Know what wisdom is there to speak?

The highest level of speaking is to know without saying anything, and to say without exhaustion. Knowing without saying is a kind of wisdom, and not saying without saying is a kind of connotation. You don't have to say everything you know, and you will lose your friends.

Don't be too true to others, because if you are too true, you will hurt yourself. There are some things that you can't say if you can, and if you say them, you are likely to offend others. People are mixed in this society with one mouth.

The mouth can coax and hurt people, the key lies in the question of how to speak. The art of speaking is to make the listener comfortable. Not making others comfortable is the most stupid thing to do.

Don't say it, friends tell the truth, it depends on what kind of truth.

Saying Words to Becoming Faith Saying Words are actually moral considerations, and those who "make promises" can often achieve credit.

Confucius said: "The ancients could not speak, and they were ashamed." If a person speaks too much, he will have words that cannot be fulfilled, but he will lose his credit, which is "clever words" or self-inflicted disgrace; If you want to achieve the integrity of life, it is better to talk less and not empty words.

Lao Tzu also said: "Faith is not beautiful, beautiful words are not believed." Good words do not argue, and good words are not good.

He believed that clever arguments and ornamentation would hurt the truth and integrity of words. It's like the heavens, it doesn't say anything, but the spring, summer, autumn and winter change in turn, and there is no disorder and error, which is a high degree of honest character, and this is the right way of virtue.

If it's just a general exchange, then it's enough to respect each other, don't judge other people's opinions, you're not the other party, you don't understand why others think the way they do, and you're not qualified to stand on the high ground to comment on each other, so no matter what others say that makes you unhappy, don't easily expose your fragile self-esteem.

Empathy, do everything to empathy, when encountering things, you may wish to stand in the other party's perspective to think about the problem, starting from the other party, think about how we do this The other party will think, the consequences of this, so that we can think clearly, do things the best, if the other party is the leader should pay more attention to this, but the premise must be to raise their thinking to a height, if I am the leader, how do I want you to do it, what kind of effect will it produce, gains and losses can be figured out, do things properly and appropriatelyIf you develop such a habit of thinking, you will be able to deal with many problems with ease and just right.

Good at listening to others, this is very important, when communicating with others, listen carefully and carefully to others, you will be able to accurately understand and comprehend the ideas that others want to express, as well as the purpose of speaking, so that you can accurately express your own thoughts, express your own views, be able to communicate and communicate with people well, and achieve twice the result with half the effort.

Like this Son Zhengyi, what he said, I think he is very wise, and Ma Yun's, he is also very wise, he said that wisdom is obtained through experience.

When talking to someone, be sure to pay attention to what you say, if you feel that the other person is sensitive to the topic. This topic should be stopped immediately.

If others do wrong things and make mistakes, criticize and blame people to leave three points of leeway, "people are not saints and sages", giving others a chance is also giving yourself a chance, and it is also a reflection of the size of your belly.

No matter what the occasion, a confident person can always attract the attention of others. Confident people always have a down-to-earth temperament. So no matter what the occasion, you must speak confidently and organically.

Talkers, as soon as they open their mouths, win. Speaking is an art, paying attention to time, place, occasion to say different things, to say the right thing, to say well, is the embodiment of wisdom.

Speaking is indeed an art, don't talk too much, leave a way back for yourself, consider the other person's feelings when speaking, and make the listener comfortable is the ultimate goal of our speech.

I don't think you have to be too direct. It would be better to tell the other party tactfully.

Chinese culture is broad and profound, if just one or two sentences are not enough to show, just like my previous sentence is very wise, do you see?

As a talking person, it can really help us with a lot of things in life. We can find that whether it is at home, at school or at work, we have to learn to speak. Only by learning to speak can we be liked by more people.

In fact, it is very important to be able to speak and know how to speak.

The way you speak is important, and some people are smart, mainly because they know what to say in what situations. In fact, some rectums are not popular with many people, and some people think that they have a straight personality and will say anything when they think of it. But in many cases, it will also create some embarrassment for others, and after a long time, most people will not choose to be friends with you.

In fact, we can choose to help others say that they are also very good when they are laughing at themselves, and when our friends are unhappy, we can also choose to make them happier.

A person's speech can see a person's cultivationIf everyone is talking about some awkward topics, then we can also change the topic, so that we are indeed very good in the minds of others. If we don't speak in a measured way, it really makes people very angry, regardless of whether we have a good relationship with us or not. At all times, everyone should also know that they should pay attention to proportionality when getting along with their friends, and they should also pay attention to proportionality when getting along with their colleagues.

If you don't speak in measure, it can lead to a lot of relationship breakdowns.

So everyone also has to know about this, we respect others, and others will respect us. Before we speak, we should think about whether we can say this sentence at all, so that more people can like us. Another is to say something well, don't always scold people, a person's cultivation can also represent a person's impression in the minds of others.

If we insult others when we encounter some problems, then this practice will also make many people avoid us.

When you make a wrong statement, they will not directly expose you, but will give you advice in private, they will not embarrass you in person, they will not make you lose face, and it is very comfortable to talk to them.

Truly wise people speak with great thought, never open their mouths, and do not show off their abilities or belittle others, which makes people very comfortable to listen to.

A truly wise person speaks, does not say what he says, and will never leave some room for others, and will take into account the feelings of others. They ask for advice and suggestions from others when they speak.

When you speak, you will always respect the opinions of others, and you will not only think about yourself, but also take into account the overall situation.