Which is more painful to not get or lose?

Updated on society 2024-05-29
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you lose it, you can miss it if you don't get it, and you can only regret if you lose you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    None of them will be painful... I'll send you a message... To open a point.

    Give yourself a lot of steps so that you won't drill the horns. Everyone has an angel who has been guarding him, if this angel feels that your life is too sad, your mood is too sad, then he will become someone around you, maybe your friend, maybe your lover, maybe your parents, maybe you have only met a stranger, these people quietly appear in your life, spend a little happy time with you, and then he will leave quietly. So you have happy memories in your life, even if your road is full of snow and wind in the future, but you can still remember the things that were once happy, and you can still be brave.

    So those who leave us silently are actually angels who have returned to heaven, such as those friends who have left, those strangers who have helped you, those who have loved and finally separated, the boy who once asked him for directions, the classmate who once told a nice joke to make you happy, the singer who once sang a good song to you, and the writer who wrote a good book, they are all kind angels. Maybe you will feel sad or lost for their disappearance for a while, and you will look around for what country they have gone, but in the end, you will believe that they are living quietly and contentedly in some corner of this world. So the loss and sadness of the past will no longer exist, and time is the greatest ** division.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't know if you all feel this way if you're not serious enough about love. Finally you finally lose it. Maybe you're not that bad.

    It's not a big deal, occasionally blame yourself, why it's easy to miss out. But if you have already gone through a lot of hardships, even climbed the mountain and came to this person by water. But it was found that:

    I'm really sorry you're late.

    There are people who come before you, and happiness just opens its eyes and floats. Sadly, your grief will be a hundredfold. Not to mention, I got it and then lost it.

    Xu Guanghan said in an interview that he "has never accepted it" and "has never lost it". Which is more painful? "Asked.

    He came up with his own answer. If before that, I may have chosen, and if I lose again, it may hurt even more. At that time, I thought, then you get it and you lose it, it's really a process.

    In life, I don't think the outcome matters. I think life is the most important thing in this process. Xu Guangguang said

    What is more painful to lose without receiving PK?

    Perhaps, I am emotionally fragile, but fate has given me too many tests. With each save, I better understand the taste of "get and lose". But you've been in this world once.

    If you don't even love love, it's really enough to cry out. Even if there is no wind, no waves, and I live to be 100 years old, who have I loved in this life? Who has loved me?

    It doesn't exist, and I still can't remember it. No one can guarantee how long this love will last. But at least you have experienced it, and you will be touched by it.

    I'm curious about what exactly is the ending of "Your Wedding". But judging from Xu Guangguang's appearance, it seems that he blessed more silently, and then left quietly. Earlier, the sea was difficult to turn into water, but Wushan is not a cloud.

    She is the one who loves her the most, but the person who can take care of her and love her in the future will not be you. What can you do? passed through her whole world.

    Don't bother her and give her the most freedom and ease. It's painful to get and then lose. Be glad that this person is with you through life.

    If the process is pleasant, the results are pleasant. You say, how nice it would be. Hopefully, lovers will eventually become family.

    In the end, people who love each other with their hearts deserve to be kind to the world.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel like it's even more painful to lose it. Not getting it will only be regretful, but it will not be painful. And the damage lost after getting it is relatively large.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is more painful to lose after getting. Because if you never get it, even if you lose it, it's just a little sad, but if you get it, you lose it. The whole person will collapse. It's going to be painful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It will be more painful to lose it after you get it, because you have already got it, but you have not protected it, and this feeling is more painful than never getting it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is more painful to lose after getting it, because I have tasted a little sweetness, but the time is very short, and such time is fleeting, which makes people very nostalgic.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It will be more painful to lose after you have it, because if you have it, you will know how precious it is.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think it's more painful to lose it after you get it, because you have suffered the sweetness and lose it, so it will be even more uncomfortable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel even more painful to lose after I get it, and if I don't get it, I may not feel a lot, but if I lose it after I get it, most people can't accept it at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Losing after getting is more painful, because if you never get it, you will not feel it, and you will not have extravagant expectations, so the latter is more painful.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I feel more painful to lose. The loss of something dear to oneself is very painful for anyone, and it is an unacceptable reality.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After getting it, it hurts even more to lose, because after all, I once had it, and suddenly I don't have it, and it seems a little uncomfortable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Get and get in proportion to the inverse, what should be obtained and someone must be happy and satisfied, should not get and get pain and taboo, everyone is unavoidable common sense, think open, see open, the right attitude to understand and treat. In the lonely and lonely time to reminisce about the beautiful encounter at the beginning, only sweet memories, will not be sad, can not get the best feeling, you look at the budding flowers, gorgeous branches, even if it can only be seen from afar.

