What should I do if a thirty year old leftover woman meets a bad man on a blind date

As the night deepened, a secluded alley. The street lamps are dim, the shadows of the trees are swaying, and there is a hint of mystery in the quiet. Suddenly, the silence of the night was broken by the sound of "dangdang" high-heeled shoes hitting the stone pavement, and a young woman hurried into the alley.

By the street lamp, I saw her pretty, long hair shawl, and a light yellow dress. She, named Gu Xinrui, lives in a courtyard deep in this alley. Tonight, thirty-year-old Gu Xinrui failed on a blind date again, and when she came out of the blind date, she was depressed and didn't want to go home and went directly to the office.

Gu Xinrui is the editor-in-chief of a magazine that has worked for six years, conscientiously forgetting to sleep and eat, and it is common for her to return late because of overtime. Returning late, in addition to being busy with work, another reason is that she doesn't want to face the scene at home, and when she thinks of that scene, she can't help but ...... her eyebrowsAfter the failure of the second sister's marriage, she took the child back to her parents' house, the third sister who was going to college complained all day long, the younger brother who was in junior high school did not know the world, and the mother was sad and nagged in Xinrui's ear: "Your second sister brought a child back is enough for my heart to block, and you refuse to marry, the neighbors all say that I delayed you, Xinrui, find a good family to marry, or my mother is ......."I don't want to go!

Every time she thought of this, Gu Xinrui felt a splitting headache! Why didn't she want to marry herself off sooner? But someone has to marry her!

As soon as she thought of this, Gu Xinrui thought of the scene from the blind date tonight. When I first met, the thirty-two-year-old software engineer could be said to be very satisfied with Gu Xinrui, after all, Xinrui's appearance was definitely beautiful, and she looked much younger than her actual age. The software engineer stared at Xinrui's delicate face, and his mouth was almost closed, and the benevolent brother thought that he had picked up a treasure today.

As the two sat down to talk, the smile on the software engineer's face faded little by little. Xinrui never hides the actual situation of the family from the blind date, which is her consistent principle of life.

Don't be decisive! Don't just find someone to marry because of your age! There is still a long way to go in life, can you stand it? Definitely not going to be happy! Look at the other men! Find a man who is good to you to marry.

As the old saying goes, when you are thirty years old, your personal problems have not been solved, no wonder your family has to worry about you. I am Chinese New Year's Eve, working as a technician in a state-owned enterprise, when I was in college, I had a relationship, the other party is a very cheerful girl, we have been together for more than three years, but because my parents felt that her family conditions were very bad, they insisted that we break up.

I was also very determined to separate from her. But I couldn't forget her after the separation, and I was single all these years because she held a very important place in my heart.

In the past two years, my parents have been arranging for me to go on blind dates about my personal problems, and to be honest, I am very disgusted with this way of meeting, and I have communicated with them many times, hoping that they will leave this matter alone. But they didn't listen at all, and they helped me fill up my time every week as usual.

Last weekend my aunt introduced her colleague's daughter to me, and to be honest, I really didn't want to go, and I ended up going anyway despite the coercion and coercion of my family. The blind date turned out to be unsatisfactory, I was not interested in the girl at all, we talked about some innocuous topics, and went back to our respective homes.

When I got home, my mother heard that the blind date failed, and she was not happy on the spot, and kept teaching me that I was too ambitious, but in fact, I was not too ambitious, but I didn't want to think about personal problems at all. I have been in a cold war with my family these days, and I know that I can't solve my personal problems, and the stone in my family's heart will never be able to let go, but I can't marry a girl I don't love for my family, so it's unfair to that girl. Now I'm really depressed, my family is putting a lot of pressure on me, and I really don't know how to deal with it.

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It's a shame to fail on a blind date in your twenties.

There are also a lot of shameful things.

I'm also in my thirties, and I haven't made it on a blind date yet.

No shame, why do you ask.

Don't be ashamed, I don't think there's anything to be ashamed of, maybe it's because you have good conditions and don't like others.