Love is forbearance, why do people who love more have no right to speak?

Because he loves each other and respects each other in everything, as long as the other party says it, he will do what he says, this is the real love for someone, so he will become speechless.

Love is not forbearance, the more you tolerate the other party, the less respect you have, and an equal love can last for a long time. Whoever falls into love first will be dominated by the other party, so that the right to speak is not in their own place. The right to speak is not given by the other party, but earned by oneself, and a love that is evenly matched is the best.

In a love, the one who loves more has less right to speak, this is because he pays more, and asks the other party to pay less, so he doesn't want to fight for the right to speak.

Because people who love a lot are a relatively disadvantaged and humble position in love.

Because the favored person always has no fear, always feels that he is supreme and has the right to hurt others, while the person who loves more always tolerates and accommodates, and finally loses the right to speak.

Usually people who love a lot in love really don't have the right to speak, because they don't have any requirements, they just want to leave the best for each other, and such people love very humblely.

No, if you keep tolerating and changing in marriage, it will not make the other party feel satisfied, but will make the relationship become more and more unequal, and you will be hurt in the relationship. In marriage, although you don't need to argue with reason, you should also love yourself well and don't swallow your anger with others. You should express your concept very clearly, you can back down, but you can't always endure it and live a life of obedience.

In that way, I will also fall into an inferiority complex, this relationship, because of the concession of one party, patience will become more and more unequal, even if the relationship is long-lasting, it has no meaning, let alone happiness.

1. Blind forbearance will make the other party gain an inch.

Although there should be mutual humility and tolerance in marriage, this is mutual, not always only one party is humble and tolerant, but both parties can understand how to manage in marriage, if only one party blindly tolerates and changes themselves, the other party will never be indifferent, and the party who thinks that it is forbearance will do so as a matter of course, and the other party will not be able to stabilize the relationship for a long time.

2. Blind forbearance will make you feel aggrieved.

In marriage, the most important thing is to obtain happiness and the value of life, if we blindly tolerate change, swallow anger to each other, and accept it, we will feel that we have lost the value of life and the meaning of life.

Because we can't get happiness from this marriage, we will make this marriage become chicken ribs, and if we keep tolerating it, we will feel very aggrieved, which is quite detrimental to physical and mental health, and it is impossible to make the relationship last for a long time.

3. Tolerance can't change anything.

Many people have the traditional idea that patience is needed in marriage, but for any modern person, patience has a limit. Blindly forbearance will suppress one's body and mind, which is not good for one's physical and mental health, and it is not good for this marriage. Forbearance is useful if one's own forbearance can be exchanged for the understanding of the other party.

If the other party doesn't understand, they will think that the tolerant party is easy to bully, and the relationship will never last long.

It's not like that, you're talking about those who love too humbly, and they don't have much say in their relationships, because they themselves feel that they are more humble, so many of their objects will not cherish them, so that they will not have much right to speak. But if two people really like each other, it doesn't matter who loves more or less, and the right to speak will not become very small.

My boyfriend and I actually feel like he likes me a lot more than I like him, but he doesn't lose his voice because he doesn't love humblely, he knows to love himself in addition to liking me. Because if a person does not even love himself, then how can others love him? Of course, this is what my boyfriend told me, because I used to treat him, although I didn't like him as deeply, but I was a little humble, and he saw it, so he enlightened me for a long time.

I've actually always had a bit of low self-esteem, maybe it has something to do with the environment I lived in when I was a child, no matter what I do, there are always a lot of people who refute it, and everyone says that I'm not good, not as good as others, so I've always had a bit of low self-esteem. And my boyfriend is tall and handsome, and his temper is good, although many times I am very arrogant in front of him, but that is also because I know that he likes me too much, so I dare to be presumptuous, but my feelings for him are still a little humble, I personally think it's nothing, but he can't stand it. It took a lot of time to help me find my position, help me find my self-confidence, let me not be so humble in the relationship, to be honest, I feel really lucky to meet him, if I hadn't met him, maybe I really didn't have a say in the relationship, because I was too humble.

People who have not experienced it are people who don't know that a person with low self-esteem wants to give everything to the person he likes, just to make him happy, so I feel that God let me meet my boyfriend, and in the future, he will be my husband.

I don't think so, the real love life is two people who respect each other and can communicate and exchange equally, no matter how much they give.

The more you love in a relationship, the more you give, the more hurt you will be.

No, if it is two people who love each other, then they are all equal in this relationship.

No, love is too mysterious. It's hard to say, but I don't think the right to speak is a matter of love or not.

In my opinion, the one who loves a lot has indeed chosen to compromise in all aspects, so he has no right to speak.