    You confessed to him, and he agreed, but after a few days, he broke up with you, and said that he already had someone he liked, and he thought that he could really be with the boy he liked, but in the end it was a joke, and he lost it after having his "love", which was heart-wrenching. "I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had. "If you don't have it, life is not a hole in the air, monotonous.

    If you have it, even if you lose it, you have left a beautiful one, which is worth recalling. Even if it is painful, it adds to the experience of life.

    May be more painful to think about. This problem is different from everyone's experience, whether it is painful or not is only understood by yourself, and outsiders can understand it very well. I wish the people of the world will always be cherished, take care of themselves, and keep the pain away from the world.

    There should also be benign attachment, otherwise after trying it all over, you will still have nothing and be alone. Don't be too selfish, too utilitarian, feelings are not business, let alone transactions, if you are sincere, there are people with you in your heart, who is willing to let you lose. Losing means that the original is no longer in possession.

    From small things to big people, such as: loss of family, relatives and friends, loss of love, etc. The loss of either side of this is painful for people.

    And things are the same, once you lose your beloved things, it will definitely be uncomfortable, so that your heart hurts.

    After a while, I feel bored, and I don't feel too sad if I lose it. On the other hand, what you don't get, but you always linger, always remember it, can't forget it for a long time, and make people more painful, this may be human nature.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It hurts even more to lose after getting it. In my opinion, it is more painful to lose after gaining.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's very painful to lose this situation after you get it, after all, you have been happy for a while after enjoying all kinds of honors, but suddenly you lose such a thing, which is something that no one can accept.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Never get it, because losing it after getting it definitely means that you still can't get along in some aspects is inappropriate, and never get it There is always a place in your heart that is placed for him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's more painful to never get it, after all, it's a pity to never have it, and to get and lose it may not be my own reason, no regrets, after all, I have had it, and it's enough to leave a lot of memories.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It must have been more painful than having ever gotten it, because it was obviously more painful than getting it and losing it, and he had never tasted this pleasure at all.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course, the second type is more painful, because if you don't get it, you won't think about it, and if you get it, you will lose it, and it will be very painful.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is more painful to get it and lose it. Because what you can't get makes people feel less disappointed, although there will be some obsessions, but after a long time, you will slowly let go. But what you gain and lose will be unforgettable, and it will be hard to forget.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I have never gained and lost after gaining, I think that losing after getting it will be like pain, and if you don't get it, you won't hurt, and there will be no pain.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's even more painful to lose after you get it, because when you enjoy the happiness you had at the beginning, you feel very sad.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It is more painful after losing, after all, I have loved each other and lost it, I will definitely miss it very much, and my heart will be very uncomfortable.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's more painful to never get it, and when you think about it, you feel very regretful and never enjoy the feeling of having it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is more painful to lose after getting. Because we know what it's like to get, we can't afford to lose.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What is lost is also painful, and it is also painful not to be gained.

    In fact, both of them are uncomfortable and uncomfortable, the best thing is to choose not to lose, don't happen things that make you miserable, just go for what you can't get, and put in your own efforts so that you won't bring pain to yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Compared with not getting it, I think it's more painful to lose, because I have gained it, and I will bury it in my mind or heart, and occasionally think about the bits and pieces of the past, and I may never forget it, so it is still the pain of loss.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think the loss is more painful, because you obviously once had it, but for some reason you can't keep him by your side all the time, it may be that you don't cherish it, it may be that there is a problem with the way two people get along, and it may be an obstacle from the family environment. There will be regrets if you don't get it, and it's better than the pain of losing it after you get it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I feel more painful to lose.

    Because losing means that you once got it, but for some reason you didn't have it, and that's more embarrassing. If you lose something or someone you once loved and have experienced it, it will be more painful.

    And if I can't get it, I feel like I'm fluttering, but there's no big blow or something like that, maybe there's any. But it's also a minority of BA I feel more painful to lose!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It is better to lose than to lose, and it hurts to lose.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    What you don't get, it's stronger, what you lose is still different, and you're going to be more uncomfortable.

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