Mental problems occur in heavy years.

I'm glad to see your classmates You are a self-motivated person who wants to be the same as others, I understand the feeling you said, but it's nothing, don't compare everything with others, is it important to go to an ideal high school, it's not that you can go to a good university if you go to a good high school, you have to learn to accept and adapt, people have bad luck, it's not your failure, it's your choice, you live for yourself Not to keep up with the rhythm of others, When I was a child, because I went to study in Europe, because I was a foreign student who didn't know the language, I also repeated the grade in the most basic class, I was a few years older than them, I studied well, so I was promoted two levels at once, or a year older than them, I was also sad about this, I felt that I should have graduated at the age of 18, but I still have to be here for a year Some students abroad graduated from high school at the age of 17, I envy, I cried, but accepted, because after all, I learned a new language, which is also a harvest, I will graduate from high school in my twenties, Because I graduated from high school at the age of 19 and plan to go to North America to study, I will go there to learn English for a year after graduation, I don't care what age I graduated, but I have to think about how much knowledge I have learned is the key to my future usefulness, so this year is not a waste, it is worth graduating earlier than I in Europe. If you want to change there is a way, first you can go to that kind of fast school, that is, two years and one year to complete, you can also go to an international school to see if there is this method, if the family has money can choose to go abroad, in China can also wait for you to be admitted to the university as soon as possible to complete the credits, 4 years of credits in three years, in fact, many foreign universities are more than 30 people undergraduate, they do not feel that there is any shame in repeating the grade, my Chinese is not very good, I hope you can understand what I mean. Some students say that they study at night. . .

It's really no different if you're a year old You have to learn from me My brother and sister are so strong Why can't you be strong as a man?

First, ask yourself: Does age matter? What about being a year older and one year younger?

It's not good to study hard if you don't study, and it's not good to think too much. Parents will be worried when they see you like this.

You should imprint these thoughts and your goals deeply in your mind as a motivation to consciously encourage yourself.

In addition, high school and college are important times to cultivate social skills and psychological qualities, so we should seize this opportunity.

Remember, society is a place that constantly hits your heart, and you who are gradually moving towards society must learn to deal with it, except for yourself, no one will save you and help you sincerely!!

=, this kid. Not you. I'm also a heavy year, and...

I'm still in the first grade of elementary school... Sister, why am I not so entangled, Besides, I have a lot of friends... Except for the fact that I don't have a heart and lungs,,, others.,It's what kind of horns are you drilling.。。。

Heavy years... It's not a bad thing to have a little more experience than others, a little more vicissitudes. -

Hello can understand your feelings and thoughts, but it is impossible for you to return to that class, I think you did not separate well from your former classmates, and you did not actively integrate into the current class, which is a matter of adaptation. I think you need to actively learn to improve, learn to accept these facts, and learn to accept yourself! I'm sure you can!

If you really can't get out, you can go to the Xinqing e-home psychological platform to find a counselor to make some mental adjustments.

You should look at the success history of celebrities, they are easy, but I found that it is inevitable when you are not admitted to a key high school, because you are a person who can't withstand the wind and waves, remember that if you want to be a successful person, you must first learn to fall down and get up. There is also the fact that your current classmates are only one year younger than you, you can't be the first, and you don't like to make friends with them, you call yourself proud, but you don't have the ability to be proud at all. There is also a friend who has no age difference, as long as he falls in love.

I hope you think about it.

Friend, I don't think age is a problem, I don't think like this in high school, I read the first year of high school at the age of 15, and the second year of high school at the age of 16, but then I took a break for some reasons, I will also focus on reading, but I don't think there is anything, the key is that life is limited, we have to have our own goals, we must have our own dreams, and then chase them, many high school students live a muddy life every day. I think it's good as long as we don't focus on studying, but I think as long as we have a goal, every step we take is down-to-earth, and people who don't have dreams feel at ease sitting in the classroom, but come on.

Age is not a big problem, you will find that there are a lot of repeaters after you reach the third year of high school, some even repeat for several years, the age is much older than you, even if it is the same class as you, it is possible to repeat after the college entrance examination, you just have a little deviation in cognition, it is not a big problem, let yourself be enriched, you will not think too much.

Consult with a professional psychological counselor.

him. Why do you look at other people's faces and do things?

It doesn't matter what he says.

Do your own thing.

First of all, you should know your shortcomings! Life is not determined by academic qualifications, you can think about what other strengths you have! It's not a big deal if they get in!

Your life has just begun, don't worry too much about one failure! The important thing is that lessons can be found in failure! Let's summarize the reasons for your failure!

At the beginning of the work to correct! You can choose another major that you prefer! It's great that you can work with what you love!

Give yourself a time to consider, whether to continue your studies or choose to go out and work?

It's okay. Relax. Work hard.

Problem Analysis: Hello, your current state of envy is very dangerous, I feel that someone is likely to be a psychiatric symptom of the precursor to the delusion that you are likely to be a psychiatric symptom, and the tantrum and temperament change for no reason are personality changes, that is to say, the things you have experienced have caused your personality to change greatly, but long-term stress has led to serious psychological problems that may cause you to have serious psychological problems.

Suggestions: Your current situation is a serious psychological problem, although there are certain triggers, but at present you already have the precursor of mental symptoms, so you must be timely**, the current psychological ** may still be effective, so it is recommended that you go to the local psychological counseling agency for treatment, if you do not timely **, it is very likely to have mental abnormalities, which will seriously affect the normal life of you and your family.