What if I don t communicate with someone older than me?

Do more things for them, help

Listen more to find out their hobbies

And then talk about it

1. Treat each other as your own.

2. Put yourself in the right position.

3. Say what you should say, don't say what people don't like to hear.

4. Deliberately find shortcomings for yourself and ask the other party how to improve (the other party will often be happy to help you, so that you have something to say).

5. For the topic that the other party says, you must agree with the views expressed on certain things, even if you think he is wrong, you must also say "Yes, I agree with your ideas" If you have other views, you can also say "I agree with your ideas, but I also want to express my personal superficial opinions".

6. In fact, the most important thing in communication between people is to "degrade to seek", if you are taking the initiative to interrupt, then you need to be like this, in time your identity, no matter how high your status. Especially for people who are not very familiar with it, let's not show off our abilities too much, the first thing we need is to be able to reach a certain consensus on certain things and certain fields. Closer distance is the only way to communicate further.

7. Learn to ask questions. Only by letting the other party talk more, can you understand the other person better, and find the entry point for further communication with the other party by listening to what the other person is saying.

Here, you can see that you are not confident enough.

The more you go out and the more you know one thing, the more topics you have with others, and the more opportunities you have to get acquainted with others.

If you're still feeling unlucky, start with the internet and find some chat rooms with clear themes. Listen to others more, practice talking more yourself, and talk after you think about it.

In front of people who have more experience than you, you have a weak heart and low self-esteem.

The reason why you can't talk to them is that you don't have a good tone and don't have a good point of view.

Knowing your shortcomings makes it easy to improve.

In the crowd, there are old, middle, and young people, and there are left, middle, and right opinions. Respect for the old and love for the young. Seek common ground on issues of opinion. Don't be too persistent about small problems, say more wind, flowers, snow, and moon. The topic is to its liking.

I'm just like you, how can I solve it? But this is also a reflection of the common people, who wants to get an axe in the class Hehe isn't it? Just do what you want, say what you want, whatever, do what you want, don't care about those vanities, you look down on me and I look down on you, what's the big deal, it's best to think like this!

You can talk to me, and I'm just like you. If this person is more scheming, has more experience than me, and knows more than me, I am afraid to come into contact with this kind of person, because I am afraid that he will not know when to hurt me and when to look down on me, and when I talk to this kind of person, I seem to become very naïve.

The best policy: Praise. Praise each other, even children love to listen to praise, and whoever you praise will have a common language with whom. Suitable for everyone, young and old.

Medium strategy: do what you like. Find each other's hobbies, and if you have a common hobby with each other, you can't talk about it for three days and three nights. Like-minded, talk about everything.

Bottom line: whatever. The key is not to talk about any meaningful topics, you can say anything, as long as you are not dumb. When the hair is hair, it is unpretentious.

Speak with the wise, rely on Bo;

With the blogger's words, depending on the discernment;

Speak with the discerning person, depending on the need;

Speak with the nobles, depending on the situation;

Speak with the rich, depending on the high;

Speak to the poor, and rely on profit;

Speak with the lowly and rely on humility;

Speak with the brave, rely on the dare;

Speak with the fool, rely on the sharp;

This is also the case, and people often do the opposite. Therefore, it is said to the wise man, and it will be made clear by this; Speak to the unwise, and teach them this; And it's very difficult to do. Therefore, there are many kinds of words, and things are changeable.

Therefore, all day long, words do not lose their kind, and things are not chaotic; The day will not change, and it will not lose its master. Therefore, Zhigui does not forget. Listen to Guicong, remarks Guiqi.

--Guiguzi.

How do you have a relationship with your parents, especially your father?

Talk about some of your common topics, which requires you to have a wide range of knowledge, hehe, I think it's the older people who should talk more to enliven the atmosphere... Of course, if you really don't have anything to say, you can not say it, why bother deliberately looking for a topic, maybe people are very tired and annoyed and want to rest, at this time you keep nagging and annoying.

In addition, I think you have to have the courage to speak up when talking to others, in fact, most people are happy to chat, as long as you open your mouth to break the ice, you can do anything

I think you should never show upset when people say you're bored, just laugh": I'm just talking to you because I'm bored, and it's even more boring if I don't talk".In this way, others will feel that it is nothing.

I'm just like you, I understand that feeling very well, I can't get along when I see others chatting so happily, and I always have nothing to say to others. But you must not give up, if you have nothing to say, you will talk nonsense, even if it is very boring, don't be afraid to be stabbed by other people's words, laugh and refute it, don't care, you must know that the most terrible thing is not to dare to talk to others, and over time it is good to talk to them often. Don't be too greedy, you just want someone to talk to you, as long as there is something straight and happy you have to be happy enough, and slowly it will be fine.

Don't be sad, it'll be fine

The first thing to do is to build up your own confidence. Don't always feel that you are unlikable, no one gets along with others from the beginning, they all feel the good of each other in the slow contact.

Pay attention to your tone when talking to people you don't know, be calm, and try not to get into a quarrel with others.

