Psychological counseling, I usually have a very introverted personality

Introverts get along with others, first of all, don't think of yourself as an introvert, open your heart to accept others, and try to communicate with others with sincerity; Don't act too cold, that will make people afraid to approach you; Try to take the initiative to associate with others, and exchange your sincerity for their sincerity. Among them, the most important thing is to open your heart, so that people who want to enter your world can come in, friends need to communicate with each other, understand each other, only if you open your heart first, others will have the opportunity to interact with you, otherwise, they will only be discouraged! Secondly, don't always be alone, participate in some activities often, and adapt to crowded occasions.

Finally, you should have the right mindset and don't have an inferiority complex. More self-confidence will be more beautiful, and your mood will suddenly brighten!

Brother, it's not a big problem, in fact, you are a very smart person, how many people can see themselves so clearly? Analyze yourself so thoroughly? You can do it.

Brother, in fact, I used to be exactly the same as you, and there are many reasons for your current personality and state, but I am no longer like this now. This needs to change slowly, and I used to be able to see through myself. Now that you know your shortcomings, it's up to you to find a way to adjust yourself.

My personal opinion:

1.You have low self-esteem; 2.You can't dating, you don't have a circle of friends, too few friends, too few intimate friends; 3.There are too few scenes; 4.You don't have any hobbies; 5.Your family conditions are not too good;

If you have any of the above views, you should not feel inferior, it is very normal. As long as you slowly get rid of some of the above shortcomings.

To have a good attitude, in fact, I think you have more strengths, why don't you analyze your own strengths? That way your mindset will be good,"People have to have dreams, and many people's dreams come true, do you mean that your dreams don't want to come true? You think every day that bad things will come true, and you think every day that good things will come true.

The key is that you have to cultivate your own hobbies, and when you have hobbies, you will have your own circle of friends. Make more friends, and associate more with people who are more literate than you, so that you can improve yourself and have a wide range of knowledge. Always go to the big occasions to see.

Brother you are great, I'm sure you won't think like that after a while.

Watch more x movies, what to do if you are a demon after watching it, the landlord doesn't have to be nervous, I used to be the same as you, in fact, girls are nothing, you work in an Internet café, of course, most of the girls who come to the Internet are very beautiful, don't worry, as long as you remember a few points of mine, you can not be shy in front of good-looking girls, first of all, dress neatly, especially pants to pull a little better, 2 more ask a few handsome or beautiful friends to help you have a good image, increase self-confidence, you are actually not confident enough, right, 3 Go to chat with friends and the like, it's best not to be bound by what to eat today, ask somewhat, don't be afraid of them laughing, if you laugh more, there will be nothing to laugh at, the most important thing is that there must be more friends, the ratio of my male friends and female friends is 1:7, and don't complicate the relationship between friends, at most it's just a confidant, don't make it ambiguous, it's not good to drop, and there is nothing else, the most important thing is self-confidence, believing that you can (good flesh).

Agree with the above, you shouldn't be confident enough! Otherwise, maybe you think it's cooler in your heart, and you've been thought by everyone that you just don't like to talk, and now even if you want to talk, you don't want everyone to look at you in a different light, you're used to being ignored by everyone, and you don't like to be too much attention!

Actually, it's nothing, I was still a little autistic in elementary school! I was also very unconfident at that time, because I was stupid, I was still from the countryside, and everyone loved to make fun of me, but since I was in high school, I have changed, maybe it is really easy to change my personality in a new environment! I'm an extrovert right now!

This is thanks to my good friends, so make more friends, first try to joke with the same table and talk about your heart, and then expand the scope and the front and back table, and then walk with the classmates who go home on the same way, everyone will talk about the interesting things in the class along the way, it will be easy to enhance your friendship, you will find that you will have a lot of like-minded friends, I believe you will succeed, come on! ~~

Forehead. In fact, it is necessary to see what is in your heart.

It can be seen that you still want to communicate with others, and that is easier to do.

The upstairs method is really recommended, but at the same time, you can strengthen your language skills and linguistic thinking, and the way to do it is to read books. In your room, take the article, read it aloud, read it out loud, read it too much, get used to talking, and then try to tell a few stories to people you know. Start with a short story.

If it goes well, maybe you can reach the level of a tirade ** that day Hehe, just kidding. But perhaps

Forehead. Perhaps, in your case, sometimes you can learn to talk to yourself. Khan: Anyway, I wish you success in your transformation

I used to be like you, and I got better as I got older. You have to communicate with others with a positive attitude and think it's a pleasant thing. May you be a happy soul winner like I am.

This method is only for those who believe in miracles.

Have you seen Li Yang Crazy English?

He shouts English, and you speak loudly and confidently.

For example, the following one (you say it a hundred times a day, the loudest, the clearest, and preferably in front of the mirror).

I'm the best, I'm the best!!

This is definitely not self-deception, all successful people, people who achieve great things, they are just ordinary people, the only difference between them and ordinary people is that they always believe in themselves, believe that they are the best, the best!

Self-confidence creates perseverance Perseverance and unremitting efforts create miracles!!

I used to be like that! This is still the case sometimes! So I feel the same way about you!

I think it takes a lot of courage to interact with others, and you and I lack courage.

