When is it appropriate to bring your girlfriend to meet your parents today?

I don't scold you ... Just against. Uh, or that I think that man is more suitable for their daughter than you, after all, apparently it has been a long time, and I must have seen it... Her parents are relatively understanding.

Liu Bei's recruitment is well known to passers-by.

This time the main thing is to have an understanding of how you behave depending on your creation.

Your girlfriend's parents won't scold you, you go, go maybe her parents have something uneasy to ask you about your future plans and so on, for parents to see their children have a boyfriend for a long time before, and the neighbors around them also know, feel that the impact is not good, and suddenly change another, so they will take into account the girl's face and reputation, and don't want to be asked when they get married, isn't there a person who has played so long, how did they change people again, in this way, her parents will be very embarrassed. So strongly opposed, but after all, if their daughter likes it, they will really get to know what kind of person this boy is now, so they will ask to see you, don't be afraid. You just have to go and behave decently.

Bring something along the way. Buy some fruit or something.

When your parents don't call you to your house to scold you, if you want to scold, you will scold you a long time ago. Her parents just want to see what the man they like so much is like, and if you really make them feel more satisfied, they will agree, of course, this satisfaction is compared with the man. So you just dress up and bring some gifts.

As for the outcome, it's not something you can control.

Pay attention to your personal image, don't hang your son, and speak in a measured manner" "Words and deeds should be reasonable, parents are concerned about having a good man to take care of their daughters, and they know what to do!" Don't be afraid, big %co= pay attention to personal image, don't hang the bell, speak in proportion "Words and deeds should be reasonable, parents care about having a good man to take care of their daughter, what to do is clear to themselves! Don't be afraid, be bold.

So many netizens have supported you.

I think you have to figure out your girlfriend's attitude first, if your girlfriend is two-faced and you don't know which one you like, then you don't want such a woman. If your girlfriend really loves you and wants to live with you for the rest of her life, then talk to her parents, you mainly tell his parents that no matter how long they have been talking before, no matter how good the man is, but they have broken up and no longer love your daughter, then everything for them is over, so why are you still thinking about the previous man! Your daughter is so good, why wait for others to turn back, she is fully qualified to choose the person she likes.

I will love your daughter well and will take care of her for the rest of her life.

Act at the opportunistic level, and dismantle the move when you encounter it.

I won't scold you. You just have to be careful.

He won't scold you, he probably just wants to meet you.

Meeting you represents a chance to be, otherwise they wouldn't have spent that time!

Be yourself, don't deliberately disguise yourself, it shouldn't be difficult to win.

There is no particularly accurate time to meet your parents, and it depends more on your relationship. When your relationship reaches a certain level and you have a certain atmosphere, it is natural to meet your parents.

This matter cannot be rushed or delayed. Only when you have a certain foundation in your relationship, and each other has the courage to face the future and the determination to take responsibility, can you truly mature to face your future.

Love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan", although this sentence is said a lot by everyone, but many people who fell in love when they were young did not think so much. But now that you are old, it is natural to want to choose a stable partner and start a married life.

So a question that must be considered when falling in love, how long is it appropriate to meet parents? Personally, I feel that the relationship is stable, and when it is time to get married, I can go to meet my parents.

After more than three months of dating, the passion for each other will begin to slowly cool down. Because at this time, in addition to caring about the sweet time between the two of you, you will also find each other's shortcomings.

If you can accept these shortcomings of the other party, you can take him home to accept the test of your family, if there is no problem in all aspects, flash marriage is not impossible. The girl wants her partner to take her home.

In a relationship, a girl seems to be more concerned about when her boyfriend takes her home to meet her parents. Sometimes when a girl has already identified her current partner as a lifelong partner, she wants to take him to meet her parents. Compared with the woman's meeting with the parents, the pressure on the man to meet the woman's parents is greater, so it is generally better for the woman to meet the man's parents first.

But in a relationship, there is no fixed number of how often to see the parents, and it is completely determined according to the wishes of the two people. When two people are dating, meeting their parents is a hurdle.

