Still a little bit can t let go... I hope you can help me. It s about love

Kill it! Some women are very cheap! Kill.

I'm in the same shape as you now, it's very painful, I'm a senior in high school, and my future is about to be ruined.

Why bother. Find a way, vent, calm down, think about it, don't keep dwelling on why she doesn't love me, I want to forget about her. If you think about it once, you're actually deepening your memory once.

Then don't forget about it in your life. After venting and thinking calmly, you will find that without her, life is still the same, no big deal. Isn't it just a broken love!!

That proves that she's not for you, and the true goddess hasn't appeared yet.

I think you can't forget, you should be honest with her to say what is in your heart, to see if she reacts, it means that she still loves you, if not, it is enough to prove that he has died for you, don't run away, the more you run away from it, the more it will chase you.

You can't drive it away, and you can't ask for it. Find someone who loves you more than you love someone else.

Don't always think of yourself as an introvert. Look for things that everyone is interested in communicating. In communication, you forget about inhibitions. Be enthusiastic, caring, and help others.

Forehead.. Everyone understands the truth. Don't overthink it. Feel like you're not enough, in fact, everyone can know about your friendliness for a long time, find some topics that everyone can discuss, and just be yourself

It's to treat him as dependent, and you're used to it. Love isn't just about feelings. But it is the most important thing in it, we all have to learn to grow up and learn to be independent.

Accustomed to this feeling that no longer belongs to you, even if it is painful. But for your own sake. And for the sake of him you once loved.

That's it. Perhaps you will soon find your respective happiness ... I hope you are happy.

It's normal ... Because this is your first love. He's very gentle with you, so you're a little bit domineering towards him.

Even if it's not yours, you want him to be good to you. But in love no one has to be nice to anyone ... If you really don't love him, it's okay to give up.

But only if you're sure you really don't love him, and you're able to find someone better than him, you're giving up. Otherwise, you won't be able to find your way back when you regret it.

Believe me, happiness is about learning to give up what you should give up. Since your previous girlfriend betrayed you for the first time, she is not dedicated to love, and she is not worth your distress for her. Learn to give up friends such a woman not.

You just want to have some psychological comfort.

Are you sure you don't love him anymore Think about it There is no regret medicine After reading your description You still love him There are few people in the world who will be like him So good to you Hurry back to his arms.

It may be a habit not to give up on a man who is good to you until you find him, or it may be because after you break up with him, no one else cares, you want to find someone who cares about you, and then you think of him again. Or, in the name of breaking up, you are trying to make him care more about you and care about you.

You're used to having him. I have relied on him for my life. So. You will be like this now.

Time changes everything.

You're used to his affection, and you're dependent on him.

You're just used to him.

You don't love him, you just want someone to take care of you and love you, and because he is your first love, you haven't been taken care of by others like that, so you think it's love, but you say you don't like him anymore.

If you don't like it, you don't like it.

Being in love for a long time will become a habit.

You don't love him.

But it creates a dependency.

You still can't let go of him, you still love him. Because you don't want to meet the best, you don't cherish what you feel faint in front of you, and you will regret it later...

Don't look for objective reasons, making excuses can only show that you are still avoiding problems, do the right thing at the right time, be a person and do things with a clear conscience, you are living for yourself, your mouth is on someone else, don't say what to say and say what is another thing, remember those are important, those are unimportant, do things too, just be low-key,

Maslow's theory divides needs into five categories: physiological needs, security needs, belonging and love needs, respect needs, and self-actualization needs, which are arranged from the lower level to the higher level.

This is like mountaineering, climbing step by step, very hard, but for happiness, in order to get rid of suffering, people must climb.

Maybe one day, when you discover yourself, you can start self-realization, and the first four layers have little to do with you.

You can analyze what level you are at now, and it will be clearer how to go next.

Thinking too much.

That's why I'm nervous when I'm communicating.

So don't be stressed.

It doesn't matter what people think about it.

You just care too much and don't let go.

Don't be shocked to watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court.

Go and stay without intention, wandering with the clouds outside the sky.

Happy to you.

This is a state of mind that is not confident. People are still young, take your time, and naturally change as your life and work experience increases. Don't care too much about what others think, just like it.

In fact, everyone understands the truth, but it is difficult to do, because I myself am similar to you, and everyone has told me a lot of truths, but it is useless to myself. You still have to figure it out for yourself and try to let yourself go a little bit.

Dear, it's 2012, don't think about it, everyone is an ordinary person, others can't treat you well, you don't have to deliberately please others, you naturally have to live OK, don't waste time on people who don't like you, and snub people who are really good to you.

You are kind and don't do things that hurt others. You're not cowardly, are you bold to quarrel? What does the real you look like?

Everyone will mold themselves into their ideal person, and if you want to be a person that everyone admires or everyone likes, then you have to choose such a tiring way to live. In fact, how could there be such a person? Thieves don't like police, thieves don't like saints, you know Shakyamuni Buddha, right?

The Buddha should be considered flawless, but the Buddha has a relative who looks at the Buddha all day long. It's not that you can't let go, but you want something you shouldn't want. You grab a handful of thorny roses and cry out in pain.

If you often quarrel, it means that there has been a problem, I am also in such an environment now, I want to let go and can't let go, but if he still loves you, he will not let you suffer a little grievance, not to mention that he is in the army, after all, the distance is far away, and the relationship will slowly drift apart, love can not only be maintained by ** and text messages, it is better to try to let go, after all, he can't take care of your life, you quarrel with him every day, he is also miserable there, you are not happy, maybe the two are separated, it is good for both of you,

This question seems to be a bit tangled. You say you love him very much, and you should bear everything about him ... Instead of saying a breakup.

