My relationship between family and career, career and family.

Hello, let me share my opinion. From the questions, it can be seen that you have fallen into difficulties due to not handling family relationships well, including career difficulties, which are worthy of our reflection and growth. Why don't the other party's parents and his sister help him, is it because he has shortcomings in being a person?

A man should be mature and learn to reflect in the face of lessons. It is recommended that you reflect on your shortcomings in handling interpersonal relationships and improve the relationship with both families. In addition, blindly having children before your career is stable is also one of the reasons why you are in trouble.

If you have a child, you should pay for the baby in advance, so how can you borrow it temporarily? Lives are at stake.

I don't agree with your business plan, are you sure that you can start a successful business after borrowing money? For opening "Du Lao Xian Spicy Soup", I don't know how much experience you have in business and whether you can make money in the business world. What do you do if your investment fails?

If you're not sure about this, give up. In fact, there are many ways to make money, according to your own strength, first do some reliable odd jobs and the like, although you make less money, but after all, you can have an income. And if you really want to start a business, you need to have a hard-working attitude.

Life is inherently tortuous, and we have to face it bravely. Only when you muster the courage to live will you have the strength to struggle. It's going to be okay and I wish you a speedy one.

You're not a good person, you can't get 20krmb if you can cheat such a good daughter-in-law, hypocrisy, friend.

I don't believe what you say, if what you say is true, it only proves that there is something wrong with your personality!

Don't expect others to help you!

In fact, what most people need is not a "career", but the ability to "have a long-term and stable and prosperous life".

There are very few people who actually work for an ideal.

It looks like I'm chewing on words, but I'm not.

Many times, we unconsciously lose our original purpose, become "career for the cause", and even sacrifice the quality of our personal life for the cause, and even sacrifice the happiness of our family and children.

Of course, in most cases, career and life are not contradictory, you have a good career, in order to have a good life.

But when you're good enough to sustain a better life, don't give up too much for the beans.

Always remember one thing: we do business for a better life.

I don't regret it, and I strive to be the umbrella of my family. Although Qi Qilu chose some things that he put down in his career, but he worked hard, and his family lived a good life because of his career, it was worth it, and if you have a career, you will not regret it if you meet a person like you who works hard to build a career and keeps working hard to do it. Use your own value to realize the dreams of others.

And then to serve the society and create a different life.

Just like the protagonist of Tianlu, he did a good job as the owner of a hot pot restaurant, but later he sold all the hot pot restaurants and went to build a road for his hometown, spending all his savings. He is using his own value to create the value of many generations, making them happier and happier. Career is to fight for the family, and continuous efforts to do it will have a rewarding day, and to benefit others will also benefit yourself.

Realize self-worth, and continue to work hard. When I have a successful career, I have more time to spend with my parents, watch them grow old, and be happy every day instead of being so helpless. Parents can be given more protection.

Although I didn't have much time to do my own things when I was young, I said to myself twenty years ago when I was fifty, thank you for your hard work at that time, so that I don't have so much sorrow now, but have a lot of happiness, watching my career continue to serve the society, create people around me, realize the value and work hard, it's worth it!

With these relationships, their children will only go farther and farther away in the future, and the contact will become more and more top-notch, rather than backward, at the bottom, constantly running around, and working hard.

Create a different life with a different life. Serve others with value, so that Gao Qing's own life can bloom.

People's energy is always limited, so people who value their careers will definitely neglect their families and vice versa. However, since you have made a choice, please trust and respect the other person, and consider others not only for yourself. If you say, love is just a bucket of tans and two loves.

Empty that marriage is more important than whether you have met a suitable partner. There are no perfect options in life, and your partner cannot be an absolutely perfect person. Everyone will have a temper, and they will have their own unbearable and regretful.

Accepting each other and taking care of each other is a shared responsibility of two people.

With a material foundation, it is easier to manage love and be lucky to meet someone who really feels it.

Career success and love are not perfect.

Successful in career, but it is difficult to judge whether the other party really loves you and can have a marriage, but you have to endure loneliness for the rest of your life, and no one can understand your pain.

Career and love both failed.

Obviously, it is not so easy to succeed in a career, and yes, in fact, choosing a career is a riskier choice, and failure in case of failure is likely to result in you having nothing. Someone else has at least a family, and you can only be both a failure and a loner.

In contrast, there is one benefit to choosing a career. Even if you know that you can't succeed, you can still make a regret option and choose love again. But most of the choices of love and family cannot have regrets.

The probability is much smaller than choosing a career, provided that you can have a lover who can support you unconditionally, which is obviously the treatment that only has saved the galaxy in the previous life.

The ideal of love success is in vain.

To choose love, or marriage, is to be aware of giving up personal ideals. Believe that your efforts will be rewarded, that there is someone who can understand you, be considerate of you, take care of you, and lose your dreams, but at least not die alone.

Career and love both failed (at least self-consoling version).

Give up your own ideals and put your bets on another person. thought that love could overcome some, but it turned out to be slapped hard by reality, the original love was not true love, but just a reason for yourself to avoid loneliness. In this version of the ending, probably the child is one of the few comforts.

Career is a girl's confidence, career will not abandon you, you can always do what you really want to do, career is also a kind of life practice, you can be a good mother, but also as a good independent woman. Career is really important for women, and having a career of their own is not only financial independence, but also spiritual independence. With independent capital.

Having a career can give women the courage to be independent, and they can support themselves and live the life they want without being attached to anyone. Don't care about the eyes of others to live. We will not be restricted or discriminated against because of financial hardship.

Especially in some areas where the patriarchal mentality is serious, having a career and income can improve the status of women and allow women to live more freely.

Having a career also means that women have their own things to do, and having a job is not only a guarantee for economic improvement, but also a process of continuous self-improvement. In the work, continue to harvest and grow, and keep improving. It is not only the firewood, rice, oil and salt at home, and the daily trivialities of housework.

While allowing women to take care of their families, they can have different moods and environments, and they can have their own pursuits and dreams.

In the past, women were family-oriented because they didn't have a choice, but now women do. In fact, women living in this era are still very lucky. When you only have one choice, that's not called a choice; When you only have two choices, you are in a dilemma; When you have more than three choices, you are called "having a choice".

Life is too big a multiple-choice question, and family, career, health, hobbies, and friendships are not the only answers.

In modern society, more and more women are choosing to pursue personal development and independence in their careers before considering marriage and childbearing. This view is that women should have the opportunity to pursue their career goals and interests, gain financial independence and self-fulfillment, and not rely solely on marital and family roles. With a career foundation, women can face marital and family responsibilities more confidently and maturely, while also providing more support and stability for their families.

However, this does not mean that every woman has to organize her life in this order. Marriage and childbearing are personal choices, and everyone has their own values and priorities in life. Some women may be more concerned about the importance of family and children, and more on the back burner of career development.

For others, they may prefer to consider marriage and childbearing after they have succeeded in their careers.

It is important that everyone should have the autonomy to determine the trajectory of their own life and should not be limited by societal stereotypes about gender roles. Whether you choose to have a career first or think about marriage and childbearing, the most important thing is to make an informed decision based on your values, goals, and life situation.

Just like since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety are difficult to achieve, career and family are often unable to take care of big potatoes, but the word can't be taken into account, I think it means more to say that you can't do your best in both aspects, and ordinary people don't need to pursue becoming a leader in both aspects. In the ordinary fireworks world, you can have a happy family, and at the same time have your own pursuit and career. This requires strong time management skills and interpersonal communication and coordination skills.

It is difficult for a person to balance career and family, and you must have a family member who supports you and stand on the same line as you to win the battle of life.