How can the love that is bound by parents continue?

When you are not married, if your parents are against it, you will quarrel with your parents, and you will make trouble, and only after you get married will you know that your parents are right. When you are in love, you will hide the bad things, see the advantages of the other party, immerse yourself in love, do not calmly and objectively think about the advantages and disadvantages and suitability, only know that we want to be together, and no one can do without anyone. He likes to play games, smoke, drink, and it doesn't matter to you, and you can't take care of yourself at all when you live around him, and you are cute in his opinion.

Therefore, if you love right, you will love, if you love wrong, you will be happy, if you love wrong, you will lose both, if you love right, you will love your lover, and if you love wrong, you will be an enemy. In the past, the more my parents opposed me, the more I wanted to be together, but now that I have matured, I feel that my parents' opposition is not unreasonable, after all, every parent wants their children to be happy. Marriages, whether parents approve or disapprove of them, will encounter unforeseen difficulties.

You have to take all the responsibilities, make your own small family, and don't involve your parents, after all, it's your own choice.

From a parent's point of view, what is the starting point for the opposition? There is a phrase on my parents' lips: "I have eaten more salt than you have ever eaten".

As a person from the past, in order to achieve the so-called "good for you", parents will help you analyze whether the other half is qualified and whether it can bring you a good life from various aspects such as family, ability, material, reproduction, and emotion. Most parents' concerns are not unfounded. (Of course, there are special cases where a small number of unreasonable parents wantonly squander their children's relationships.)

Indeed, people in love are often immersed in you and me, and it is difficult to make a long-term "value evaluation" of their other half. Parents are well aware of the truth that "the authorities are confused, but the bystanders are clear": "I helped you see the shortcomings of the other party that you didn't find", "We helped you find out the details you didn't notice."

Feelings are not said by words, but by actions. You have to prove with practical actions that you want to build a family with each other, so that both parents will really trust, support and bless your relationship.

People should have their own opinions, especially adults. You should understand what your feelings for that person are, such as affection, love, etc., if you think about love, you should be brave to love when you recognize this person. As for the opposition of the parents, you can tell the parents that this is the result of your own careful consideration, and hope that the parents will support it.

It should be understood that only those who love each other will be blessed when they are together, and love and marriage are fought for by themselves.

It depends on the relationship, if it is very lovely. If you can overcome all obstacles, then you can say that it is no problem. But it still depends on the problem of parents' opposition, if it is really character or there is a big problem.

That's still not to continue well, parents will not hurt their children. Love is still to be practical, and it's necessary to listen to your parents, isn't it?

It depends on why your parents are opposed, whether the other party has a low education or is a foreigner or your parents don't like it, if you are true love, these are not problems, you can go out to work with each other, and just come back to see your parents when you have time, after all, you will spend the rest of your life with your beloved.

Love without the blessing of parents will not be long-term, parents must have reasons to oppose it, really don't believe in this matter, when the balance of two people is tilted, there is always one party to pay more, when the pay and return are not equal, there will be cracks, and it will become irreparable over time.

There is no standard answer to this, there is no parent in the world who does not love their children, first of all, we should calmly analyze why parents oppose it, if you think that what parents say is reasonable, you should have the opinion of some parents; If you feel that there are limitations to parents' understanding, then there is another sentence, that is, parents who have not separated their children.