Why are most divorces initiated by women?

Because there have been changes before and after marriage, it is not the same thing as before。It is often said that love is the foundation of marriage, and marriage will only be happy if you have love. But why do some men and women who get married after experiencing intense love end up choosing to divorce?

China's divorce rate has risen for 15 consecutive years. In fact, it's not just China. The divorce rate in the world has been on the rise in recent decades.

Some countries have even introduced a variety of complex "divorce procedures" to reduce the divorce rate.

A woman wants a husband she can trust and someone who is interested in her。Women want a husband who takes into account their feelings and wants men to do their best in marriage and relationships. Men who take everything a woman does for granted, or who tell them not to expect too much from their husband because they never pay attention to her emotional needs, will feel that their wife's divorce has "caught them off guard."

Women usually do not ask for a divorce impulsively。Many people break down their marital relationships simply because their husbands no longer pay attention to their wives. Those small mistakes gradually add up to a big problem that leads to divorce.

After getting married, many men's minds change。You belong to him now, and your natural "manhood" is gone. In the eyes of these men, the role of a wife means cooking, doing laundry, cleaning the house, taking care of the children, etc.

However, women are becoming more and more independent, and they are less and less tolerant of this "widowed marriage". That's why most divorce petitions are filed by women.

Therefore, if a man feels "caught off guard" when his wife asks for a divorce, he must quickly think about whether he usually ignores his wife's feelings. In this case, a wife filing for divorce can actually save her heart and marriage, as long as you care for her and help her share the household chores.

This is because they are more sensitive, so they are the ones who initiate the final divorce.

Because generally speaking, it hurts girls very much, so they will divorce.

Because many women are now very independent, they will leave if they are not suitable for marriage.

Most of the people who want to divorce are because the boy is not good enough for the girl, and the girl feels very wronged.

First of all, if you marry someone who is not suitable, the probability of divorce will be relatively large. Many people are forced by the pressure of their elders, or feel that they have reached a certain level of age, and they have no choice to search for balance or lack of envy, and often choose to marry on a blind date. However, because the partners who know each other on a blind date spend less time together, and the two people know each other less, it is easy to have conflicts after marriage, and even lead to divorce.

Secondly, a marriage that is too casual will only make you more tired. I believe everyone knows that when you love someone, his shortcomings are also advantages, but when you don't love someone, his strengths will also become weaknesses. If you get married without loving someone, you will feel particularly awkward when two people get along.

If you meet someone who is not bad, you may also be greeted with warmth and treated you as your other half. But if you meet some other half who only live as husband and wife and pass on the family lineage, you will live a very depressed life.

In the end, marriage is a lifelong thing, choosing the right person can make your life happy, and choosing the wrong person may also cause you trauma. Therefore, in choosing a mate, no matter what age you are, you must choose someone you like, or someone with a better character.

Nine out of ten are women who file for divorce, it feels like it's not the life she wants to stare at, she wants to get everything and doesn't want to do something for her man, she feels that what a man should do when she gets married, such a woman will not be happy, after all, married life is mutual hunger.

1. If a confused woman's last marriage failed and divorced, then she felt the most confused on the emotional road in the future, and the emotions she had paid were in vain, almost exhausting all her enthusiasm and hope for her emotions. A failed marriage is still quite a blow to a woman, and in this case, a divorced woman is smart and very few can be happy. Because a woman's belief in emotion and marriage is already very low, she doesn't know what kind of attachment she can have to happiness, and she feels that she can't get what she is pursuing, so she feels very confused and has no happiness at all.

Second, the economic conditions of women are very happy after divorce, of which economic conditions occupy an important factor, because their economic conditions are not good, the monthly income is rarely able to meet the material conditions they are pursuing, and the life cannot reach the level of wealth they want, then they will not feel happy. In fact, many women have a better mentality after divorce, and they are not forced to be in love and marriage, and their lives always have to go on, and they can't live because of divorce, so women are also strong and work to earn money to support themselves. Some women have high requirements for the quality of life, but their own economic conditions are not good, and they have not found a lover with excellent economic skills, in this case, she feels unhappy.

Third, if a partner woman can't find a suitable partner after divorce, then she will feel unhappy when she lives alone, this kind of single life is very hard and tiring, and there is no lover to care for Qi Kai and take care of herself. I lack a real support, I feel that this kind of life is very tiring, and my heart is tired, and a woman in this situation is not happy. Fourth, work to earn money divorced women have to rely on their own hard work to earn money, then this kind of life is unhappy, because the work is very hard, life is not rich and even embarrassed, in this case, women need to work hard and bear a lot of pressure, all in order to earn money to fill the needs of life, in order to work hard for life.

So much so that she gave up the happiness in the ideal she was pursuing, and the divorced woman in this case is very happy, and she has a bitter stomach to swallow. Therefore, every woman wants to be happy, and it is the main thing to get the lover and life she wants.

I can't get along with men anymore. So choose divorce. There are many reasons, it may be that the three views of return are inconsistent, and there are constant contradictions in life. Maybe she can't meet her living needs due to financial constraints? Not necessarily.

