Dealing with relationships and making friends at the university

Be yourself, be a happy person, be kind, and have a long personality.

As a sophomore, my advice is that universities should join student councils or societies.

Because the college itself organizes a lot of activities, you can meet a lot of teachers and classmates in your own college, at this time, participating in the school clubs will help you meet and make friends from other colleges, in college, a wide range of interpersonal relationships are still very helpful for many things; However, don't blindly participate in a lot of clubs, think about what you want and what you want to learn before participating, choose one or two purposefully, it is recommended not to exceed two, and participating in too many clubs will lead to a complete inability to balance the study time; You can participate in more competitions organized by clubs or student unions, and you can learn a lot on the spot; Many times many things others can't tell you for sure that you will be able to get a knack, but you have the opportunity to participate, and in the case of learning well, participating in some good clubs can help you expand your social circle and improve your ability.

Next, let's talk about the benefits of adding a club or student union:1The most obvious benefit is the extra points, in the university is not only the final exam scores, but also the comprehensive score and quality development score, and the comprehensive score will be added when joining a club or student union; 2.

It also has an advantage over those who do not add clubs or student unions in terms of awards3You can learn a lot of things in the club or student union, which is also very helpful for future development, and you can also meet some friends with similar interests, talking with them will become more cheerful and confident, and you can also improve your social skills, which is also very helpful in society.

Possible disadvantages of a Canadian student union or society:1The organization of the university may not be as colorful as imagined, and there may be very rigid official activities, which may not be as early as expected or improve their own capabilities; 2.

The student body of the university has a lot of reports to write, especially for the first-year students who have just entered the club, and the things they do may be relatively trivial and useless; 3.It may take up a lot of study time, resulting in failure to complete the study on time and loss of regular time.

In short, my advice is to join a club or student council.

Make a good first impression. Therefore, no matter what occasion you attend, even if you go out to take takeaways and fetch water from the world, you must dress neatly, treat people and things generously and decently, and behave in a civilized and polite manner. For example, if you introduce yourself a little more chic when you enter the school, you will be impressed.

Master the art of conversation. When talking to others, try to arouse the interest of others, leave space for others to speak, and reach a tacit understanding. Of course, college students should have the ability to adapt to changes and use their wisdom to change the topic when the topic cannot continue, so that the communication can be unimpeded.

First, cherish the values of life Lingchong in the early stage of ascension, the friendship encountered.

No matter who it is impossible not to contact with the outside world, with the rapid era, the flow of ** integration, can better reflect the value of integration into the group, the belly still has goods, the employer does not want, on the contrary, enthusiastic and cheerful and lively hiring.

The main focus in college is to study and improve the personality charm of both internal and external training.

After completing the homework, participating in club activities in your spare time is to help improve your comprehensive ability, believe in your own work, and you must persist and live up to your efforts.

As a contemporary young college student, we should establish a fighting spirit and a sense of competition in our interactions with our classmates. The friendship between friends is a kind of emotional relationship based on the consistency and mutual attachment of Li Sheng's thoughts, interests, hobbies, etc.

When you encounter problems in the process of getting along, the solutions are as follows:

First of all, face up to the problem and find more problems in yourself.

Second, communicate more. Don't avoid communication because of misunderstandings, but take the initiative to communicate with everyone and participate in everyone's discussions and activities. Only in this way can we better understand ourselves and others, eliminate misunderstandings between each other, and strengthen mutual understanding and trust.

Third, be broad-minded, be more sensible, understanding and tolerant of others.

Again, sincerely.