Why is no one in love with me, and why haven t I been in love?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love is hard to come by, but it is also something you have to fight for.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is personal, love is two people, but we can't guarantee that the person we love will love themselves, as for saying that no one is in love with you, it can only be said that you haven't met the real right person, so wait for fate, and when you meet, you will boldly pursue it, and you will find your own happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The first thing you have to ask yourself is, are you reluctant to accept others, or are you too embarrassed to take the first step? Love is something that everyone will experience, and I think you will definitely have the experience of having a crush, but there is no action, I hope you can be bold and express yourself, care about the people you love, and find your own love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends on whether you are mm or GG, now some people look at the outside and some people look at the inside, do you have both or both? What if it's true? Do you have a crush on wood?

    You can also take the initiative to pursue others, who takes the initiative first in love, right? Only if you have it is king!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If the boy is sincere and persistent, that's fine.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As a man, be brave ...

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love this play should

    Girls are passive and boys are active

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do you like a girl who has a lover? Or maybe she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.

    In fact, chasing girls is about timing.

    There is a saying that "sneak into the night with the wind, moisturize things silently".

    I'm sure you're not ugly, but you lack depth, read more books and enrich yourself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's you who don't want them to understand you, so others think you're too demanding!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Landlord, it shouldn't be that no one is in love with you, but you haven't met someone who likes you and you like it, don't be in a hurry, life is so long, love is unavoidable.

    When it should be encountered, it will naturally be encountered.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    100,000 questions that I don't know is really a lot.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Show your sincerity to others, and love will find you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because they're all in love with me.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I have never been in love, and I feel that no one can deserve it, this is because I am too arrogant and feel that I am too good. Some people feel that they are prosperous and beautiful when they look in the mirror, and when they take a picture with their original camera, they can find that they are just ordinary passers-by, who may have been educated from a young age to tell some people that they are a particularly good person. Most people are ordinary people, don't think too high, be down-to-earth.

    Often this kind of person is easy to become an older leftover man and a woman, and it is also recognized by everyone as a popular man and a popular woman, and everyone avoids this kind of person, so let's find out more about it!

    One, I've never been in love, and I think no one can deserve it

    There are some people who have never been in a relationship even though they have become. Although I envy others, it is difficult to find a partner every time, this kind of person usually has some filters for himself, thinks everything is excellent, and does not want to find an ordinary person to fall in love. The requirements are relatively high, and in fact, others have not taken a fancy to you, otherwise it is impossible to have no suitors all the time.

    Others will inevitably express their love when they see an excellent opposite sex, since they have never been in love, it means that you are not excellent in the eyes of others. It's just that I think I'm very good, and even if I pursue others, others won't necessarily agree.

    Two, what kind of mentality is this?

    It's the megalomaniacal mentality of feeling like the best in the world. Even if it is indeed very good, but this mentality is obviously wrong, not falling in love may be in line with the attitude of preferring lack to excess, if you want to find a better person, it is best to only talk once in your life, and then get married after falling in love, without being hurt too much. But no one deserves it, this mentality is wrong, because psychologically look down on others.

    It doesn't matter if you don't fall in love, it can only mean that fate has not arrived, and the mentality behind it needs to be adjusted, to discover more about the advantages and strengths of others, and to know that you are not perfect.

    In short, perfection is not a person, it is a sculpture. You have to look in the mirror and read more books to make yourself better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is because this kind of person is too selfish, because he does not have a comprehensive and correct understanding of himself in his heart, he thinks that he is very good and has no shortcomings, no one can be worthy of him, in fact, this kind of thinking is very wrong and dangerous, this kind of person is very lacking in friends and emotions, and it is difficult to make sincere friends and get sincere feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's a kind of conceit, thinking that no one can be worthy of you, thinking that you are the best boy, very arrogant.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's because I haven't really been in love, so I don't know myself very well, and I don't know what kind of person I'm suitable for, so I have such thoughts, which is normal.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The reason why I haven't been in a relationship is probably due to several factors.

    First of all, I pay a lot of attention to my career and my studies, because I believe that only by doing well enough in these two areas can I have a better future. As a result, I rarely have time to look for opportunities in a relationship because I need more time to hone my skills and knowledge to take my affairs seriously.

    Secondly, I have a lower need for relationships, and I feel that when I am younger, I should try different things, including traveling, tasting different dishes or trying various hobbies. Falling in love is just a part of life, not all of it, and I can't consider it a compulsory course in my life. Of course, I don't rule out trying to fall in love after finding me successfully, but it's not my priority.

    In addition, I also think that fate is very important. I don't deliberately look for a man who is in love, I believe that at the right time, righteous people will appear in my life. Maybe my personality determines that I am slower to get along with people, and I need more time with people so that I can really get to know each other.

    I believe that time can dilute everything. I'd rather spend my time looking for my direction in life than looking for opportunities to fall in love.

    For the above reasons, I don't think that just because I don't have a relationship doesn't mean I don't have dreams and visions. Although the single life may be relatively boring, it is a valuable opportunity for me to discover myself. I believe that waiting is not in vain, especially when I find my true direction on my life path, and maybe I will meet someone who is truly suitable for me and can accompany me for the rest of my life.

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