Do you think loneliness is a must on the road to growth?

Thinking that loneliness should not be the only way to grow, but enduring the pain of loneliness is good for growth. Because when you are in a lonely atmosphere, you can reverie and think in silence and boredom, repeatedly reflect on the road you have walked, what you have done, and whether you should or should not do what you have done, what you should do right or wrong, summarize your experience, and learn lessons, which can avoid making the same or similar mistakes, which is conducive to growth. And people who have not experienced loneliness will have the same thinking and summary, but generally not so deep and thorough.

Moreover, people with the same qualifications and temperaments have not tasted the helplessness and pain of loneliness, and their relative will will be weaker. The difference between the two is somewhat similar to the difference between flowers and plants cultivated in the garden and flowers and plants in the field that are often exposed to wind and rain, and their tenacity and ability to withstand wind and rain are different.

Sort of, growing up is from passively accepting loneliness to actively choosing and even enjoying loneliness....Growing up is a solitary thing Those humiliations and unbearable heartaches and tears must be tasted by yourself to understand these things No one can bear these things for you In this way, climb up one level at a time The higher you stand, the fewer people around you. There is nothing to be afraid of being lonely, it is much more comfortable to be lonely than being forced to hang out with a group of people with different aspirations and being afraid of being said to be unsociable.

It is the path of growth for anyone, and in contrast, people who can enjoy (don't like to endure the word) loneliness live more calmly than those who can't. When you are alone, you are quiet and quiet, doing things, exercising, reading books, making friends, because you enjoy loneliness, you will not give up on yourself, and you will not make an inappropriate other half because of loneliness. When two people love him, they are not independent, they will not be entangled, and they will suffer from gains and losses.

Yes, only those who have truly appreciated themselves in solitude will see the traces of life better. There may be fewer and fewer friends to accompany us along the way, but until one day you will find yourself the most loyal friend. Be kind to yourself and enjoy peace of mind, it's the best way to make peace with loneliness!

For most people, this is indeed the way to go, because in many cases, people have to face themselves. For example, when you sleep, it is impossible for others to sleep with you, the whole room is yourself, whether it is lonely or not, but there is always a certain clip that reminds you of all kinds of tastes. I don't know if I've been protected for a lifetime, I just know that the mountains will fall, and the trees will run, so it's better to be stronger.

Your life longs to be collected, properly placed, and carefully preserved, so that you will not be surprised, you will not suffer, you will not be displaced, and you will not have no branches to rely on. But you know it's impossible, you're not an object, you don't need to be carefully collected, you're not a vine, you don't need to be attached to an arbor. Protect your people, one day tired of walking and lost in a strange valley.

The one who collects you, that one will never come. Pu Shu's "Journey" sings: This is a journey, a vast journey called fate, we pass by happiness, pass by pain, pass by the warmth and tears of a woman, pass by the endless cold and loneliness in life.

Loneliness, the necessity of the human individual, the girl, is not born, but is shaped.

First of all, it is very certain that loneliness will accompany you for a lifetime, and you don't have to be afraid of loneliness, it is indeed temporary. People are constantly exposed to different feelings throughout the day, and it is impossible to stay in the mood of loneliness all the time. To be loved, you need to love yourself first, and the process of waiting for love to come is also a manifestation of love.

This kind of problem can only be solved by growth, and if you can't be taught, you may not be able to open it up if others tell you. Cultivate some hobbies and make a few like-minded confidants, so that you can probably satisfy your daily spiritual life. After all, most of us are more ordinary than we think.

In the long course of life, we need to learn and experience a lot. I guess we always like to be in groups of three or five and do what we like together. However, as we slowly grow up, loneliness becomes a compulsory course for us.

I like to be lively, I don't like to be lonely, especially for people like me who are very dependent and need to ask friends to go to the toilet, and it's really sad to think about being alone in the future. When I first went to college, I was thinking about Lu Hao, and after I graduated, I needed a rented apartment, commuting alone, and I didn't talk to me, and an inexplicable sense of fear arose. And when this day actually comes, I find that I will be a little excited, although it will inevitably be a little scared, but it will be wiped out by my expectations.

