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Anonymous users2024-02-09If you lose to the love that "I thought", if you want to save it, don't "think I think" anymore
I thought he loved me a lot, I thought I did everything right, I thought he wouldn't be angry......All kinds of "I think" is wishful thinking to do something inappropriate by one's own temperament, thinking that no matter what you do, you won't hurt each other's feelings, but it often backfires.
Some people are very strong in love, relying on their own conditions to have certain advantages and wantonly dominate their lovers. All the wages received must be handed over, and the whereabouts must be reported at all times, and the lover will not be forgiving if he makes a small mistake, and he will not admit ...... if he is wrongand so on, thinking that the other party will always love you, but in fact, you are constantly overdrawing love.
Some people are self-righteous in love, thinking that everything will be fine when they come together. So they no longer manage their love carefully, nor do they work hard, their home seems sloppy, and lovers always shirk it if they want to be romantic occasionally. Because they feel that since they already have it, they will not lose it again.
In fact, whether you are in love or have stepped into the marriage castle, you need to manage it carefully。This kind of management is not to stand in the perspective of "I think", but to think more about the lover, to take into account the feelings of the other party, and not to be self-centered in everything.
Love is one and equal. We must know how to respect and be considerate of each other, and we must know how to be tolerant and understanding. Those couples who are able to grow old together, their love is actually very simple, that is, there is no strong "I think", but more consideration of "he thinks".
So if you want to save the love that "I think", it is actually very simple, that is, to put "I think" and "he think" on an equal footingMore communication and exchanges, without violating their own principles and bottom line, but also a little more compromise and tolerance. Only in this way can we help each other and spend a lifetime together.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08To get rid of the habit of "I think", we must learn to empathize, not to be self-centered in everything, to learn to consider the feelings of the other party, and to learn to pay more in love may be able to save the love that "I think".
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Either accept the reality, or give up on this love that is not what you "think". Love is inherently different from what you imagined, you can only accept reality, don't live in your own imagination.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06You must have a strong belief that everything will be fine, you can change yourself and the other person, and let life develop in a better direction.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I think I should be brave enough to come out of this failed relationship, and I shouldn't ask for a love without cause and effect.
Listen to what your parents say is reasonable, and then judge. In the world, many love that is not favored by parents is because the door is not the right household, in fact, it is also right to say that the door is right, because this is basically a grassroots level, there will be the same values, and the values of two people together are the most important. But now, with the development of society, many young people have come out of the poor mountain villages where they were born before, and many of the living environments and education they are exposed to are similar, that is, the values are also similar, so if parents still feel that there is a class difference, they can let each other slowly contact their parents and change their parents' views.
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Silly boy, I can't see this, don't you think that like in idol dramas, the hero has some incurable disease, and then I don't want to affect you, I'm afraid that the probability of this is very small, there is only one possibility, he has already gotten along with others, don't use everything you want to know, so at this time, don't pester him, let him give you an explanation, give you an explanation, the reason why he avoids you is that he hasn't thought about what to say to you, or he is not sure about his current situation, he needs time, the more you go to him, The more he will annoy you, if you still want to save this relationship, the best way is to wait and see what happens, don't go to him again, men are cheap, you ignore him, he will come to you again, most men are like this, unless he really doesn't love you or hasn't loved you, then it will be forever still, if it's the latter, then give up, such a man is not worth your love, giving up is the best comfort for yourself.
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Stick to your principles while being able to support yourself. For such a big person, the opinions of parents are very important, but the decision is still in our own hands.