Why do you say that, because meeting your parents means that you really accept the other person as your other half from the bottom of your heart, and are willing to let the parents test him. Therefore, how long to meet parents depends on the degree of emotional development of the two people, and the time will naturally go.

But if you insist on recommending a time, at least more than one year.

It's okay if you feel that your emotional foundation is stable.

It's actually quite simple.

1. Determine the time and place.

1. Time. Because it is a meeting between the parents and discussing the marriage of the children, it is very important to coordinate the time of the two families, negotiate to determine a time when both parties are free, be able to sit down and discuss, respect each other, accommodate each other, generally choose noon is more convenient, and you can continue to discuss unfinished matters in the afternoon.

2. Location. Secondly, choose a suitable location, generally you can choose a home, a restaurant or a café or the like.

Home: warm and relaxed, easy to communicate, easy to establish family feelings in the warm environment of the family; But preparing meals at home is a bit hard.

Restaurant: It is more relaxed and convenient, but it is best to choose a private room if you meet in a restaurant or hotel, the environment is quiet and suitable for communication, and the parents meet for the first time.

When dining out, it is important to consider the preferences and tastes of the woman's parents to show the man's sincerity and respect for the woman.

Teahouse Cafe: Teahouse or café is also a good choice for parents to meet, the environment is comfortable, the style is high, and you can communicate with peace of mind and comfort. Also available.

To ease the tension of meeting for the first time, it is as casual and relaxed as meeting an old friend.

Second, the meeting process.

1. Meet and introduce each other.

2. Chat and understand the basic situation.

3. Discuss related matters.

3. Precautions.

1. Dress dignified and neat, leave a good impression on each other when they meet each other for the first time, and also show their respect and solemnity towards marriage.

2. Communicate with your family in advance, exchange basic information to avoid embarrassment, and also provide a chat topic when meeting to avoid coldness.

3. The couple should discuss in advance and reach a tacit understanding, and should also communicate with their respective families on key issues in advance to avoid serious disagreements when they meet for the first time, which will affect the follow-up process and hurt the feelings of both parties. In the event of a quarrel, the couple should mediate in a timely manner and maintain subsequent consultation and communication to avoid the situation from deteriorating.

4. The discussion should not be too detailed, after all, it is the first time to meet, the two parties are mainly familiar with each other, and there are many details of marriage.

1. Buy gifts. To buy a gift that suits the old man's heart, it is time to follow his girlfriend's advice, after all, she only knows her own parents. If the father-in-law likes to smoke, he can give him a cigarette or pipe tobacco.

If the mother-in-law likes to dress up, she can give perfumes, bracelets, etc.; If you don't like to dress up, you can't go wrong with health care products.

2. Before visiting, be sure to dress up carefully. Go to the barber shop to get your hair in order, shave your beard, etc. If you usually wear studs and dye your hair, you must take the studs and dye your hair color back.

Otherwise, it will be troublesome to leave the impression of a gangster on the prospective parents-in-law. The tattoos on the body must be covered by the method of arguing for Huai.

3. When you arrive at your girlfriend's house, you should be enthusiastic, polite and honest when you sit down to chat, and if you are asked about work, please be truthful, but express your self-motivation and have a plan for your career. Thousands of people are lied to, and no one wants to be deceived.

4. When dining, pay attention to the parents-in-law after sandwiching the dishes and then do it yourself, commonly known as broken bowls. At the same time, you should pay attention to your own eating appearance, and give your girlfriend more vegetables, so that the prospective parents-in-law feel that you feel very sorry for their girl, so that you can rest assured that the girl will be handed over to you.

5. Be sure to take the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks after eating. Even if your parents-in-law prevent you from tidying up, be sure to help put the dishes and chopsticks on the table into the sink and wipe the table clean. This kind of habitual practice makes people feel very heartwarming and have a good life.

6. If you meet a girlfriend who comes to a relative's house. Talk to relatives in a steady, generous, and courteous manner. It's important to give the impression of being mature and steady. If you know in the conversation, you will know, if you don't know, you don't know, don't be pompous, no one likes a person who talks about it.

