicious and sick, often distrust unwise men and quarrel with men, often complain to men because of some trivial things, often pick thorns, be unforgiving, have no positive attitude towards life, selfishness and selfishness, women love vanity, and often unscrupulously oppress men and other such men are the most tired. Cha Tang replied.

Suizhen men who do housework every day, men who cook every day, men who take care of children every day, men who take care of their wives and rulers every day, and men who have to take care of their fathers and mothers after going home from work every day are the most tired.

Everything is ruined, nosy, Shishan is his own business to do, not his own business to manage, do not trust each other, the other party does not know to be diligent and thrifty, squandering, two people are not in harmony. Fiber.

Summary. If your husband is macho, then as a wife is very tired, such a husband will not help his wife do any housework, the wife needs to buy vegetables, cook, mound, wash clothes, all the housework is borne by the wife, the husband treats the family as a hotel, only stays here, regardless of what to do. If the husband is machismo, then he will not take care of the child, although the child is the crystallization of the love of two people, but the husband thinks that it is natural for the wife to take care of the child, he only needs to earn money to support the family, earn enough money, let the wife and the child spend, no matter how tired the wife is, the husband will not help, after work, the husband watches TV, reads the newspaper, lies on the sofa to rest, and does nothing else, if you marry such a husband, the wife is very tired.

If your husband is a macho thinker, then as a wife friend Shilingzi is very tired, such a husband will not help his wife do any housework, the wife needs to buy vegetables, cook, mound, wash clothes, all the housework is borne by the wife, the husband treats the family as a hotel, only stays here, regardless of what to do. If the husband is machismo, then he will not take care of the children, although the children are the crystallization of the love of two people, but the husband thinks that it is natural for his wife to take care of the children, he only needs to earn money to support the family, earn enough money, let the wife and the children spend, no matter how tired the wife is, the husband will not help, after work, the husband watches TV, reads the newspaper, lies on the sofa to rest, and does nothing else, if you marry such a husband, the wife is very tired.

Hello, I've been married for 30 years, and my husband's machismo makes me particularly tired, should I give up this marriage?

Could you please give me a suggestion?

Hello dear, then if you want to change this, you should talk to your husband about it, point out your husband's shortcomings directly, and then let your husband change such a state after the big shot. After talking to her husband once, then her husband must be able to understand some of his wrong behaviors, and he will pay more attention to what he says and does later, and many times he will respect his wife. Over time, this kind of machismo can be changed, the relationship between two people can develop normally, and the marriage can be happier.

Communication is quarrelling.

I love him very much, and he always communicates with him gently, but he doesn't listen at all.

If there is no love between the two of you, then you can consider divorce to make each other's lives better.

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Yesterday which royal cover I communicated with him should be because he likes to play mahjong and drink high blood sugar, every time I play late and go home Li Nao, I will be very angry, I told him yesterday that I am not happy if you play, and I will not let you play He is not happy, and this sentence quarreled.

His hobby, how can you change it if you want him to change it! If you really can't stand it, you can only get a divorce.