When in a relationship, do boys look at the girl s family conditions?

In modern society, when young men and women fall in love, they pay more attention to each other's affection, and as long as they are satisfied with each other, they will come together. Of course, boys with "wealth" will be more favored by women, and girls with "appearance" will also make men flock to them.

Generally speaking, just a simple relationship, boys will not mind the girl's family conditions, as long as the girl is beautiful, most boys will not care too much about her family conditions. Especially under the premise that both parties are in free love and have deep feelings, even if the woman's family conditions are not good, the boy will not take it to heart.

As a man, it is to hold up a piece of the sky, to create a beautiful life with both hands, and to give happiness to his girlfriend. As long as it is a responsible person and a self-motivated boy, the woman's bad family will not only not let them regress, but will arouse their fighting spirit.

Due to the limitations of physiological conditions, for the vast majority of families, men are the main income generators of the family economy and the pillars of the family. As long as it is a man, they basically have this cognition, they are looking for a relationship and a wife, not for "money".It's about finding a wife who can look at her own eyes and be able to marry and teach her children in the future, rather than looking for a boy like a girl to rely on, so there is no need to care about the girl's family conditions.

Although boys don't care too much about girls' family conditions, due to the current pressure to survive, if girls' family conditions are too unbearable, such as a close relative suffering from a serious illness or carrying a large amount of foreign debt, and the boy knows that he can't afford this, then many "sensible" boys will also be discouraged. Even if the boy himself doesn't care, he will face huge resistance from his parents.

In fact, in today's era of love freedom and economic take-off,Young men and women should pay more attention to each other's inner qualities when they fall in love, and don't chase too much about external things such as "wealth" and "appearance".。As long as both parties are in love and can work together, then they can overcome any difficulties and finally usher in a happy life.

Some boys will value the family conditions of girls, and some boys will not value the family conditions of girls, after all, falling in love is a matter of two people, and it has little to do with family background.

I won't look at it, after all, I like a person and don't talk about her money, as long as I work hard, the family conditions will get better slowly.

I think that if a boy looks at the girl's family conditions, then such a boy is not true love for the girl, and if it is true love, it will not look at the woman's family conditions.

I think it's better to divide people, most boys don't look at the girl's family conditions when they fall in love, as long as the boy loves her, the boy is willing.

I don't mind this. Because after getting married, I live in a boy's house, and it doesn't have much to do with the girl's family. As long as the girl herself is better, it's fine.

I don't think the average boy will mind the average family condition of the girl, if you mind, it can only mean that you don't love her or don't love her enough, the family condition is not good, and you can change it through the efforts of the two of you.

In fact, everyone is not very wealthy, and the family conditions are average, as long as two people truly love each other and will work together, there is nothing that is unacceptable.

If a boy really loves a girl, he won't mind the girl's family conditions, and if a boy doesn't really love a girl, she may mind the girl's family conditions.

If the girl is beautiful and she likes someone, the boy generally doesn't mind the conditions of the girl's house too much.

It depends on the situation, for example, the man's family conditions are better than the woman's, the man and the woman are in love, the man probably doesn't care very much, but the man's family will care, it's all mutual, because whether the man or the woman, as long as a condition is a little better and a condition is almost there, there will be differences, some boys won't, because he really likes and really loves the girl, but some boys will care no matter how much they like it, no matter how much they love.

If you want to mind, you can find out a lot of points that make people mind, including but not limited to family conditions; If you don't mind, everything is a part of you and you can accept it.

Seeing that since the person has been together and understood, the boy may not mind.

But you must first understand whether his family cares, otherwise you will have a knot in your heart when you get along in the future.

He wouldn't mind if he really loved you.

If he cares a lot about your family conditions, say goodbye early! Because even if you get married, you will look down on your mother's family.

If you mind, it only means that you don't love her or that you don't love her enough. If the family conditions are not good, you two will have to work hard to change them in the future.

Do boys mind if girls have average family conditions? In fact, most of us come from working families, and our living standards are about the same, and if a boy is particularly concerned about the girl's family situation, then he is not particularly fond of himself, and these are all excuses.

Do boys mind if girls have average family conditions? How do you say this? Some boys will mind.

But some boys won't mind. Mind if you don't mind. I think the object.

It's better to find a good match. This is more likely to go the long way. Able to grow old together.

The two families don't want it, the difference is too great.

In fact, men will also care about the woman's economic conditions, and the so-called family match is what it means.

Generally speaking, boys care more about the quality and appearance of girls, and do not care much about girls' family conditions.

A good family has become an obstacle for boys to chase you, which is why many women have a high monthly salary, a house and a car, and are single.

I don't think I mind, but my family may be a little mindful.

It's not okay to really like someone, boys and girls are different.

As long as two people truly love each other, they won't mind each other's family background. May happiness be

Yes! Even if you don't say it, you will still dislike it.

I won't mind, as long as I look good.

I remember a friend who said such a sentence when he was looking for a partner, don't find a mom and a boy when you get married, and don't marry a brother when you marry a wife. This sentence sounds cruel at first, but it also represents the concept of marriage and love of most young people now. Although today's marriage is not as important as a few decades ago, the person who talks about the family background of both parties will still take into account.

Because everyone knows that marriage is not a simple matter of two people, but a matter of two families. It is not too much to say that the success of a marriage is the competition between two families with two people as the protagonists and the alliance of interests reached.