7. Image. Of course, parents should maintain a good image, so that it is easy to leave a good impression on each other, and most people will think of wearing a suit and tie, there is no need for this, it is not good to be too formal. Dress appropriately and look stable.

The face should be clean, the beard should be clean, and the hairstyle should be well-organized, provided that the hairstyle is suitable for your head shape.

8. Topic. When meeting the woman's parents for the first time, they must find a common topic, so that they can talk eloquently and not be embarrassed by the lack of topics. Therefore, it is necessary to ask your girlfriend in advance about Guan Mingxiao's situation with her parents, as well as her occupation, interests, hobbies, etc.

Do a good job of preliminary investigation.

The first cave is to be prepared, psychologically prepared, and physically dressed, which shows that the loss is obviously to pay attention to the other party and the family.

The second is to be prepared to show sincerity. That's what you have to bring as a gift.

In the process of falling in love with her boyfriend, she will not take the initiative to meet her parents, because as a girl, she must remain absolutely reserved. If the boyfriend proposes that both parents need to meet, they will consider the time when the two people are in love, and it is only suitable to meet the parents after 2 or 3 years of falling in love. Otherwise, the time to fall in love is relatively short, and it is not sure that two people want to enter into married life, and after proposing to meet their parents, it will cause trouble to their parents.

Take the initiative to meet your parents as a girl, and maintain absolute reserve in the process of falling in love. If the boy does not ask for the initiative to meet his parents, the girl must not ask her boyfriend to take the initiative to meet the man's parents, and should think that it will always be the man who is in a hurry to get married. Girls can't be too anxious to urge boys to get married, blindly urging each other will only make the other party feel that their girlfriend hates to marry very much.

Even if you want to marry into your own family earlier, the so-called catch-up is not necessarily a good thing. Boys don't like to catch up with girls, in the process of getting along with their boyfriends, they should consider the girl as the dominant party, and can't easily ask their boyfriends to meet their parents. Wait until the boy thinks that they have been with each other for a long time and are suitable for their parents to meet before arranging for their parents to meet again.

If neither of you is sure that you want to enter into married life, there is no point in meeting your parents early. When parents meet, most of them let their parents meet because of the engagement, so that they can discuss the marriage between their children. The man's parents want to see the girl earlier, and both parents want to see each other earlier when they learn that their children are in love, and the woman's parents obviously don't feel in a hurry.

Because considering that as long as the person her daughter is looking for is a decent person and a gentleman, she can rest assured that her daughter will fall in love. But if it is the man's bend and chi, when the parents know that their son is in love, they hope that their son can bring his girlfriend back to the house for everyone to see during the festival, and invite more elders to check for their son.

The first time I went to my boyfriend's and girlfriend's house to meet my parents, I was excited, nervous, and apprehensive. For a couple of lovers, if they can continue from the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend until the end of the time when they can meet their parents. It shows that the relationship between the lovers has been very stable, and they have a good emotional foundation, so that they will plan for their future, and let their other half go to their parents to see if their other half is suitable.

And no matter who goes to meet the other party's parents at this time, there are a lot of complicated feelings, so I will talk about it in detail below.

1. Excitement For the first time to meet their other parents, they must be very excited the first night, and may even be unable to sleep all night. Because they are very much looking forward to this time, hoping that they can get the satisfaction of the other party's parents, and hope that they will have a good performance the next day.

Second, nervousnessWhen you meet your other half's parents, you will definitely be nervous, because after all, this is the first time you meet. At the same time, because the first meeting is also awkward, so at this time, you must need your lover to help you alleviate this embarrassment. At this time, if you feel very nervous, you can prepare a glass of cold water, which can effectively relieve your almost nervous situation.

3. Nervous mood When I met my girlfriend's parents for the first time, in addition to the excitement and nervous mood, I would definitely have a nervous mood. Because you must be worried about whether you meet the expectations of the other parent. And it may also make the other party feel unsatisfactory because of their bad performance when they meet.

At the same time, when communicating with each other's parents, they will definitely be asked about the details by their lover's parents, and they are also more nervous at this time, because they don't know if they will be satisfied with their situation.