His attitude is so cold, is he really going to break up??? You really don t want to be with me anymo

I can see that your boyfriend is under a lot of pressure, you don't want to put invisible pressure on him. He can reply to your text messages, which shows that he still cares about you, why bother saying so much if he wants to break up with you.

You just need to give him space and time, wait for him to have a meal together after work, buy milk tea or something and wait for him to come out. Silently it's fine. When it's time for a holiday, be sure to go out with him for a walk.

Cool him for a while.

Sometimes the more happiness you are around, the more you don't know how to cherish it, and the more you can't get it, the better it is.

Don't deliberately apologize or anything between boyfriends and girlfriends, I think you both need to think about whether the other person is suitable for you. If you don't have feelings, don't tie them together. After separation, each has its own life, and it is impossible to love only one person in his life.

Give him some space, he just needs a little time and space to calm himself down, the more you do this, the more he will push you away, take your time, good luck!

Encourage him more It's really not easy for a man But if he wants to give you a better future, he must make greater efforts Girls are more independent Do what you can do by yourself Don't rely on your husband for everything If you are sick, just take medicine and injections You don't have to be accompanied by a busy and dizzy husband You must know that when you have a text message past, he may be being reprimanded by the leader But he still has to think about you.

I also have a boyfriend, and I've never been sensible, so now I understand that I need to cherish this person who I once loved and wanted to love you for the rest of my life.

So now we can't be better, this kind of goodness is from the outside of Nell, I hope you will be more considerate of him, and if you think more from his point of view, you will definitely become happier and happier.

Please don't worry, just be quiet.

It can be seen from this incident that your boyfriend attaches great importance to his career, but at the same time he does care about you, but he is really busy and has pressure at work, and he needs your support instead of having conflicts at this time.

It can be seen that you love him very much, so you seem to be overly sensitive, so don't suffer from gains and losses.

When you are in love, it is only a part of marriage, you need to accept the normalcy of marriage, often the normality is very ordinary, you need to accept this normality, so it's not that he doesn't care about you anymore, but you are slowly getting on the right track.

Treat a relationship with a positive attitude. Feelings are a matter for both parties, so don't blindly ask each other how they feel, whether they don't love you anymore, whether they want to break up. You should also ask your heart whether you care about him very much, whether you love him very much, and decide your actions with your own thoughts.

He didn't say it, and you never cared, or he did, you didn't take it seriously, and over time, no matter what was on his mind, he wouldn't mention it to you again.

Leave decisively, don't wait until your boyfriend says to break up, don't be willing to leave, that will make you more painful! Your boyfriend is "very" cold to you, not simply cold, it can be said to be cold and violent. And cold violence is also a trick used by some people to break up.

Unable to take care of you, the most important thing is to observe some of his arrangements after work, if you arrive home on time every day after work, it is understandable, how can you have time to engage in some fancy intestines, if you have all kinds of parties after work, all kinds of entertainment, and do not go home for dinner for a long time, the relationship between the two people will naturally be estranged.

What he said was a statement he gave you after synthesizing all aspects of the current situation, including but not only his own conditions, surrounding evaluations, potential objects, etc. I want to use such a cold way, waiting for you to stop loving you but can't say it, I just want to indifferently force you to leave consciously. If I leave in minutes, if I lose love and lose self-esteem, the loss will be even greater, I can't stand it, and then break up with him, he will break up with you, don't have to bear a bad moral reputation, men generally want to break up, but they are very good at using coldness to force women to break up, and in the end it is your fault.

Maybe this guy doesn't love you that much. If you don't admit it, you can't do it, people want to break up, but they feel that "the breakup doesn't need a woman to mention", and some men are thinking like this, that is, to use some practical actions to "tell each other that it's time, it's time to break up!" "Maybe he's got something bothering and hasn't been able to take care of you lately.

Maybe it's past your love period. Maybe he wants to let go. You should be more caring and proactive.

If you love, go for it, don't give up easily.

Under normal circumstances, it should be, if a boy still likes someone, he will not be cold to you, most boys are more possessive, like a person should be enthusiastic, cold should be want to break up.

Hello dear, what has changed about your boyfriend to you makes you want to break up. In fact, every relationship from the beginning to the beginning of love is not the eternal sweetness we see on the surface, it has a hot love period, a run-in period and a cold period. Even if you change your boyfriend, you will have the same problem.

So if you want to break up, you can think about the problem, the relationship also needs to be managed, if there is a problem, everyone must communicate the outcome well, instead of breaking up, forget it.

Questions. He ignores me now and doesn't reply to messages.

Okay kiss, how long has he ignored you? Do you have a recent chat history for the teacher to see?

Questions. I sent him a message and he didn't reply for a day.

Do you think he wants to break up with you in a cold and violent way?

I don't think so, but you should have a good talk with your boyfriend to see what he really thinks in his heart.

I think it's like this, when your boyfriend is very cold to you, then it means that he doesn't have any interest in you and wants to break up with you.

I should want to break up with you, otherwise I won't be more and more cold to you, so I don't want such a boyfriend.

This is not necessarily, it is possible that there is a lack of effective communication between you, and the relationship is getting weaker and weaker.

Yes, it means that he has no feelings for you anymore and is bored with you.

How to say it, you can see if there is some misunderstanding between the two people, the boyfriend is in a state of anger or something, if not, it is likely that the relationship between you is weak, but there is no suitable time to say that you broke up.

Question: I have been in a relationship with him for six years, he is 55 years old, I am 42 years old, he is becoming more and more indifferent to me now, I also want to give up, but I am distressed, reluctant, answer can talk to the other party.

Can the question be redeemed?

Ask him if he owes money, which I know.

