What should I do if I go home on the weekend from college and am despised by my roommates

…What's wrong with going home Isn't it right to fall back to the root There is no need to find a reason at all But you must participate in group activities It's best to live in school Because after all, there are more things in the school There may be times when you can't take care of it at home Then it's normal to go home on the weekend It's good to bring a little food to your roommates when you come back Everyone is a classmate Where did so many complaints come from Or freshmen are not used to it It's not good to go home every day If it's a boy, it's too ... It's okay to go home on the weekend Don't go if you don't like it all night Is it boring to stay at school? You can consider joining some clubs or something, find something to do for yourself, and you can also take exams, there are many types of exams, and it is also a good choice to take two certificates.

It's normal for you to go home.

Isn't it inexplicable that you also make up a reason, and it's even more dislikeable.

I was also a freshman in college and lived on campus in high school. When I was in high school, I sometimes wanted to go home at noon. Living on campus is just for convenience.

I left my hometown from college because I wanted to leave. Sometimes it's just a matter of thinking.

If you go back, go back, nothing. It shows that you are filial.

Maybe they're just squeezing and not malicious.

A lot of things, not that serious, don't talk what I should do.

And isn't it convenient to go back because it's close to home? There's nothing to laugh at.

I think they are envious, jealous, hate-=

I've met one before, and I was upset with her at first, but then I wanted to open it.

I slept with her in the same class. She is about 155 tall and slightly fat about 100 pounds.

More than ten years of compulsory education, playing games, scrolling Tik Tok, reading extracurricular books, playing Weibo, and all kinds of bad life experiences have made me a strong, tolerant, and cheerful person.

I thought that when I entered the university, I would meet roommates who were just like me (tolerant and understanding of each other, and not low in emotional intelligence), but the truth slapped me hard and told me: "The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds." ”

Due to the computer exam, the computer teacher assigned a calculation simulation practice problem (which can only be done on the computer, not on the mobile phone) and asked everyone to complete it and upload it within three days. I don't have a computer, so I asked her to upload it for me in class. In my conversation with her, I didn't think she was very willing to upload it for me, but I accepted it.

On the evening of the last upload deadline, I asked her if she could upload it for me, and she said she forgot, so I asked her again to upload it for me.

Back to the dorm. She turned on the computer and said to me, "What should I do, I can't connect to the Internet." I said

Yes? No, you try again. She said

Still won't work. Upload your homework yourself, I can't help you. I said

So your own assignment was uploaded? She said, "Yes, I uploaded it the day before yesterday."

I said, "Then why don't you upload it for me by the way." "I was very angry.

Yesterday she watched Korean dramas, the Internet was not good, why is there no Internet today....The scene was embarrassing for a while, I played with my phone quietly without speaking, becoming more and more cold, and more and more angry.

She was probably so frightened by my aura that she left the dorm and didn't know what to do. (I usually laugh in the dormitory, the first time I murdered her, she may be a little weak-hearted) She didn't come back until after 22 o'clock. When I came back, I turned on the computer and told me that the network was fine again, and sure enough, it was useful to be murderous when necessary.

At that time, I had to fight not only with life, but also with my roommates who I hated very much.

Then I thought about it:

Reduce communication with her, keep your distance, distance produces beauty, and maintain respect. College is a period of self-cultivation, don't be afraid of loneliness, but this is not, you want to completely cut off contact with others, we can discuss some useful information, exchange news to broaden your information surface, but reduce talking about personal emotions and other topics, if you have emotional problems, just find a fixed few friends with a good relationship to solve it.

It's good to be neither humble nor arrogant in ordinary interactions. It would be best if you could change the dormitory. Out of sight, out of mind.

Moving out is the easiest way, otherwise you can endure it for four years or find a way to help you change it with other dormitory people (the nature of the country is easy to change).

Don't be humble, because being an honest person is the easiest way to make people with bad intentions take advantage of the situation, not arrogant, because if you want to be respected by others, others will respect you.

