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It's normal for friends to be friends for a variety of reasons, you crave friendship, and you're even afraid of losing this friendship, but the problem happens, and it's not difficult to reconcile as before, to find the source of the problem, it's a matter of adding friends, it seems like a small thing, so that your friendship has a gap, didn't she talk about the need for a quiet space, then don't let people bother her, X and C talk at all, it can be seen from refusing to add friends, she is very resistant to C, you must not think X has a mental problem, Otherwise, your relationship will be cold, this is considered that you do not respect the privacy of others, without X's consent, you think you are her good friend and give others QQ without authorization, QQ only has you as a friend, which proves that your status as a friend is still very high, and X is soft, because you are wrong, the real reason is that she resists C, resists C and talks to her about some psychological problems.

You just need to be humble about giving QQ to others without authorization, and you can't talk about other people's psychological problems in the future, even if they really have.

I haven't read all of yours, it feels too complicated, but you made a serious mistake, that is, you told someone the secret between you and her, and it was strange that she didn't get angry.

In fact, as long as you talk to him often, don't ignore him, change the topic and talk about something else, remember to chat with him often, people are lonely, someone cares so much about himself, he must know, rest assured, he knows that you are good to him, and your relationship is good.

Love is sacred, and those who have love are happy. Under the nourishment of love, both parties pay sincerely, and careful care will last for a long time. However, for most lovers, the real dilemma is not how to love each other, but what kind of attitude to go on after loving each other hand in hand.

What are the situations in love that will choose to take the initiative to bow down? For me, if it is my fault, I will take the initiative to bow my head, of course, provided that the other party is someone who deserves to bow my head. But I will pay more attention to the details of life, learn the skills to maintain the relationship between two people, grow together, and be companions for a long time.

The initial heartbeat, in the process of getting along, will highlight a lot of problems, after a long time, you will find that the feelings that once floated on the clouds, when they fall into the dust and mud, they find that they are so vulnerable, so it will be said that love is easy to get along with. How to get along is the key in the emotional world.

1. Respect and understanding are the foundation of love

Falling in love with someone and then two people becoming one is a process. We all need to have a sense of security in love. With a sense of security, there will be the strength to go on, and the sense of security is based on mutual respect and mutual understanding.

As the writer Liao Yimei said: "In her life, it is not uncommon for a woman to encounter love and sex, but it is rare to meet understanding." "Only by understanding each other will we grow together, face the wind and rain together, and welcome the blossoming of love.

2. The right people are run in

A good relationship needs to be run-in, and the right person also needs to be run-in. In the process of getting along with the other half, in addition to being able to understand each other's good, we must also tolerate each other's weaknesses. In this way, the most comfortable intimate relationship will be run-in.

There's a song that says, "You don't need to be perfect to be terrible." We are all ordinary people, too perfect I can't find a perfect him to match, and finally perfection becomes our burden. ”

In love, when you need to bow your head, you must see clearly whether it is your fault and whether that person is worth your bowing.

If you really love, you won't want to let go.

Only by knowing how to cherish can you live up to what you have.

A lifetime is not long, and the rest of your life will be with the right person.

The little things in life. The quarrel continued. It doesn't matter who's right or who's wrong.

I will bow my head and be humble. It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs. Family, trivial.

There is no one right or wrong. As long as we tolerate each other and understand each other. Have a high profile.

What's the point of taking the initiative to bow your head?

If there is a change, if there is none, it will be encouraged. Dare to act, if you are wrong, you must dare to take responsibility and admit your mistakes and correct them.

Even more so, we must not be able to admit our own mistakes, and if we make a mistake to the end, the contradictions will intensify and destroy the true feelings that have been established between the two sides for a long time.

Love is equal. If I have something wrong or wrong in the process of love, I will take the initiative to admit my mistakes, knowing that mistakes can improve the great way, so why bother with face problems. Only criticism can lead to progress. There is no shame in making a mistake and bowing your head, but it is a sign of honesty!

Not really.

After you apologize, if the other party immediately forgives you, then the other party will be more "humble" than you.

Why? The party who apologizes first, even if it is for the sake of love, is often the unreasonable party, or the party who makes a mistake.

Let's think about it from a different perspective. For example, if the other party makes a mistake and you have a conflict, and you have a fight because of it, after the quarrel, the other party comes to apologize to you, will you forgive the other party immediately?

Maybe many people can't do it: "You made a mistake and quarreled with me, how can I forgive you for a while, and it's useless to apologize."

But have you found that among the two parties in love, there is always one such character. If one party makes a mistake, but as long as they apologize, that person will quickly forgive the other person. Think about it, this role, is it you or the other party.

Refresh your cognition. If this role is you, I believe, your love is deeper.

Because forgiveness requires greater tolerance for admitting mistakes and forgiving. And being able to forgive quickly is not only a kind of "humility", but also a kind of reluctance, a feeling that will be even more sad when you see the other party sad about yourself.

Therefore, admitting one's mistakes first is not necessarily humble, but forgiving quickly must be, and not only humble.

Humble" is right and wrong.

Some people will have questions, is this good? Will forgiving too quickly lead to the other party's gains?

I think that "the humility of love" is not right or wrong, because it is all voluntary, out of love for the other party.

No one can control the love of others, and no one else can control your own love. Therefore, whether "gaining an inch" will happen or not depends not on your actions, but on the other party's own thoughts. If the other party has the mentality of "inch by inch", what is the use of not forgiving you for the rest of your life?

That's why I say, there is no right or wrong in "the humility of love", only "I do".

