What mistakes did you make when you were a student?

When I was in high school, I was lucky enough to have a high school in my village, and I was fortunate enough to be one of the first high school students. Once the teacher took us to the crops to work, when we walked back, we girls walked at the end, I don't know who picked the head to kick the clod to play, the game to see who kicked far, I also put a clod of soil on the surface of the foot, kicked hard, it was originally kicked to the place where there was no one next to it, the ghost made the god deviate, the clod of soil did not deviate towards the group of boys in front of him, a group of girls in our group of girls were shocked to lower their voices and shouted: Ah!

What's worse is that the clod of dirt ends up on the head of the teacher who is walking in the front! The clods of soil bloomed, and the teacher's head and face were covered with dirt, and he turned around angrily and shouted Who? The female classmates looked at me neatly, and the male classmates immediately looked at me with understanding, I was scared like a chicken, and my heart was about to pop out, you must know that I am usually introverted, timid, and I am also a good student who keeps my duty, good girl!

Fortunately, the teacher also understood that I didn't mean it, and didn't pursue it at all!

When I was in junior high school, I was very able to toss, we didn't have much fun in the 80s, the inner tube on the bicycle wheel, the hat, the old hoop and the chain plus the wire to make a pistol, I lengthened the barrel by ten centimeters, loaded with explosives, steel balls, and went out to hunt game. In the end, the game didn't hit the barrel and blew the barrel, and my hand shook so hard that it hurt. When I was in high school, I rode the teacher's 750 motorcycle at school, and I forgot what brand it was, saying that it was a four-cylinder engine, and I rode two laps on the playground, and the third lap was so proud that I didn't control it well, and I almost crashed into the classroom, and then of course I was punished, and ran 100 laps on the playground.

When I was in the first grade of primary school, one morning a classmate brought a sugarcane to eat in the classroom, and one of the skiniest students said, let's go get some sugarcane to eat! When I was ready to go to class in the afternoon, the male classmates in the class followed him, and ran to a sugarcane field by the small river two kilometers away, and began to pull and fold, but because the people were small, they were basically engaged in moving the sugarcane more than two meters or three meters high, and at this time, an uncle who was doing farm work forty or fifty meters away saw it, and while shouting, he trotted over, and as soon as we saw an adult coming, he immediately ran across the river and ran to the school. In the creek, there are also classmates who have dropped their shoes.

My student days, like most of my classmates, were uneventful, with no earth-shattering feats or deeds to be proud of. But like most boys, he is deeply influenced by Hong Kong Crazy Boy movies, loves to talk about brotherly righteousness, likes to fight unevenly, and has also been asked by the school to meet his parents. The only crazy move was an outing when I was in my second year of junior high school, and I was so crazy that I almost lost my life.

I remember that it was a Sunday afternoon during the summer vacation, and I went fishing with three other classmates in the big river in the suburbs. It was the craziest thing I did when I was a student, and I think about it every time I think about it.

On a sunny weekend, we would ride a rented bicycle to the Sui and Tang Botanical Gardens, pick mushrooms, catch small fish, or dig camellia in the open space in front of the gymnasium; Which day is stuffy and panicked, when the wind is high in the dark night, I will secretly run to the river of the school to swim, there is a road in the school full of French plane trees, the autumn wind blows, the school deliberately does not clean, the leaves will be all over the ground, after class, we will clip books and laugh and wander on the road; One day, when we were hungry, we scraped together the right money, went to the old place to eat ** chicken, drank the new generation of Venus, and went back to the dormitory drunk, and did not forget to buy a few apples for the money to go back to relieve hangover, and then hit the lamp until the early hours of the morning.

One situation is that the student's self-control ability is relatively poor, and he knows that he is wrong, but he will still make mistakes if he is not careful, which needs to be followed by good education; There is also a kind of person who knows that there are tigers in the mountains and prefers to go to the tiger mountains, which is purely trying to make trouble, and needs to be punished, let him suffer a little, and tell him the seriousness of making such mistakes.

A good student can also be called a student's "proud protégé". They have excellent academic performance, good conduct, positive learning attitude, broad thinking, little dependence, and are very independent and creative, and are welcomed and loved by teachers.

There are a lot of such students. Whenever teachers talk about their learning achievements, they talk about their learning and performance. Schooling is all about producing a large number of people who are similar to the above-mentioned students.

However, such students pass exams, intelligence tests in school.

or the nomination of a teacher can be easily identified.

When you are a student, you are easily misunderstood by your teachers and classmates, and you are more likely to be the object of some misinformation or misunderstanding. For example, it may be because of some friction or conflict with a certain classmate, this student spreads some false rumors behind his back, causing misunderstandings between the teacher and other students, and will find all kinds of faults and exercises, making it difficult for him to resist.

In this dusty process, he did nothing wrong, but he became a "bad guy" in the mouths of others, and was accused and punished by all kinds of wrongs. However, due to his young and credulous youth and lack of corresponding defense ability and means, it is difficult to clarify the truth and can only be slaughtered by others. This kind of experience may leave a deep imprint on the heart, and become the strongest and unforgettable memory of being wronged.

Of course, this is just speculation and imagination on my part. Real life experiences are much more complicated than that. Everyone has their own experience of wrongdoing, and the most memorable and impactful one should be a unique experience, and it is unlikely to be exactly the same.