If you can't change him, you can only change yourself.

To be honest, going to school, living in the dormitory, and the relationship with your roommates is also more tricky, after all, everyone has to live under the same roof, look down and don't look up, the relationship is too stiff, it will be more or less embarrassing, and if the relationship with your roommate is not good, you will not have a warm feeling when you return to the dormitory, but only embarrassment and loneliness.

If you don't get along with some of your roommates in the dormitory, it's normal, and everyone has different living habits and personalities. But if all the roommates in a dormitory are alienated from you because of this incident, you should actually think carefully about why, whether it is really something that you are not particularly doing. Of course, this is not to say that you are not good, but in one thing, there is no absolute right and wrong, and everyone stands from different angles, so the point of view will be different.

Why did your roommate choose to side with your other roommate in this matter and distance himself from you? When we can't change the decisions and choices of others, we should first look for problems within ourselves. I also fell out with a girl in the dormitory during school, and the process was quite intense, of course, I don't approve of me not getting along with her, the person I get along with must not get along with him, everyone has their own freedom, you can't limit her freedom from being friends with other people just because she is your friend.

But my roommates are more oriented towards me, because right and wrong will be clear one day.

In fact, if they choose to alienate you, if you really didn't do anything wrong in this matter, you treat them with your sincerity, I still believe that sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity. They will one day be able to tell the difference between right and wrong. And all you need to do is be yourself.

The first is to like to sing in the dormitory, this kind of roommate if the singing is good, it will be fine, but many of the singing is ugly, and they have not yet realized that they are singing the sound of nature, and they have to shout a few voices in the dormitory every day, otherwise they will be uncomfortable, some people singing is really noise, it is simply not in tune at all, and they run out of tune to Causeway Bay. And what this kind of person hates the most is that even if someone in the dormitory is resting, they will come a few times from time to time, and this kind of ugly singing is simply disgusting to hear.

The second kind is to smoke in the bedroom, you know, the bedroom is not your own place, some people are super addicted to smoking, nothing to smoke in the bedroom, smoking the whole bedroom is the same as filming fantasy films, it is simply in the clouds, and the harm of second-hand smoke is super great, and many people have rhinitis and other problems, if you smell the smell of smoke, it is simply uncomfortable to die, and you persuade him to go out to smoke, he is not happy, often in the bedroom to smoke more fiercely, this kind of person is naturally also very annoying, after all, smoking is your business, It doesn't matter if you smoke like to, but if your roommate can't smell the smoke, you should honestly run to the toilet or the hallway to smoke, after all, it's not difficult to influence others because of yourself.

The third is to make noise about others sleeping, this kind of roommate is simply annoying, you know, the dormitory is also a place to sleep, but many times, roommates are not willing to let you sleep well, they will play games in the middle of the night to open the voice, and when they die, they will scream very high, or they are still playing with the object at twelve o'clock, which is really super annoying.

Just the main point:

To understand the reason why he is annoying.

Solve puzzles for him.

He won't be annoyed.

Good luck.

Blame yourself.

How can you be embarrassed to tell others about your own family? Spit out the truth, and when you encounter someone with bad intentions, you can only do this.

College girls have a lot of trouble, and you're asking for trouble.

I listened to you.

Actually, hear that you are.

I mind someone else.

Perception is a sensitive person.

But society is complex.

This will not be avoided in the future.

None of this is a problem, you'll find out later.

Life learns to be skinny, otherwise you will be unhappy

The good is good, the bad is bland, don't be too entangled, the sex of hundreds of people, this is normal,

Send you a word, eat well, drink well

Go your own way, regardless of what others say.

Things gather people in groups, these roommates of yours belong to the kind of bad character, low emotional intelligence will not speak, will only annoy people, you go out to find your own circle of friends, there are always people who understand you, you can't choose your own roommates to we can choose our own friends.