How to distinguish between shallow and deep words and heartless city?

In fact, the biggest difference between Jiao Qianyan and Xinwu is that Jiao Qianyan can really say a certain truth, and he doesn't care whether the relationship between you is deep enough to talk about this; And the heart has no city, it's just that everything he and you say is just bragging, and this is the biggest difference between them, so through the difference in time between the two, we can easily distinguish them: <>

1.The basis of the exchange is that there is a certain relationship between the two of you, which is just similar to a nodding acquaintance, and it does not reach the point where you can talk about family things on the same table:

The premise of the conversation is that you have a certain relationship with the person you are talking about, but your relationship is not necessarily very good. And the person you are facing is also willing to tell you some big truths, although he is not successfulBut his original intention is for your own good, not that he is behind you through these waysHe hopes that by telling you these great truths, you can go further in your life and career. It's just that in your opinion, the relationship between the two of you has not said that it can go to this point.

And this kind of person is actually the kind of person we are used to saying is willing to educate others. <>

On the contrary, I feel that a person who has no heart is a person with low self-esteem in life. They don't have much success, so they use this way to increase their popularity, but those who really have the city in their hearts are very low-key, and they see everything very clearly and clearly. And those who really have no city in their hearts like to talk about some big truths, and they still make their own remarks even though they don't know much about it.

They didn't know that they were like clowns playing acrobatics on stage in the eyes of others. <>

The former are all relatively cold and will not be particularly enthusiastic about everyone. The latter has a city government that will laugh at everyone haha, in fact, that is their own way of covering up.

People who are shallow and deep-spoken often like to confide everything they have to others without reservation, but the funny thing is that they don't find that the other party is actually not interested in themselves, and people who really know how to communicate will not completely confide in themselves, otherwise others will not see your sincerity. People who don't have a city in their hearts often don't think too much, but say whatever they think, never beating around the bush, let alone insinuating about others. The original intention is to help others, even if the words are not good, I don't realize it.

Look at the way a person looks and the way he talks to you. If he's the kind of person who doesn't care and doesn't care about you, that's the former.

Observe whether this person is telling the truth to you alone, or to all of them. If he only says a lot to you alone, it's when you're a good friend. If he says anything to everyone, he has no heart.