You have to try to blend in with other people's conversations, and don't be afraid to talk about it.

In fact, chatting is a happy thing, and you will find out slowly.

As long as you are sincere in communicating with others and saying the wrong thing, it doesn't matter, in addition, you have to learn how others communicate, and it is definitely no problem to learn with your heart, and you must be confident.

Read more books about interpersonal communication, be brave and give yourself a little more confidence, sometimes self-confidence can also solve the things that bother you, not everyone will have a good grasp of interpersonal relationships, to master a degree of "too much" some things should not be done too much and do not be in place.

Time will change everything, and you will be there after a long time.

You just don't say anything, maybe you look better.

Human character is not completely immutable.

By following the steps below, you can change your uncommunicative personality

1.The key to changing your personality is to first ask yourself, "What kind of person do I want to be a good communicator?" ”

2.Once you've identified the kind of person you want to be who you want to be as a good communicator, ask yourself, "If I were the person I want to be, what would I do?" ”

3.Once you know what to do as a person who wants to be a good communicator, all you need to do is just go with the flow and express yourself generously.

First of all: learn to smile at people, smiling is the most basic level of communication with people. Have fun and read more books to make yourself substantial.

Poor communication doesn't necessarily mean introversion, it's just a lack of some communication skills.

First of all, you don't close yourself off too much, let yourself get in touch with more people with different personalities, and exercise your language skills.

Then go to more friends gatherings, see how others talk or tease others, and then think about what you would say if it were you, and slowly ponder other people's speaking skills.

In fact, self-confidence is the most important thing, read more books on how to interact with people.

I'm all! I don't say more than 2 words to a woman... I'm really stupid, I can't talk to others, and what I ask is that you are ** and what is your name?

That's it, my friends say I'm really stupid... And when I'm with my friends, there's usually nothing to say, my friends and I don't have a common topic, and we sit like a dumb person, hey!! It's so hard!!

Poor communication? There's just nothing to say, I guess it's because people don't have a topic to talk about. Haha, everyone has their own ideas...

But when I do things or go out to talk to people, I always ask questions, but I don't look at what kind of psychology the other person has. Later, when people teach me to speak or ask others some questions, I must see the psychology of the other party, and I will roughly know what kind of person the other party is, so that I can start talking from his side... Haha, I don't know what to say.

Haha, be a friend if you're interested.

It's mainly your own psychological problem, as long as you let go of yourself It's okay There is a saying that only goes like this: most cancers are scared to death. Untie the shackles of your heart, don't change yourself for others, everyone has their own way of life, and being yourself is the happiest.

Practicing in front of the mirror, the effect is quite good.

Well, get a girlfriend, everything is different.

( There's nothing wrong with being sensitive and introverted, so why be like everyone else?) _?

Hello, I'm just like you, but I don't think there's anything wrong with being introverted.

Just be happy, it's okay, good luck.

As an honest person, what should I do if I can't chat? Send you 3 communication skills.

I don't know what to say, it's like my brain is empty, who can help me.

Go get a girlfriend... You will learn a lot ...

It's pretty simple, just chat with her first, and as for what to talk about, it's actually quite easy to find, just surround her! Her hobbies, favorite things, and so on!

Don't think too much when dating a girl, if you don't want to have a partner with a woman, talk about her whether she looks good or not, and tease! When the heart is correct, go to communicate, and if there is an eye, it will be...

I don't have enough experience, so I have to make it up.

There is a book called "Thick Black Studies", I recommend you to read it. Chinese people pay attention to face in their dealings.

The way the Chinese interact, four points.

First, greet each other first, talk about the weather, for example, the weather is very good today, the moon is very round, these nonsense.

Second, on current affairs, discuss the new things that are happening now, such as the recent trends, the United States and China are pretending to be eggs, women can discuss the current popular clothing, this is done well, you can enter the next stage.

Third, pull homely and remember the bittersweet memories. It's a common thing, the situation of relatives, if it's a classmate, recall the embarrassing things when you were a student, happy things, the hardships you experienced together, and so on. This is the most important point. Now that this is done, it's time to get to the point.

Fourth, the previous has been paved, and it is necessary to talk about the topic, and it is very natural to change, such as there is a small thing to ask for now, so and so, so and so, and so and so, let it be... That's it.

Anyway, remember that the way Chinese communicate is 95% nonsense and 5% to the point.

In addition, women, when they go out to eat with their husbands, they must know when to talk and when not to talk. Be quick with your hands and feet, be diligent in serving tea and pouring water, but don't be reduced to a waiter, it will be looked down upon. You must know how to take care of your husband's face, let others know that your husband has a good wife who is docile and considerate, and your husband is proud and his self-esteem is satisfied, so he will naturally be good to you.

In fact, you and your child are about to be cut off from society, and if you want your child to change, you must first change from yourself. Start by making friends, make a few friends first, and take your kids to participate in interactive games or whatever. By the way, I recommend the book "The Art of Carnegie Social", Carnegie's books are quite good for you to read.