My assumptions are just to try to base your questions on the human mind, so please understand that. If you need me to go deeper into this topic, please keep asking your questions.

1. Change your mentality After all, students are students, and it is normal to make mistakes, when students make mistakes, we must make it clear that this is the inevitable growth of students, and we will not be angry; In this way, we can also be more calm about the mistakes made by students, carefully analyze the reasons for students' mistakes, and find solutions to solve them. Moreover, there are many times when getting angry at a student does not solve the actual problem, simple reprimand and criticism does not work, and sometimes even makes the student more rebellious and pushes him down the wrong path. At the same time, sometimes a student makes a mistake, and he himself feels guilty and blames himself, and if we add a reprimand from us, he will feel the following:

I made a mistake, you reprimanded me, everyone evened out, and I will continue to do my own thing in the future. Reprimands are not always useful, and sometimes not saying anything will have a better effect. Excellent teachers are good at using their own tolerance, into the students, into the hearts of the students, into the students to become the students in the eyes of the amiable and close to the heart, so as to successfully achieve the purpose of educating students.

Second, a different perspective In fact, at any time, students make mistakes for a reason, to really analyze the internal reasons for students to make mistakes, I think, the only thing to do is to find a way to go into the depths of the student's heart, communicate with the student, use love to win love, with the truth to infect the student, only you respect the student from the heart, love the student, care about the student, often stand in the student's perspective to think, the student will respect you from the heart, will be willing to say to you in the heart, trust you, respect you, We will be willing to accept your criticism and education, so that we will be more targeted in our work.

3. Change the way When the student makes a mistake, we might as well change the way, first press the displeasure or anger in the heart, try to calm down, listen to what the student says, whether it is complaining or quibbling, the class teacher can show a certain degree of understanding of this. For example, there is a student in my class who often goes in and out of the classroom during self-study periods, which deducts a lot of points from the class quantitatively, and also has a bad impact on the class. When I asked him why, he said that he often had an upset stomach.

I didn't reprimand him from the perspective of quantitative deductions, nor did I give him a big reason, but discussed his physical condition with him with more concern. He felt the teacher's concern for him, and his attitude changed first, no longer the indifference just now, but with a trace of guilt. Seeing the change in his attitude, I consulted with him:

See if you can find a way to reconcile your requirements with not affecting others and ensuring that the class is quantified. He thought about it for a moment and promised me to adjust his schedule and ensure discipline in self-study classes. When students make mistakes, it is even more necessary for us teachers to have a tolerant heart.

Change the mentality, change the angle, change the way, you will find that in fact, every child is very cute, and you will find that education has an incomparably profound connotation and charm.

Positive education, rather than blind blame, will make students have a kind of anti-rebellious mentality!

We who were once young and ignorant or young and meaningless, proudly live in this seemingly stable world, we use.

Special: I'm still young, and I'm not afraid to make mistakes as an excuse, and I'm hurting my immature self and the people around me again and again!

I'm not a rebellious person, but I'm a person with a strong personality, and disobedience to the rules isolates me from others, and if adolescent rebellion comes violently and senselessly, I have taught myself the most vivid lesson.

Who wouldn't fall in love with someone during adolescence! It's just that the result is also tragic, I broke up, the first time in front of my parents, they were not at fault, I willfully asked them to help me transfer to meet my humble self-esteem, I was beaten by my father on the street and ran away from home in a bad mood, and then they had to transfer me.

If it is said that it is obviously wrong to blame the results on early love, and at that time I was indeed willing to degenerate, until now, I am still separated from my father by a knot!

Youth is innocent, if I can do it all over again, I believe I am still the same person I was at that time, but the years have smoothed the edges and corners! Let the rebellion of that time be a memory forever!

I think the most rebellious one is actually not, I'm pretty well-behaved, otherwise I wouldn't be here to answer your questions honestly, I just lied to my parents that I could review for the college entrance examination at home, in fact, no one in the school did this at that time.

I added laundry detergent to the pot where I was cooking, but fortunately I was found by my mother, and on another occasion, I smashed a cup in front of my aunt.

I skipped class and often got into fights with others, and because of these things, my family apologized for saying good things to my teachers and others.

I stole 100 yuan from my dad's trouser pocket, I just wanted to take a piece, but I didn't expect it to be too dark, I took it wrong, and I was afraid that my dad would find out, so I used it to buy toys.

When I was in elementary school, I ate the food I brought to school halfway and went crazy outside for a day.

I didn't enter the class in the third year of high school, and then I nested alone in a rented house, no one called the door, isolated from the world, and now I regret it.

I don't go home when I play games every day, I fight with my peers, I don't study, I don't listen to my parents, and I regret it when I think about it now.

When I was a student, I should have pretended to be sick and watched the finale of idol dramas at home, but now I think about it.

Skipping school to fight crossfire at home is really the most rebellious thing

The homeroom teacher is an old man and we often call him old stuff (super rude, hahahaha).

In order to prevent him from going to class, he wrapped his glasses around (too much hahahaha).

Go over the wall and go out all night or something

Rebellion in elementary school is to learn to smoke early.

I smashed the school glass and got into a fight with the teacher.

I have a lot of ideas, I haven't done anything, and my self-control is still relatively good.

I'm running away from home haha