I have a crush on someone in my fifth grade, and I want you to help me

Ah, puppy love! I'm also a person like you, and now I'm about to enter junior high school, so I should focus on my studies! (Some people have confessed to me), but it's not right to think that way.

I also had a crush on someone else in the third grade, only to find out afterwards that it was worship and not love. I don't feel that way anymore, so I suggest you think about what it is. (Now the task is to study!) ）

Children are very young. Don't think about those things, you don't know what love is!

You're just a little bit of a fan of people right now. But at that time, I liked it very simply. It's not love

Read well. When you grow up. You will know what love is. At that time, I will pursue others

In fact, I've had a crush on someone since I was in elementary school, but I don't have the courage to confess The only way is to talk to her (find a chance to say it) Note: Don't be too close to her, otherwise she will hate you.

The crush is fruitless, you should tell her frankly that it is her problem to accept it or not, so that your heart will not be too tired, and there will be no regrets in your life, come on, good luck.

You're too precocious, study hard, kids, you know what love is and how to make money.

It's normal to have a good feeling.

But that's not love.

Now having a crush on someone will affect your studies, concentrate on studying, divert your attention, and gradually forget, hoping to help you.

Crushes are normal. You're too young to be at the right time!

You must have low self-esteem in your heart, but you love face and don't want others to know your inner weakness, so you force yourself to pretend to be good, but you don't know that the more you try to disguise, the more strange the result will be...For example, when you speak, you have to think about how to say it first, or you don't dare to look into other people's eyes...Wait a minute. In fact, you need friends, you need to open your heart to face the world, whether it is good or bad, to accept it, who has not experienced it, I am very annoyed now, but I know that no matter what happens, the boat is still straight to the bridge. In fact, we always say that we live for whom, and if it weren't for them, maybe what would I have been, but if you think about it, it's actually that we can't bear it...The world is still very beautiful, I hope you can take the first step bravely, make more friends, and you will definitely get sincerity with sincerity, come on!

All right. I'll admit I'm about the same as you. I'm a woman and a student.

I have been autistic and stubborn since I was a child, selfish and stingy and rebellious! I like to close myself off and not communicate with others, even with disdain. The temper is particularly stinky......In short, I feel that I have a lot of shortcomings.

Sometimes I envy others for being able to talk to so many people. But I can't do anything, and I can't communicate with strangers,......I'm a girl, so it seems normal to be shy. But such a person simply cannot gain a foothold in society.

I told myself over and over again that I wanted to change, but I failed again and again. I've also looked at a lot of communication strategies, but they didn't work. So I try to understand myself first, start with myself.

I want to ask you, do you know yourself? I mean really know, do you know what you want? Have you ever thought about your future?

Have you ever thought about what will become of the people around you in the future? Do you know what the people around you think of you? Do they like you?

What will make you happy? Do you usually laugh heartlessly? ......In fact, the usual troubles come either from others or from oneself.

Don't take yourself too seriously, and don't speculate too much, you say that you will imagine the consequences of doing something, you often think badly, but everything has two sides, why don't you think more about the good side??? Sometimes don't worry too much about the result, there are some things that you won't regret if you work hard, so why care about the result? In short, let everything go, if you are afraid that others will not like you so you dare not do it, it doesn't matter, there are people who like you and there must be people who don't like you, we don't live in the world to please others!

Your own good is the king, Finally, I will send you a word: there is nothing in the world, and mediocre people disturb themselves! Good luck, friend!

It is recommended that you go and see the innocent smiling faces of the children, and the troubles will soon disappear ......

Alas! I'm guessing you're Pisces. I've experienced what you're talking about, and it's ongoing.

At the end of the day, you just don't want to be mediocre and don't want to be like most people, but you do like most people (and you can only solve this problem yourself. In love (socially), you have to have the courage to take the first step, otherwise it is useless to take more steps if you think (thick-skinned, don't think about it thickly), and be casual, don't care too much about the eyes of others, and care about others can only suffer yourself. Some of the troubles are simply self-conceived.

Mindset matters. People are the same before, and they are the same, so it's okay, most people will be like this. When a person is alone, he is free of body and mind.

Relatives are not used to reciprocate, relatives are used to love, don't have this ideological baggage. You should understand that you have a lot to do and that you have a lot of uncertainties ... Aixin.

Young man, you are purely normal, because you are immature and have not been baptized by society. I don't recommend that you imitate others, nor do I suggest that you deliberately imitate yourself. Read more books, which are helpful in life, watch more movies, inspire you, and smile more at people.

These things seem to be ordinary and are often talked about, but they are really helpful, do not be impetuous, but also have your own beliefs, don't blindly follow what others do and say anything, what others do to you, you don't have to be so to others. To build confidence, you must communicate with others, and you must first look up to yourself before others can look up to you.

What you're saying is really distressing, but it's not hopeless. You can think of it this way: life is an aisle, why bother about a little thing, no matter what others say about you scolding you, you will not lose a piece of meat.

You can try to open up and talk to trusted friends. When doing everything that concerns others and yourself, think about it from someone else's point of view. You should also say more good things and be sincere, be happy when you say good things, and be more serious when you tell the truth.

When you are honest with someone, you will treat him as your own, and when he is good, you will be happy. Be cautious when chasing girls, if you really like it, just watch it from afar, and then confess when you feel that she has a little affection for you, don't develop too fast, otherwise people will be bored. Take your feelings seriously and don't care too much about the things you serve.

