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Updated on psychology 2024-05-15
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, this kind of man is garbage! You give up quickly, don't struggle, there is no point in going on, and it's not worth going on at all!

    Again, you have to reflect! They say it's good, and there must be a reason. Either you didn't satisfy him, but made him compare his ex-girlfriend to be more suitable for him, so you don't understand him at all!

    Either you are too careless, they keep in touch or he keeps thinking about it, but you don't know it, so blame yourself for being too stupid!

    As for giving him everything, I think society is more open now, so you shouldn't think too much about it. A lot of revenge and the like won't end well. Let him go guilty of himself!

    Bystander Qing, I hope what I said can help you.

    I wish you a new happiness soon!

    Note: Don't think that people not only live for themselves, but also parents and people who care about you, so don't do stupid things! )

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I used to be like this, giving everything for what I loved, but still not getting his love.

    But I love his smile, and I feel so happy when I see him smiling!

    Although I knew that he would not fall in love with me, I wanted to protect him.

    I know you're heartbroken, you've reached the limit, after all, so much you've paid.

    So, whether you can do it or not, just let it go!

    It's hard, it's heartbreaking, I want to cry, I know, I know, because I've experienced it.

    Cry, cry! Let the past be history and go find a better man than him!

    Where is there no grass at the end of the world? Why should you fall in love with a flower?

    Let it go! There will be better people in your life!

    Maybe it's difficult, maybe it's heartache.

    But look to the future!

    Don't forget what you once loved, because that's just not possible!

    Make it the only and exclusive thing you ever have in your heart.

    Feel relieved! There will be a better tomorrow! Better spring!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People are "seven-year itch", I didn't expect you to arrive in 4 years.

    It may be a cup for you, but think about how many people you have benefited since your breakup.

    You're single now, right? So does it mean that our male compatriots have the opportunity to chase you?

    Let's go back to the "forest" from scratch, that crooked-necked "tree" is not worth your nostalgia again.

    Enjoy the feeling of being single, and then enjoy the feeling of being chased. I guess I haven't felt it in a long time.

    It's okay for you girls to break up, just wait for someone to chase you. We boys are sad and have to chase slowly.

    Change your hairstyle, change your mood, change your clothes, and wait for us men to chase you.

    Enjoy being loved again, and don't be afraid of getting hurt, because I don't think you'll make the same "mistakes" again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The best way to comfort the other person is to stay with her (him) at the right time, divert your friend's thoughts, and tell the other person that "it's not a big deal, it may still be good for you, and there are better things waiting for you later", and you yourself have to feel that it's nothing. Try not to mention the breakup.

    Wait for your friend to be in a better mood, and then mention the lovelorn with him (her), summarize the good and bad, the key is how to go in the future, if the same thing always happens to him (her), then deserve to fall out of love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No big deal.

    You have to believe that you are good.

    That man is sad to have lost such a good you.

    Not now.

    Most of the energy is focused on dressing up.

    Browse fashion magazines.

    Look at the famous book and listen to the light**.

    Self-cultivation is very important.

    To let him know one day that he didn't value you is his loss.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Heartache is for sure. But since he's with his ex-girlfriend, what are you still nostalgic for? Do you expect him to come back and hurt you one more time?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't dwell on it, let it go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's tragic enough, I'm afraid of birds, don't be sad, there's better ahead.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Either let go, or take revenge!

    Choose one of the two. You have no choice.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feel like you're not her dish, like a spare tire!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    As the saying goes, what you can't get is the best.

    When a man has a crush on two girls at the same time, who he loves more depends on who loves him less. - Han Han (Is this the legendary psychology of committing cheapness?) )

    Therefore, a man's ex-girlfriend is a woman's lifelong rival.

    No matter who failed who the two broke up in the first place, if the girlfriend came to the door many years ago to ask for the man's help, more than ninety percent would have been successful.

    The reason why men and their ex-girlfriends are easily entangled is because in their hearts, men's possessiveness has always hinted at them, and ex-girlfriends are still women who belong to them.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Find a man who is your first love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because everyone has memories, if he doesn't have her in his heart, then he is a hard-hearted person, don't you have your ex-boyfriend in your heart?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's okay to be yourself, that kind of man is not your cup of tea, to have confidence in yourself, the most important thing is temperament.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A man can never resist an ex-girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's just a coincidence, and the fourth one won't be like this.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Just ask for the right person who will have it in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Have your own personality and attract men with personality.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Break up, this kind of man must be thinking about his ex-girlfriend. Why do you have to compare you with his ex-girlfriend after breaking up, you must still think about her in your heart, and you may also be a spare tire for him to forget his ex, and you are always compared Do you like this kind of life? If you don't like it, it's better to break up, as the saying goes, if the bad doesn't go to the new one, you will find a better one, and the most important thing is that both people in love have to be very comfortable, so you must not wronged yourself because of him, it is not worth it at all.

    And is he a straight man, I think every boy knows that the ex is absolutely forbidden to mention here in the current one. Either your boyfriend has a big heart, that is, we say he lacks a heart, and he doesn't mind your attitude towards his ex. Of course, if it's the first one and wants you to change your shortcomings, then why do you have to compare you with your ex-girlfriend, why is it not him who made the change, but you, is it possible for you to suspect that his ex-girlfriend broke up because she couldn't stand him.

    Know that there is no one person who can make you change, you will be who you are. So once again, I advise you to break up. For the sake of love, it really won't make you change your original beauty, and since he has been comparing, he must be in love with his ex-girlfriend or Volnawei, in that case, I don't think you have anything to say, or directly bring up your thoughts with him, tell him that you don't like his ex, and tell him that you don't want to make some weird changes.

    You may not be able to accept the second method. It's that you directly proposed to break up with him, and asked you why you just made an excuse for the hall chun, you have to remember that you are not someone else's spare tire, you are a main palace. I don't think this kind of man is rare in society, so it's better for you to teach him a lesson, so that he can do well in the next term.

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