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I don't know why, I started to have this psychology in the second year of junior high school, I was very afraid of wearing new clothes, my parents bought a lot of pieces, I didn't dare to wear them, so I took turns to wear 3 old clothes, my mother said how I was so weird, I was also very distressed, I felt that others would notice me, but I didn't have this kind of psychology when I wore new shoes, even if it was a few hundred yuan, I dared to wear it to school, but I just didn't dare to wear new clothes, I remember the last time, a classmate saw me wear a pair of very expensive shoes, and said: You are so rich, the family has a bankI'm a little scared to even wear new shoes, I'm still scared that my dad drives me to school, sometimes my dad takes me to school, I let him park far away from the school, and when there is no one around, I drive the door to school, what the hell is going on with me, I've never thought about it so much before, how can this happen now? Am I having a psychological problem?
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This is a personal psychological problem, lack of self-confidence, high self-esteem, fear of being excluded from others (dress, grades, consumption). Everyone has his own life, everyone's family situation is different, your parents have given you good material conditions is your luck, you should relax your mind, face everything positively, study hard, do what you like and right, don't care too much about other people's eyes.
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Because you are afraid of those who hate the rich.
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This is the effect of your heart, maybe you care too much about what others think of you, the next time you wear new clothes and go out, you will think about the clothes you have worn, slowly eliminate this kind of heart, just get used to it! Another point is to be confident, to believe that you are the most beautiful.
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This is a psychological problem, afraid that others will see that you are wearing new clothes, and afraid that others will judge whether your clothes look good or not! You should be an introvert!
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I'm so unconfident in myself, just remember the feeling of starting to wear it for the second time, buy new clothes later, wash it after buying it back and wear it, just like the clothes you wear, if not, just find someone to accompany you, the best for men.
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Because you are not confident in your own aesthetics. Surely someone has questioned your aesthetic vision before. So you're nervous when you wear new clothes for the first time.
Because you're afraid that others will disagree with your vision. If no one objects after wearing it for the first time, you will be relieved that you have been approved by others.
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I'm pretty much the same, but then I wear it before I wear it, so I feel like I've already worn it and I'm not so nervous.
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I'm also afraid that I'm not going to look good, or maybe I'm afraid that someone will wear the same style as me...
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I care too much about other people's eyes, and I want to think that you are just a passerby in the eyes of others, and I don't pay much attention to you! Just let your mind go!
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If you are not confident in the clothes you choose, you are worried about what others say, be confident, you are in charge of your world!
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Because you may feel a little uncomfortable trying a different style of clothes for the first time.
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It has to do with psychology and mentality.
Most people are confident when they wear new clothes, so why are you nervous? Guess big: you're someone who lacks self-confidence.
Lack of self-confidence is due to the lack of recognition of yourself, you do not think that you have excellent skills, too high culture, too good image, and too stable mentality.
It is recommended that you take a look at the thick black school and practice your own mentality. Learn to play billiards, be calm, or don't shoot, keep thinking, keep calculating, and if you want to shoot, you must kill with one hit! Even if you don't score a goal, so what?
You calculate every sortie and don't let the winner or loser dictate the mentality.
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New clothes are new clothes that only you know if they are new, others will not pay attention to them, don't take yourself too seriously.
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Not sure about yourself. Listen to friends who have positive energy. Take what he says.
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I always have no self-confidence in myself, I feel the same way as you.
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I'm not confident, I'm the same, most people have this kind of heart.
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I've been paying attention to you for a long time, especially when you're wearing new clothes, haha
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The first time I wore it, I was afraid that others would say: it doesn't look good, and it's tasteless to wear.
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Not used to it, not adapting, need to have a transition time.
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Lack of self-confidence, wearing bright clothes is for others to see.
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I am not confident enough and I am worried that I will not look good in my clothes.
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Aren't you too handsome? Fascinate a large piece.
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Wear your own clothes and others say to go.
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Oh, maybe the landlord likes the new and hates the old, self-confidence is the most beautiful, try to do what you want to do but don't dare to overcome, you will naturally have a sense of accomplishment, so that you can be confident Beauty from the inside out Self-confidence can be obtained in many ways Self-confidence is a state of mind It takes time to hone Wearing new clothes is also a kind of Gain it more from the spirit I hope to adopt it.
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Do everything to be confident, to do better, new and old clothes brother one, people, clothes to be clean, brother two to fit, brother three to have something outstanding!