When you say break up, he says he will repent, but there is no change. It can only be said that maybe you love him or he doesn't love you enough... Although it is said that the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change...

But I think if you really love each other, you should be able to change for him... I think you guys should not fight ** for the time being. At least don't play so intensively,,, give both of you a thought about the problem.。。。

I think I have time to figure out a lot of things ... Wait until you've all figured it out. Then it's better to communicate with each other.

Don't reject him yet

You tell him, "Let's try it out as friends."

If you really should, I'll decide

Or you just tell him, "I'll think about it for a month."

Anyway, I just can't get back together with him right away

If you really love him, don't make a decision so quickly

May regret it.

What's wrong with him, his heart hurts so much, what hurtful things can he do in the army? It's okay to talk about it, don't quarrel at every turn, no matter how deep the feelings are, it's gone, why bother, adjust yourself.

I think you should not break up with him, you think about it from his point of view!

Staying in the army all day inevitably develops a short temper.

You should try to give him some space.

Does he love you? Is his view of love reliable? What do you think about your family? Are you going to entrust it for life?

Divide it, are you afraid that you can't find a better one than him?

This still depends on the personal situation.,First of all, you have to know what the reason for your breakup is.,If it's solvable.,Then let go of everything and try your best to redeem it.,Because you also said you can't let it go.。。 I think if you think it's worth it, and think it's better for you to continue to be together, then try to catch it back.,The insights that are useful to you are mainly your own.,Because everyone's situation is different.,Different personalities.,So the best for me may not be the best for you.。。。 In any case, I still hope that you can get rid of the current situation as soon as possible and be happy yourself again

Go for a walk, let go, do something else, and distract yourself.

So what, I'm also very dedicated, and I'm out of love, but now, I've survived. I tried not to talk to that person, and I didn't say hello when I met, although it was a little painful, but now, I'm okay, although it's still a little sad to mention that person, but it's better than when I just fell out of love.

Time is the best healing medicine.

Let's find another one, talk to friends, and it will come out soon.

Forget about her, or chase her in one go, and don't regret it if you can't catch her. Divert your attention, focus on other things, and slowly forget about her, time will dilute everything.

Find something to do, or a change of environment.

The best way to forget one person is to fall in love with another.

It's really hard to say whether you are attentive or not, you are only the first time, so many things have not been experienced, and then you can't let go of it

There are two solutions after falling out of love: some people immediately find another one; Some people need a long buffer.

Look at which one you are, and try to sit in the right seat

The unsatisfactory in life will always pass, I wish you happiness all the way in the future.

The constellation is generally not allowed, it is best to get the other party's birth date, and ask the fortune teller to calculate.

It's because you care too much about your husband that you're like this.

If you were like this at the beginning, maybe you wouldn't have been able to have such a husband, and you would be very happy.

You should know that things must be reversed.

When he is away, you can write down your thoughts about him and what you want to say in your diary, write every day, write whatever you want, and then wait for your husband to come back and you share it together, giving you the feeling that there is only happiness, which is really a good way.

You can also do something you enjoy to distract yourself.

Make more friends and hang out with friends.

These are all very good.

Change jobs, change jobs that make you think about them. Maybe it's because you're not busy enough at work right now that you have so much time to think about it. I think after reading your description, you and your husband love each other very much, but both parties know that this love is too heavy, and there has been a big problem, and the root of the problem is your crankiness, but also because you have nothing to do at work, and the company has no room for improvement, and the relationship between colleagues may be relatively indifferent, so you put all the focus of your life on your husband, suffering from gains and losses, and finally making both sides lose, because that is your only emotional expenditure point.

So change jobs, not in terms of salary, but in a new and good working atmosphere, in the fact that you can put a little energy into your work, force yourself to put some energy into your work, maybe you will become another self.

I believe that you have thought about changing jobs more than once, and the reason why you have not changed until now is that in addition to the good salary, I think the more important reason is that your husband told you not to change. But you know what? Do you think about it, are you getting better now?

If you don't change jobs and insist on the right thing, will the status quo of the two of you be good? I'm worried that if your relationship doesn't change like this, it may really be irreparable, because he is too tired, your love is too heavy, even if you don't change jobs and don't share a little weight in a new job, he will leave you.

Change jobs, it seems that work and love have nothing to do with each other, but at the moment it may be the best change for you, and maybe it will change your relationship.

It can be seen from your words that you are sensitive, a little nervous, and insecure, which may be due to your previous relationship experiences. The quickest and most effective way to do this is to find a trash can, you know. When you can't help but want to pester him, complain, or feel uneasy, don't look for him, but find this trash can and pour it all out.

Only if you are in a good mood and call him when you have something good to share, make him happy. In this case, do you feel wronged, you care so much in your heart, but you have to suppress even the fight **? Even you think it's your own problem, then you have to fix it, otherwise you can only wait for him to collapse.

This trash can be for your best friends, your suitors, or even a psychiatrist if you can afford it.

If a relationship is not easy and the pressure is too great, no matter how deep the relationship is, it can't withstand consumption. Stop being a wayward little girl and force yourself to be strong in order to maintain your happiness in the future. I'm very similar to you, even now, I'm always worried that my boyfriend won't love me, and the slightest mistake from him will be used as evidence that I'm not in love.

So I know how to do it, but sometimes I still can't control myself, but I'm already working hard to change it, and it's effective, so I hope you can overcome yourself too.