Cherish and believe that after I have said so much, you also understand whether you are the "lowly" party or not. If not, please cherish your other half, the other person gives no less love than you, or even more than you.

To have a lover who is willing to "humble" himself and does not want you to continue to be sad, to have a lover who feels sorry for him, and to have a lover who is so tolerant of him, what more do you want?

ConclusionThere is one kind of person who has not said, that is, no matter whose fault it is, he is willing to take the initiative to speak, and if the other party admits his mistake, he will immediately forgive.

Love is beautiful. Talk.

There is a sense of happiness in love. When in love. I didn't understand it.

Give the other person a white lie. At this time. I feel sorry for each other.

I would bow my head silently. Love is innocent. What's the point?

Just be honest. Select Active. Then you will win the other person's affection.

Your love will be happy forever and ever.

After misunderstanding, I realized that I was wrong, so I had to bow my head, and people were afraid that they would not change their mistakes, and they would not improve if they knew their mistakes.

In love, both parties have to make their own efforts to maintain the relationship. In these cases, I feel that I should choose to take the initiative to bow my head:

For example, if it is obviously your own mistake, you must choose to bow your head; Another example is that if you don't go to live with your parents, you will face a breakup; Or if the other party's unreasonable request does not violate the choice or is harmless, and in order to satisfy the other party, the other party will also be chosen, etc.

If there is a dispute over the same issue, and the other party is arguing, and there is quite a certain reason, you should choose to take the initiative to bow your head and acquiesce.

In the process of love, if there is a conflict, one side is definitely needed.

Actively bow your head.

Two people like each other and have feelings, so when there is a conflict, one party still has to take the initiative, and generally the man takes the initiative.

In fact, the conflicts between couples are trivial, so after such a thing happens, don't have a cold war, and it's best for boys to take the initiative to resolve it. In this way, it is conducive to the development of feelings.

If both parties insist and no one takes the initiative to give, then there may be problems with such a relationship, and it is even possible to break up because of this, which is a bit unworthy.

When you are calm, it is best to discuss who will take the initiative to resolve a problem if there is a problem, which is also a good way.

Two people who love each other again in love will also quarrel because of something or a certain point of view, and generally I will choose to take the initiative to bow my head in the following situations, such as.

1.If you do something sorry for the other party and want to be forgiven by the other party, in this case, you will definitely take the initiative to bow your head.

2.Two people are arguing over something inconsequential, and the other party is about to get angry, at this time I will choose to take the initiative to bow my head, because it is not worth doing this for a trivial matter.

3.It's right to manage this matter, and it's the other party who is wrong, but out of love for the other party, I don't want to be deadlocked, so I will choose to take the initiative to admit my mistake and please the other party.

If you do something wrong, you have to take the initiative to bow your head, admit your mistakes to each other, and correct your mistakes, so as to enhance the feelings of both parties. It's better to solve it. To avoid causing trouble and emotional differences, if the other person is doing something wrong, you have to humble the other person.

When the other person is calm, you are communicating with the other person and dealing with the problem, which is the best way.

1. When kissing you.

There is a height difference between men and women, so when kissing, either the man bows his head or the woman stands on tiptoe! A man who doesn't love you, doesn't think about you, doesn't think about you, and doesn't even think about how painful it is for you to keep standing on your toes while kissing you! On the contrary, a man who loves you to the core, every time he kisses you, he will lower his head, he will not let you stand on your tiptoes, he knows that it is tiring!

2. When quarreling.

Men are very arrogant and have a good face! Therefore, I will not easily bow my head and admit my mistakes, let alone bow my head to a woman! If a man, every time he quarrels, no matter whose fault it is, he will take the initiative to bow his head and apologize and ask for your forgiveness!

This shows that he loves you very much, and in his heart, the most important thing is you, not face!

3. When washing your feet.

Only a man who loves you to the bone will bow his head and wash your feet for you, and will take good care of you! For him, you are important, you are special, you are his only one, you are the most important woman! Therefore, he is very attentive to you, and at the same time, he is also very attentive, he will take good care of you, love you well, and make you the happiest woman!

4. While sleeping.

When you go to bed every night, he will take the initiative to cuddle you to sleep, he will give you enough security, he will make you feel at ease and fall asleep happily! Moreover, whenever you kick the quilt, he will lower his head and cover you with the quilt, he doesn't want you to be blown by the wind, he doesn't want you to be woken up by the cold, he would rather sleep less than let you sleep without falling to the ground, he really loves you to the bone!

5. When you are sick.

After being with you, he is most afraid of two things, one is that you cry, and the other is that you are sick, whenever you cry, he will be very distressed, and whenever you are sick, he will blame himself very much! He doesn't want you to feel any pain, his heart is really uncomfortable, and every time you are sick, he will always guard you, never leave, and he always lowers his head and secretly weeps!

If I make a mistake in love, I will definitely take the initiative to bow my head.

As a man, in love, whether it is right or wrong, you should bow your head to the girl and apologize and admit your mistakes. This is a sign of a mature man, a man who is responsible and responsible.

For example, in love, I would choose to compromise, not to smoke, and to do housework. If my wife and I have an argument over housework, then I must take the initiative to finish all the housework at this time, which can be regarded as a sign of my bowing head.

Sometimes it's not your fault in love, but you also have to choose to take the initiative to bow your head, for love, for family harmony, it is also a smart person to choose to take the initiative to bow your head. In doing so, the other party will feel that it is not suitable, so that the old suspicion will be released, the quarrel will disappear, and the two people will be reconciled.