What does it take to be mature? What is maturity and how does it become mature?

I don't make a fuss when I encounter problems, I do everything very safely, I talk and deal with problems, and I am very satisfied.

I have been like you in the pursuit of maturity.

Generally speaking, when I start to pursue maturity, it is often due to love reasons, or girls say that I am not mature enough. will think of going to maturity.

Hehe, for some reason, little girls like mature men, like Song Siming.

I've been looking for maturity.

However, this thing can't be chased.

This thing can't be loaded either.

It's been three years, and my classmates saw me and said that you were quite naïve back then, but now you look much more mature. Well, there's a sense of maturity.

Why, in the past three years, I have experienced a lot of failures and pains, and I have put in a lot of effort.

That's why it's become more mature.

Experience makes a man mature.

When you have experienced something, you will think, you will sum up your experience, you will draw conclusions, you will choose to continue to persist or give up, and you will draw some insights from it, which is called experience.

The more experience you have, the more mature you are.

How can I gain more experience? There are two things I can think of:

First, experience things, take the initiative to meet challenges, pursue challenges, enterprising men mature faster, more challenges, more successes, more failures, more experience.

Second, read books and enrich yourself with the help of other people's experiences. Mental maturity is an important aspect of a mature man. So it's helpful to read experiential, philosophical, and social books.

Hehe,Original post,Typing is very hard.,I have to give points.。

What I said upstairs, and I agree with it, is that maturity often brings some cruelty, and you can only understand it when you have experienced countless setbacks. It's like a dish, you only know what it tastes like if you eat it.

Reading books is just an aid, a truth, only through experience, you can really experience! Others say that this dish is spicy, but to what extent it is spicy and some manifestations of spiciness, you need to eat it to understand.

In fact, experience is not proportional to maturity, it depends on the person, some people will fully absorb it, while others are different, or even regressive. It depends on how you think about the problem, there are a lot of villains in this world, but the funny thing is that villains can sometimes be recognized.

To know how to be tolerant, but also to face yourself at all times, to know yourself, maturity is not the most, only more mature.

Maturity is relative, while naivety is absolute. Maturity is not about not making mistakes, but about being able to truly learn from them. Maturity does not exclude innocence.

True maturity is the unity of reason, wisdom, innocence, and morality. Maturity is not vulgarity and philistine, but this often becomes the standard for Chinese people to judge maturity, and to imitate and pursue it with this goal.

1、"Contempt"Opposite sex.

Being able to "despise" the opposite sex and not take it seriously is a sign of maturity , so put it in the first place, because it is the first step towards maturity in life.

2. Self-denial and continuous self-denial are necessary conditions for maturity and an important sign of maturity. Self-denial is a profound ideological activity, which is motivated by the knowledge of truth and self, not by self-effacing and self-contempt.

3. Learn to be tolerant.

4. Pay attention to simplicity.

This is what we call maturity.

Socialize more with people you feel mature, friends are convenient to make some people older than you as much as possible, and communicating with them for a long time can also enrich your experience, and slowly and unconsciously become mature.

You don't have to change, is someone saying you're naïve? Everyone is different, let them say go, it's okay to pretend to be mature, those who pretend to be mature are nothing more than to better sensationalize or better attract the opposite sex.

Oh? I think it's very childish, very childlike.