When you stop being disgusting yourself, you won't be so disgusting to others. Hope my words can help you.

Actually, it's normal for people to be like this, and a lot of it is their own vanity that is at fault, as long as you figure it out. If you count a whole bunch of your faults like this, it's easy to hit your self-esteem, and when your self-esteem is hurt, you repeat those faults. No one is perfect, it's good to be able to find out these faults and then correct them one by one, relax your mentality, show your true self, keep an optimistic attitude, come on!

This symptom is a bit like autism. Now that your situation is not serious, it is best to go out more, find friends you think are good to go with them, and then try to have more contact with strange classmates, be brave. Or buy your own basketball, go to the playground, and I'm sure it won't be long before someone plays with you, and accept them.

This uncertainty about the future is a stage that everyone has to go through! Nervousness needs to be exercised, and this has a lot to do with your education, family environment, and these things can be exercised! You have to be sure that you really want to change, and then you have to do it step by step, so that slowly you will get out of the situation!

Nowadays, there are many success books, but they are all large, I suggest you read a copy of "Who Moved My Cheese" and you will know the true meaning of change! Money is dead, people are alive! If you want to change your state, you have to believe that you can!

You can try sales first, deal with people, and after a long time, your problem will be solved.

I think you're thinking too extremely, you say you don't know how to get along with other people, it's very simple, you can say hello to people you know or know when you see them, you have to smile at people often, I like to laugh, so I feel like people around me like me, hehe, and why don't you confess? Don't have the courage? Why not give it a try?

Even if you refuse, you'll be sad for a while at most, at least you won't be as uncomfortable as you are now...You say that you feel like you are contrived in front of outsiders, which is normal! If there were a bunch of handsome guys across from me, I wouldn't be able to let go! Hehe, but you should be what you are, come on!

Kiss! Don't overthink it, someone definitely cares about you.

In fact, life is like this, it will not always be smooth sailing and calm. There must always be something unpleasant to happen, and it is not terrible to happen, and troublesome things are to be solved. Say to myself every day that I am excellent, I am not afraid of anything, come on!

Don't dodge, face it, overcome it. I also believe that you can do what you want. Others take advantage of you, in fact, others will think that you are very good, and they will definitely help you if you have anything in the future.

Just don't care.

There will be a period of time in life like this, very confused, very at a loss. But it doesn't matter. You just have to walk over and don't have to be too internally analyzed.

It is recommended that you read more books and use classic books to nourish your soul and find inner comfort. Then communicate with people generously, as you are, you don't have to pretend, you have to know that the truth makes people feel real.

I'm also 23 this year, I'm also a student, and I've just gone through your stage, but fortunately, I'm normal. I'll give you a reference to what I am doing in this period, I don't want to say anything about the truth, a lot of truth is felt by yourself, I want to tell you, you are not the only one who is fighting, you are not alone This is what I wrote later when I returned to normal, I also used to be depressed, I wanted to commit suicide, I need heart medicine to solve my heart disease, I don't have to go to a psychiatrist to waste money, only I can save myself. Don't be too upset with yourself, I send you a word that helped me a lot:

The world in your heart determines your external world, and if your heart is dark, then you see opportunities that are all bad and negative; If your heart is sunny, then you will find that the world is full of beauty and sunshine. Hope well.

The troubles of growing up are not encountered by everyone, and people have a variety of personalities, and they do not need to change their personality for others, but they must work hard to be motivated.

Brother, I have the same experience as you today, I choose to be alone for a while, and then take the initiative to play with them, if it really doesn't work, then it's not my own problem, look down.

Due to the relativity of the contract, the buyer and seller can only be restricted from buying and selling the house, and generally do not have the binding force of the contract for third parties. In other words, the issue of the housing you buy is not binding, and you can not buy your house from someone else, on the grounds of the sanctions of the Electricity Bureau. Therefore, it should be you who pay the fine first.

At the same time, to reduce the unjust enrichment of electricity theft, the difference should be paid (the actual beneficiary) to pay the fine, you can hold the e-ticket receipt and find your house seller to claim. The amount claimed is part of the deduction of your unjust enrichment, which can increase your losses.

Based on this, it seems that you are suffering from depression, and it is recommended to see a psychiatrist.

Brother, I used to be about the same as you, but I was lucky, my parents and my friends often talked to me, you can talk to them too, there is no shame in front of your parents and friends.

It is fate that keeps you together, cherishes and blesses you.

Maybe you have the answer, but you don't want to face it.

You are too passive ... Put yourself in a position where you have no position.

In fact, you should ask him, you should make it clear to him, that love without feelings is painful.

If you always blindly give in (I think your current state is to back down) and continue to be passive like this, if he really doesn't care about you anymore, why should you be alone with him, you are the object, not that you have a crush on him, if he doesn't have you in his heart, you don't have that"Cheap".

You are always worried ... If he really does share it with you, what do you want to do?

In fact, to make it clear, it is nothing more than two endings, one separation; Live your life well and believe that you can find a better one. And the other one, he's going to change what you're not happy with now, and you're going to be happy.

No matter what others say, it's always someone else's way.

Don't let yourself regret the choices you make, but don't be afraid to regret them, after all, you haven't left campus yet, you're still young, and there will be a lot of good things in the future, and time can change people.