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You are not the only one like this, many people are like this, the face is born from the heart, and the heart is beautiful, and it is natural to be confident!
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This morning, the weather was clear and the sky was blue, and I wore my newly purchased clothes to school, and I felt very happy. However, something unexpected happens.
A sprinkler came from behind, and the water splashed all the way, splashing in patches, and before I could dodge, the water was already rushing towards me. "Yikes! The new clothes are all wet.
I'm not happy anymore and I'm about to take a step forward. With a "horn", I slipped again by the small puddle that had just accumulated. A beautiful shirt with a big lump of mud on it.
This time, I was angry, why didn't the driver's aunt see anyone on the side of the road. But when I looked up and saw the driver's aunt, my attitude changed. I saw her staring intently ahead, beads of sweat oozing from her forehead shining in the sunlight.
Seeing this, I blushed and lowered my head. I thought to myself: Auntie got up early to sprinkle water in order to keep pedestrians cool.
What a noble character! What a lesson to learn! It's nothing if my clothes are dirty, they will be clean when they are washed, so why bother ......
I looked at my aunt and felt that she was very tall, and then I couldn't help but think of a proverb - the beauty of flowers is in the appearance, and the beauty of people is in the inside; Gold is precious in quality, and morality is in the heart. Oh, yes! I must be a good student with a good appearance and a good heart.
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Have you forgotten that you didn't bring money for breakfast?
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Are you more introverted, more low-key?
Afraid of wearing new clothes, others will look at you. Do you feel weird?
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I also have that kind of mentality, I feel that when I wear new clothes, I don't get used to it, I don't have old clothes, I feel very restrained, and I feel like people are watching me, but after a few days, it's fine.
You can adjust it in this way, wash the new clothes first, so that you can get rid of the harmful substances and dust of the new clothes themselves, keep them clean and our health, and at the same time feel that the clothes are what we are wearing.
It works so much that you can try it.
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This kind of performance is not confident, low self-esteem, because you are always not confident, always feel that you are wearing new clothes, and the eyes of the people around you are all paying more attention to you... You feel like you can't do anything.
Fear of causing other people's strange eyes.。。 So you don't dare to wear new clothes . On the contrary, I feel comfortable wearing old clothes...
It's actually your mindset that's wrong ... You need to increase your self-confidence first. Look up to yourself.
You can do it.
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Hehe. Why not try streaking?
Systematic desensitization**, which can treat the symptoms.
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On the way, I ran into my friend, who was wearing the same new clothes as me. Alas, girls are most afraid of crashes when dressing. Besides, the two of us are still very good friends, and to be honest, she looks better in that dress than I do.
I can't wait to go home immediately, lock this shirt in the cabinet and press it to the bottom of the box, and never look at it again.
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Someone gets dirty on your clothes, for example, someone vomits and stains your clothes, and you don't help him, and you blame him, but the other person doesn't say anything, silently helps him clean up the dirty stuff he vomits, helps him pour water...You feel your face flush....Also helped take care of him....Back home....Wash the skirt and you think the skirt is more beautiful...
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Look at you because you mentioned that you have been to the summer, it is more alternative, don't be afraid if you wear it, personality, willful times. I'll top you.
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On the bad side, it's that you have thick legs and don't look good. Or maybe it's still a little cold, and you're wearing this too early. There is also a possibility that you are beautiful and they envy it.
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One, it's summer ahead of schedule.
Second, it's quite a novelty of clothes, unlike students.
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It's so pretty, is it because you're suddenly dressed too pretty? Or is it because it's not very warm right now and you're showing your legs so everyone is surprised?
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If you show your legs, or you're particularly good-looking. Attract others. Either that. You're not good-looking.
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Dear, it's like this, you can see that you are a sister who loves to dress up and can wear clothes, why do you want to dress so brightly in school, it will definitely attract the attention of your classmates, and it's not surprising! It's not that they look at you differently, in fact, he just wants to see more beautiful women!
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Where is the location, how much is the temperature, how old is the landlord, and was he wearing high heels at that time?
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Too short. Super fierce. The legs are dazzlingly white. Stunned everyone.
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Because you're wearing high heels.
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Look at you're pretty, look good at this dress.
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He is white and slender, so he is jealous, envious and hateful.
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You're too mature, or you're too good in that outfit so they're staring at you.
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You're wearing a different style today than you used to be, so they look at you differently.
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It's too a**, it doesn't look like a student.
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It's the difference between a buyer's show and a seller's show...
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