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It's someone who is inherently cold.
For example, serial homicides can be indifferent to the lives of others, while some people can come forward in dangerous situations, even at the cost of losing their own lives. In short, people are different.
However, it is biased to conclude that a person is inherently indifferent just because he cannot hear the feelings of others speaking and singing.
Maybe this person is not sensitive to language and **.
For example, I am the kind of person who has a very poor sense of musicality, and when I sing, I have to go out of tune, and I can't even hear the emotion in the songs sung by well-known singers. So when I heard someone say that this song was super touching after listening to it, that song is very **, what song would be good to listen to when you are out of love, and what song should you listen to when you are lonely, I was really in a state of confusion.
Maybe it's because everyone's mind is different.
In life, there are people with that kind of nerves, not everyone is like Lin Daiyu who buries flowers and tears. You think your tone is depressed and sad, he just thinks that your voice is lower, you think that the melody of this song is like crying, and it sounds just tactful and changeable to him.
Maybe it's because everyone's feelings are different.
Some people are introverted and do not show their feelings easily, so they often give people an image of indifference. Watching TV series together, seeing touching episodes, there is an aunt in the neighbor who can shed tears, and tears really come when they are said. As for me, even though my throat is sore and my nose is sore, there are still no tears.
Speaking of which, it's just that you are born with fewer tears. Therefore, I am especially afraid of watching touching movies and TV series with friends and classmates, and everyone is moved to cry, and you are still indifferent, and you seem very cold-blooded.
In short, if you are indifferent or not, don't look at the appearance, and feel it with more heart. People can't be the same, right?
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As a normal person, it is a very normal thing to have seven emotions and six desires, but everything is inevitably exceptional, if someone is missing any link, we will feel strange, but this is really normal, indifference or acquired indifference. We have to understand the innate probability, since we all have a natural disability in the body, why can't feelings be considered innate disabilities? Even the cultivation of the acquired environment, or unintentional or intentional artificiality, will cause acquired indifference.
Therefore, we must recognize that apathy, whether it is born or cultivated, exists, and as for how to solve it, we can't fundamentally improve it, we can only use our own emotions to cover him, just like turning body temperature into snow.
Whether it is for those who are indifferent by nature or indifferent, it is not a mistake not to understand human feelings, and they do not even feel that there is anything wrong, they may feel that feelings are useless, because it is the interests that bind people, we can't say wrong, but we can't say right. Because for family and lovers, feelings are the most basic and reliable relationship exists, so family and lovers and even friends around them can improve their indifference, there are no fewer examples of this, and this should be the best way, just like using a fire to warm the ice, it can always be warmed, it is only a matter of time.
Having written so much, I want to say that everyone should understand these indifferent people, they are not the kind of indifference that will not reach out, but simply indifference between feelings and indifference without feelings, are they wrong? Actually, it's true, it's more about this society that is wrong, it's more indifferent than people's hearts, isn't it this world?
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