I m so lost and confused, so confused, I m so lost

Updated on society 2024-05-27
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It can only be said that it depends on your own choice, whether you want to go out to work or continue to study, if you want to engage in the job you like, it is recommended to go to graduate school and take the major you like, but the risk is very high, and you have to start preparing now if you are interprofessional. It's okay to find a job, but after coming out of the society, with experience, the road will naturally be smooth. But no matter which one it is, you have to graduate first, so now you have to do very simple, that is, first, choose whether to go to graduate school or work in the future, and then start to prepare; Second, in fact, this is more preferred, make up for the hanging subjects, and ensure that the senior year does not fail the subject (the senior year will not be hung up in the naked exam, but you still have to be careful), as for whether to repeat the grade, it depends on the school's decision, and repeating the grade is also this way.

    The above is the method, it is easier said than done, no way, people have mixed well and mixed badly, why? In fact, to a large extent, it is determined by the people themselves, no pay, no sweat, where do you get happiness and smiles. Many people know that they are not doing this right, that is not good, but there are absolutely few that can be corrected.

    Therefore, it is still a matter of self-control and awareness, if you really want to change your life, you have to pay more than others, behind every smile, there will be a process, but you don't see it.

    Confused......Alas, that's how I came, and I'm really speechless when I think about it now, but I can't help it, many people were confused at that time, and so was I. Only now do I realize that there is something confused, and I am not qualified to be confused ......I know that I should prepare a lot of things, but because of a little escape, because those things have not been touched at all, so I use confusion to fool myself, in fact, as long as I do it, I will naturally know the direction, when I am confused, I don't think with my head, I can know the way out by listening to others, my own road is definitely step by step, give myself a direction, be firm, confusion is just a fog, I walked through, only to find that it does not constitute an obstacle at all.

    Junior, there is nothing to say, life depends on yourself, don't think too much, you just need to know that everything you do now is the cornerstone of your future life. What do you do now, your life will change in the future, I just hope you don't be like me, you only start to work hard in regret after graduation, and waste precious time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You are a post-90s generation Don't talk about yourself like that, you are still young, you pick a major you like more and study it well You still have a lot of time to study Don't be discouraged No one criticizes you and despises you As long as you work hard, you will be happy

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I say a very certain thing: when the judgment is broken, if it is not forced, then, please choose, you are interested in the aspect to develop.

    Life is in motion, and if you have nothing to do, lack motivation, and stagnate progress, don't expect to succeed, and in the good years of your youth, you will achieve nothing.

    Let's put it this way, people are not born to be satisfied with the status quo, this sentence is the driving force of all the success of the world, and you have been infected by this sentence - otherwise, you would not be here to ask questions. Your heart longs for something better. Since I have something in mind.

    Why not look carefully for what you really want? It can be said that you are like this and you have not learned. I learned a little, but I can't use it.

    Every kind of distress is due to the lack of something, and as we all know, darkness does not really exist, but it is a lack of light, and as soon as you turn on the light, the darkness disappears without a trace. Equally. Poverty is only due to a lack of necessary **, as long as you find a way to earn money, you will have a lot of money.

    Your lack is just a strong desire to pursue. and a clear goal.

    You're nothing worse than others, you just haven't found the right direction.

    Blaming yourself for being incompetent, that's a negative thought, and you have to find the root cause of your troubles, that's what you have to do. For example, if a small stone in our shoe hurts our foot, we take off our shoe and pour it out. In the same way, once you have a clear understanding of the root cause of your afflictions, it is very easy to get rid of them.

    So, relax and think carefully about what you want and what you want to pursue.

    Don't waste your energy all day on your hours – trying to explore is the right attitude you should have.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Go out for a walk, take a walk around, and adjust your mindset. Set yourself a goal, then break it down to a few goals per day, work on it, and when it's done, continue to set goals and keep yourself busy, so that you don't have time to think about the things you're worried about. The other thing is to find what you are most interested in, that is, your favorite major, to work hard in this direction, the study in college is just to give you a method, the key is self-study, the major does not have much impact on a person's future, just like Bill Gates did not become the richest man in the world without graduating from college, so don't cry for the spilled milk, reflect on it, recognize your strengths and weaknesses, give full play to your strengths, avoid shortcomings, and believe that you will succeed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Friend, it's come to this point that you can't complain anymore. It's not that you shouldn't complain, but that complaining won't do anything other than make you more desperate for life.

    What are your goals? What are you fighting for? How are you going to fight?

    You have to be clear about these points, or you will be lost, as you are now. Life has ups and downs, there are difficult challenges, we face challenges, do we have to give up our beliefs and struggles, or stand up and face the present and the future? You may think that this is easy to say and difficult to do, but have you ever wondered why we live if it is not difficult?

    If not, why or distress do you have? Our life is a period of difficulty, and only by overcoming them can we have real success, because real success is only possible on the basis of difficulties.

    If you want to lay a good foundation for the future, it is better to go to university. You'll learn a lot when you go to college. The foreshadowing of a future job for a university scholar, so if the financial, time, and other conditions can meet your needs to go to university, then it is best to receive a few years of education.

    What's wrong with remembering? If you're good at it, why don't you develop it? Don't expect to make a big difference anytime soon, start with small things, and move forward little by little.

    If you can't change reality, then you can only accept it, and take what you can manage well, and do what you can do well. What else can you do? Sunshine, cheer up, and don't dwell on this slump, because the more decadent you are, the harder it will be for you to get out of it. Come on.

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