Marriage is not poverty alleviation, if the family you are looking for is too poor and has multiple children, your marriage is equivalent to marrying a family. If your wife still dotes on your younger brother, then you are ready to buy a car, buy a house, pay a bride price and find a job for your brother-in-law, he will become a shackle for most of your life. Now when looking for a partner, everyone will include the other party's family background in the scope of investigation, and it is also necessary to talk about the right door.

However, the current door-to-door pair, compared with the previous door-to-door pair, which only talked about material conditions, has been given a new content, that is, the family's cultural atmosphere, three views, living habits, etc. have been included, and it can be said that the family that is looking for the object has become more picky about each other. After all, if one party is the middle class and the other side is a small citizen in the market, and the three views on the two sides are seriously discordant, then after marriage, the contradictions and disputes between the two families will continue one after another.

However, this is not bad, in a sense, I think it is better. After all, after getting married, the couple will inevitably have contacts with both families, and they also need to integrate into both families. Sometimes, the original family members of both parties can also affect the relationship between the husband and wife, leading to discord or even deterioration of the relationship.

This cannot be ignored either. The reason for one's future marriage is also the greatest responsibility for oneself, which is a good phenomenon. However, family is only a reference factor, after all, marriage should still be based on love and character.

Most of the boys are more concerned, after all, this is related to the future life of two people, if the other party's family background is better, then there will not be so much pressure in the future.

Personally, I feel that boys care about girls' family background, because girls' personalities are also related to girls' personality and family background, so boys will care.

Boys generally don't care too much about girls' family background, but generally girls care very much about boys' family background, because some girls are more vain.

I think boys don't care about girls' family backgrounds when they're in love, in their eyes, this thing doesn't matter at all, what matters is whether you are a person or not.

Yes! Because if two people are together, they will definitely look at each other's family situation. If there is a disparity in the family situation and status of two people, one party may have some inferiority complex and feel that they are not worthy of the other.

Boys are very concerned about the woman's family background, because if the other party's family background is not good, the boy may be reluctant to want to date such a girl, because he doesn't want to use all the money he earns on the other party's parents.

The average boy cares, because they don't want the girl to have a younger brother in the family, because it can be a big burden.

Boys who mind very much always want to find a girl with similar conditions to their own family, and they don't want to find a girl with a particularly poor family.

There must be some concerns, because they also have to think about their future life, whether it will be particularly hard.

Of course not, generally speaking, boys don't care too much about a girl's family background, but more about the girl's character.

Generally not, the boy will not consider this aspect at all when choosing the other half, and only a small number of people will be very concerned about the woman's family situation.

When falling in love, many boys don't look at the girl's family conditions, only look at the appearance, see if they are beautiful, look at the figure, and care more about whether the two people have feelings?

And when they really go to get married, most boys will also look at the girl's family conditions.

Of course, there are some rich second generations and some rich and handsome, they don't value the woman's family conditions, but just see if the girl is beautiful and whether she can get along.

After all, there are still many ordinary people in life, especially boys with poor family conditions, and they still hope to find a girl with good family economic conditions to marry.

Yang Bin said that I was born in the countryside, and finally got a job in the city, which is the result of my very hard work, I don't want to find another girl in the countryside, because their parents have no pension, and it will be a drag on my small family in the future, after all, I am a very ordinary person, I hope to find a girl with a good family in the city to change my fate.

Of course, I don't want to find a brother demon, Jane is afraid that the future will quarrel with her brother to get married, it is impossible not to let my small family pay for it, and I have to pay a lot of money, and it is not easy for me to earn some money.

I have seen the life examples of poor couples, so I want to find a daughter-in-law with good economic conditions to change my fate, and it is best to find a white rich beauty, so that I will struggle for 20 years less, and it will also bring benefits to my parents.

For many old boys, as long as a beautiful girl is in love, but on the issue of choosing a mate, when preparing to form a family, you must consider all aspects of factors, and you must also consider whether the three views of the two people are the same, whether they are the right person?

Of course, there are also some boys whose own conditions are very ordinary, and have an inferiority complex, if the girl's conditions far exceed their own in all aspects, they will put pressure on themselves and hinder their interaction with girls.

Some people say that girls would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle, and this statement soon attracted countless infamy, and was labeled as a gold worshipper, and often such boys are mostly male **, because they can't give girls what they want, so they have resentment, everyone has the right to choose their own spouse, and girls are the same.

Some people say that when a girl is looking for a boyfriend, it depends on whether the boyfriend has money, and a boy looking for a girlfriend only depends on his appearance, but in fact, a boy looking for a girl also depends on the girl's family conditions.

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: The answer to this question depends on the personal situation of the boy, some boys may value the girl's family conditions, and some boys may not. Reason:

1.Social beliefs: Some boys may be influenced by social beliefs that girls with good family conditions can better support their romantic relationships.

2.Financial strength: Some boys may consider their financial strength and think that if the girl's family conditions are good, it can reduce their financial burden.

Workaround:1Strengthen self-awareness:

Boys should strengthen their self-awareness, not be influenced by social concepts, understand their own value, and not change their minds because of the girl's family conditions. 2.Strengthening the economy:

Boys should strengthen their financial power so that they can better support their romantic relationships, rather than relying on girls' family conditions. Steps:1

Strengthen self-awareness: Boys can participate in more psychological counseling, read more books about self-awareness, and communicate more with friends, so that they can better understand themselves and not be affected by social concepts. 2.

Strengthen economic strength: Male students can participate in more vocational training, learn more skills, and participate in more investment and financial management, so as to better improve their economic strength. Personal Tips:

When boys are in love, they should not be influenced by social concepts, understand their own value, do not change their minds because of the girl's family conditions, and strengthen their economic strength so that they can better support their love relationship.