I've used to use a method (which seems stupid, but I think it's practical):

One thing, once you start, even if you don't want to do it, you have to do it.

For example: you want to call a service**, consult some things. You get through ** first, and you won't be able to say it when the time comes.

I don't know if it's useful for you, but you can make a make!

Good luck!

There are a lot of people like you, don't feel inferior, when you go to society, you have more contact, and talking to people is commonplace, and it's useless to be anxious now because the environment doesn't allow it.

I'm not a psychiatrist, but I can ask your questions.

This phenomenon is normal, because everyone is acquainted from a kind of stranger. Only if we have the courage to say a word to them can we become friends.

Ruthless people, I envy them, but I can't do it. Thought it was important to have friends.

Reach out to strangers and sign up for a volunteer to practice your guts.

Get in touch with people and see what they say. Everything is learned.

Regular contact has a lot to do with it, and you should identify one or more of your best friends, and more contact is good for you.

This is definitely not self-deception, all successful people, people who achieve great things, they are just ordinary people, the only difference between them and ordinary people is that they always believe in themselves, believe that they are the best, the best!

Self-confidence creates perseverance Perseverance and unremitting efforts create miracles!!

w I'll help you come up with an idea: After going out, see who scolds whom, (the scolding words should be fresh) Persist for a month, the effect is amazing,

You just want to be afraid of something, and they can't eat you :)

Hahahaha Funny upstairs.

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The personality of psychological counseling is as follows:1In terms of personality, if you are more introverted, good at observing others and gaining insight into others' cognition and emotions, and more patient, you are more suitable to be a psychological counselor

In terms of attitude, people who are more humble and friendly are more suitable for psychological counseling work, for example, when facing this opinion is not very good, do they not like to argue and conflict, but they will still stick to their own position. 3.In terms of mind, he is often a person with a more delicate mind, who can empathize with him and resonate emotionally with the client.

Summary. Personality refers to the relatively stable and core personality psychological characteristics in people's attitude towards reality and corresponding behavior patterns, which is a personality trait that is most closely related to society, and contains many social and moral meanings in personality. Character shows people's attitude towards reality and the world around them, and it is manifested in his behavior, mainly in his attitude towards himself, towards others, towards things, and in the words and deeds he takes.

Personality refers to the relatively stable and core psychological characteristics of people's attitude towards reality and corresponding behaviors, which is a personality trait that is most closely related to society, and contains many social moral meanings in personality. Personality Hu Chendong shows people's attitude towards reality and the world around them, and is manifested in his behavior, which is mainly reflected in his attitude towards himself, others, and things, and the words and deeds he takes.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Personality refers to the relatively stable and core psychological characteristics of people's attitude towards reality and corresponding behaviors, which is a personality trait that is most closely related to society, and contains many social moral meanings in personality. Personality Hu Chendong shows people's attitude towards reality and the world around them, and is manifested in his behavior, which is mainly reflected in his attitude towards himself, others, and things, and the words and deeds he takes.

From the point of view of "introversion" alone, there is no way to determine whether it is suitable or not.

First of all, counselors often show an "introverted" side:

It is necessary to calm down, listen carefully to every word of others, observe the content, experience your own feelings, analyze their connection with others, and finally express this series of processes in precise language.

After doing the above things, it is difficult for people to be "extroverted".

Just like the Tao Te Ching says, "There is always no desire, in order to observe its wonder" (this sentence has different sentences, but the center is "nothing" and "view").

And then there is the problematic situation:

Counselors need to use themselves to understand others. If you often encounter some parts that you can't face, it is difficult for you to be competent as a counselor.

A lot of times, the characteristics that we usually show are related to ourselves [the part that we can't face], and we often "hate" others because we see this part in others.

The same is true of "introverted" or "extroverted" – to avoid situations that you don't want to face. They are related to complexes and traumas that we have not dealt with, so as a counselor, it is easy for two people in the counseling to get hurt.

Of course, every counselor has their own characteristics, and everyone is not perfect. As a result, people are more empathetic to the feelings of others. We often say that "the Buddha has no appearance", and the Buddha is also a human being, not that they really do not have an image, but that they will not be burdened by their own image, so that they can experience the "truth".

Introversion is a state and mental illness has nothing to do with it.

I'm also an introvert, and you're scolding me for having psychological problems? In fact, the main question is to know that personality does determine a person's behavior and way of thinking. Introverts are generally not good at communicating, blushing when speaking, and not showing anger, which may cause mental illness if they do not vent it over time.

But if you have a mental illness, you can't blame the personality at all, the personality is like a cell, and the psychological problems that arise after cancer are entirely due to your experience, your behavior, and your thinking, which does not mean that I am born introverted, I am psychologically ill, which is not rigorous. There is no such formula as introversion = psychological problems. But if you have such doubts, it means that you have been frustrated in socializing, if you don't delay socializing, then it's not a psychological problem, even if you are not good at talking, it's just that you have less experience, just practice more.

Introverts are not good at expressing themselves, are easily depressed, and will have internal injuries after a long time. If you accumulate more negative emotions, you are prone to psychological problems. Introverts need to find ways to channel their emotions that work for them. For example, sports, reading, proper communication, ......