It's a matter of money, not that I don't have feelings for you.

Question: The construction site is full of money advances.

Because of the long-term companionship and getting along, he was tired and at the same time made him reluctant. It becomes cold because there is no freshness, but long-term companionship has always kept your place in his heart, so at this time you can consider changing a new mode of getting along with your boyfriend to make new surprises every day.

If in a relationship, the boyfriend becomes cold, and the thing is obvious, I think either he is waiting for the girl to propose to break up, and he doesn't have to be the blackface character, or the boyfriend has encountered some problems, so that he can't take care of his girlfriend's feelings, it may be a work problem, or it may be a family problem. Therefore, it is suggested that the girl can take the initiative to find out, or click on the side to understand the situation through the people around him.

I think your boyfriend may be angry with you because of something, you can think carefully about what small conflicts the two of you have had recently, and try to find out the reasons and resolve the conflict as soon as possible.

In this case, most likely he wants to break up with you, but he doesn't want to take the initiative to mention it, because he doesn't want to be called a scumbag, so he uses cold treatment and cold violence to force you to stand it, and then take the initiative to break up with him.

That's because there is no novelty for the boyfriend, and he generally won't choose to break up until he meets his next girlfriend.

The first way is to consciously stop looking for him, and everyone acquiesces to the end of the relationship. No more contacting him, no more appointments to meet him. Since then, the mountains and rivers are far away, and we will meet again.

The second method is to have a face-to-face chat and say goodbye politely. After all, they have invested in each other, and they were seriously together at the beginning, so now they are also seriously separated, giving the last tenderness and respect to this relationship.

You and I clearly know what's going on in our hearts, why do we have to delay day by day, and we have to wait until the general trend is gone and the qi is exhausted. Now that it's over, it's better to stop torturing each other and don't lie to yourself.

I think in this case, he is likely to treat you as a spare tire, so he will never break up with you.

Summary. You broke up and reconciled, but your boyfriend was a little cold.

You broke up and reconciled, but your boyfriend was a little cold.

And he said that there was really no way he couldn't not miss me, so he would agree to reconcile.

For the sake of your boyfriend, you should cherish it when he still has a little affection for you.

It's better for your boyfriend at this time.

Don't break up again. Belle.

I was very good to him, but he was indifferent to me, and he hadn't touched me for more than 20 days, and even once I took the initiative, he said he was not interested.

He's still angry.

Be mad at you. You can't say you're breaking up.

Otherwise, I don't think he will forgive you.

I wondered if he had eaten enough outside before he did this to me.

How long have you broken up.

Okay. The main thing is to get angry.

I don't feel it for you at this point.

It's been four times, and it's been half a year since they've been together, but he hasn't touched me in half a year, don't you think it's strange? Isn't it normal?

Half? It's not normal for so long.

Can you see each other every day?

If you meet and live together every day, you will notice it.

Almost, more than 1 month after the last breakup.

More than a month. There may be a catty on the outside.

I used to know the password of the mobile phone, and the mobile phone can be read at any time, but now the password has been changed, and I never want to see it, uh-huh

This one is suspicious.

You don't dare ask him to see it.

I'm afraid he'll be angry. I'm afraid he'll break up with you.

So, only with him too.

Yes, I don't think it's necessary, give him space, and get angry with himself in order to see some information that he shouldn't see.

You're doing it right.

Pushing too hard is not conducive to emotional repair.

The Cold War was very hurtful, and it was the hearts of the people that were cold. This is a type of cold violence. Don't use it self-righteously, in the end it is the other party who is hurt and both sides are the losers. When the heart is cold, what is the future?

In this case, I think he has wanted to break up with you for a long time, and this situation is just the fuse, maybe he likes someone else.

The Cold War is not the solution to the problem, it is really impossible for the two of you, because one of them either has never loved, or is tired and really wants to quit, and does not want to go on like this.

For two people with different views and different cognitions, even if they reconcile this time, they still won't be able to go long.

Summary. If you want to redeem it, and you still want to be with your boyfriend, you just talk to him, you see that he didn't delete your WeChat, you talk to him, he also cares about you, if he has a girlfriend, he will definitely ignore you, or delete you, so I think you can continue to talk if you still like him.

My boyfriend broke up with me in the cold war, I don't want to break up This is our chat, can you help me see if he has a new girlfriend now?

Hello, I took a look at the chat history, I don't think it means that your man has a girlfriend, you said that you two broke up in the Cold War, and you haven't broken up yet! And the attitude he has when he talks to you doesn't look like he has a girlfriend! It feels like he's still a little angry, and if you think you're angry because of you, you can coax him, or you two can talk calmly.

I hope mine is helpful to you!

It's because of me, I've been coaxing for a month, and he doesn't want to talk to me and reconcile, what should I do?

You can ask him out to meet, have a good talk, coax him well, as long as your boyfriend doesn't break up with you, you two are still a couple, don't think too much, if it doesn't work, you can cry and see how he does.

If you want to redeem it, and you still want to be with your boyfriend, you just talk to him, you see that he didn't delete your WeChat, you talk to him, he also cares about you, if he has a girlfriend, he will definitely ignore you, or delete you, so I think you can continue to talk if you still like him.

Well, okay teacher, then I'll continue to talk to him, I've been talking to him for almost a month, but he still seems to be angry.

Is it convenient to say why he is angry?

We have been dating online for 3 months, and at the beginning I didn't want to be able to run with him, so I didn't send him my own **, someone else's. As a result, he asked me out several times and I made excuses not to see him, and finally I told him that it was not me, and then we were like that, and he broke up with me.

He probably thinks you lied to him, so did you show him your real ** in the end?