Without you, a divorced woman Qingmo brother, there is a hidden pain behind the difficult to speak, you can't get love, you can't get money, even the wind and rain you suffer are because of that person, you got married to find a safe haven, even the person next to the pillow can't give you warmth and care, so what do you want him to do,

1. Most women in the demolition hall are not financially independent, do not have a good economic foundation, or choose to be a full-time mother after giving birth, and are completely financially dependent on men. When the marriage came to an end, Li Trembling was unable to raise the child alone and was forced to choose to give up the child.

2. Some women are more selfish, and when they divorce, they only think about their future life, and it is very difficult to live with children after divorce, and it is not good to remarry if they remarry, so they choose to give up their children.

3. When most people divorce, the man will go all out to fight for the boy's right to raise the boy, the man thinks that the boy is the root of his family and cannot be taken away by the woman, and the woman is not as dominant as the woman in terms of economic income, housing and other conditions, so she cannot fight for the custody of the child. The family that gives birth to a girl generally depends on the woman's opinion, and the girl can be raised by whomever she wants, but most of them are raised by the woman.

Therefore, I think that men and women should have children after marriage after careful consideration, and both parties are ready to be parents before deciding to have children, so that children can grow up in a loving family, and if the marriage breaks down, they should also consider which party the child is more suitable to live with, so as to minimize the harm to the child.

Divorce may have been a very humiliating thing in the past, but with the development of the Society, divorce has become a very common thing nowadays. There are many women who have even been divorced several times, just like Zhang Yuqi, who has been very popular recently, although she has experienced two failed marriages, she is still full of yearning for love, hoping that the next relationship can meet the right person, in fact, there are many women who are resistant to this now.

One: Very courageous.

In fact, I really admire those women who have divorced many times in marriage, because they are really very courageous, although divorce is quite common now, but for many ordinary women, there are still a lot of issues that need to be considered before divorce, such as property, children, future life and other concerns.

Two: dare to love and hate.

In fact, every marriage is an experience, and these experiences make us more mature, but some people happen to meet the right person in their first marriage, and some people need to talk a few more times. I don't think that women who have been divorced twice are very cheap, on the contrary, such women are more charming, because several marriages have taught them a lot of things, and at the same time they dare to love and hate, get married when they love, divorce when they don't love, dare to love and hate.

Three: free and easy.

Many women have actually lost hope in marriage, but they dare not divorce for many practical reasons, and they still wonder if they can save something. Treating love has always been disconnected. In fact, you should be free and casual in love, because you only have one time in your life, and you must find someone you love to be with, if it is just because of reality, then you will definitely regret it when you are old.

Therefore, such a woman is very brave, at least knows what she wants, is bold and decisive, and is a representative of women in the new era.

Many women may also find that their marriage partner is completely different from the feeling they had when they were in love. Some guys may show their best side to the girl in the process of falling in love with the girl. And in many cases, they take care of each other meticulously, so in the process of falling in love, many girls will also feel that each other's temper is very good.

Attitudes change a lot before and after marriageAnd the personality is also very compatible with himself, and he is very good in all aspects, so in this case, many boys also feel that they are willing to live with each other for a lifetime. So I chose to enter the palace of marriage, but when I didn't expect it, many girls may also find that some boys have a serious change in their attitudes after getting married, and even have a 180-degree change.

There is a 180-degree turnMany girls also don't want to believe it, but they didn't expect that their husbands were completely two personalities after marriage and before marriage, and their attitude towards themselves became worse than before. So in this case, many women will also feel particularly disappointed, when this disappointment accumulates for a long time, it is likely that they will feel unbearable in their hearts, so they will make some requests for divorce. In addition, some girls may also face a variety of more complex interpersonal relationships after getting married, such as some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships or other relationships between relatives and friends.

Facing more complex interpersonal relationships, in this complex environment, they may also feel that life is particularly tiring, not what they imagined. Especially after having children, they may also feel that they are not particularly happy with their children. And if some men have domestic violence, it will make these women feel particularly disappointed.

Therefore, they will also propose to break up with each other as soon as possible, and divorces like this may be very brave for girls, and they are willing to put forward such a statement.

I feel that after a girl gets married, unless she really can't bear it, then basically for the sake of the children, she may basically not divorce, her endurance is still relatively strong, and she can only divorce if she can't bear it.

First, the high rate of divorce filed by women reflects the social progress and economic prosperity of our country. In ancient times, women did not have the right to file for divorce, because low productivity led to the low status of women, and women ended up with three wives and four concubines for men. In modern times, the productive forces are highly developed, women have to go out to work, the same have to pay taxes for the country, and even many women have created far greater social value than men, so the status of women began to improve rapidly, plus the law stipulates equality between men and women, the implementation of monogamy, and gives women the right to divorce.

Under the premise of open-mindedness, economic prosperity, and equality between men and women, many women who are dissatisfied with their married life take the initiative to file for divorce. The second point is that in some areas, due to historical reasons, there are now more men and fewer women, and the ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced, so in the marriage market, women occupy an absolute advantage, since they are not worried about marriage, when women are not satisfied with marriage, they will be more inclined to file for divorce. Third, although China has long practiced equality between men and women, the old concept of feudal society and the supremacy of male power still exists widely.

For example, some husbands, although they are not as capable as their wives, look down on their wives from the bottom of their bones, and have to put on a supreme posture to their wives every day