When we were children, we always hoped to grow into adults as soon as possible, but when we became adults, we found that there were many troubles about adults. So what you gain, you also lose. When we become adults, we lose our carefree and free life.

Learning to endure loneliness is the most important step in our growth.

In the future, we must learn to eat alone, sleep alone, go to work alone, go shopping alone, watch movies alone, ...... alone

Wen Nanguo's daughter.

I especially like the words of Traveler Kai: "Every excellent person has a silent time." It was a time when I put in the effort, tried to be lonely, didn't complain or complain, and when I talked about it in the future, even I could be moved."

There is a kind of loneliness, not doing something without being accompanied, but doing something that is not understood.

Liu Tong said in "Your Loneliness, Although You Are Defeated": "Growth is destined to be a lonely road, before loneliness is confusion, after loneliness is growth."

Loneliness is not a bad thing, too noisy life can make us lose and not see clearly what we really want in life.

And what loneliness is best at is precisely to make you see yourself clearly.

When we accept loneliness, you will find that we have more time to do what we love, more time to perfect ourselves, and more time to become who we want to be. This is a treasure that no amount of friends can bring us.

Loneliness, God's call is the only way to grow, and the more lonely people are, the more rational they are.

The philosopher Kiyoshi Miki said, "Loneliness is not in the mountains but in the streets, not in one person but among many people." ”

A person, no matter how many friends he has, no matter how prosperous the place is, he can't resist the loneliness from his heart.

The hustle and bustle of life can make us lose ourselves, but loneliness can make me see myself clearly.

There is some truth to this saying that loneliness is a must for growing up, because when we were children, we often had our parents by our side, but as we grew older, we were alone when we went to work outside.

When we were young, we were surrounded by our parents, but as we grew older, our relatives and friends were unable to accompany us all the time. So to grow up, you have to learn to enjoy solitude.

Loneliness is a compulsory course for growth, and you must experience loneliness on the road of life, because only after you have experienced loneliness can you know what you need, you can grow, and you can grow up.

We live in a bustling world, and from time to time we find ourselves small and powerless. Occasionally, a group of girls of similar age frolicked and the loneliness was instantaneous.

If you seriously want to grow, then you must enjoy loneliness, enjoy loneliness, and survive very well when you are lonely.

In the process of a person's growth, it is impossible to always be concerned, and it is necessary to survive when it is concerned, but it is also necessary to learn to grow when it is lonely.

Loneliness is indeed a necessary path to growth, because people who can enjoy loneliness can succeed. When you are lonely and have no one else to accompany you, you can understand yourself objectively and clearly and know what you want to do.

Life can't be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think it is. I think that people are more fragile and strong than I can imagine. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears at a single sentence, and sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way. - Maupassant.

But starting with such a sentence, I was still in China when I watched Naoko Takagi's "The Fifth Year of Living Alone", and at that time I felt that such a life could not happen to me, and I couldn't stand the feeling of eating alone when I had to be accompanied by someone to eat. So later, for a long time I couldn't adapt to eating alone and traveling alone, and now that I think about it, it's nothing, the world moves so fast, no one cares if you're alone. So much so that later a friend asked me if I also had social phobia, I smiled, in fact, no, I just slowly became lazy, too lazy to manage a relationship, as for friends, there are so many are enough, some people are together every day, and they are not necessarily friends.

It seems that after such a long time, I will forget the difficulties I encountered at the beginning, and gradually become a bystander of my own life, watching life flow calmly. It is said that people grow up slowly, but in fact they are not, people grow up instantly, just like a sudden precipitation, suddenly they will not fall in love or do not want to fall in love, a person will not feel bored in a single life, even if many times he will still be confused but he will not feel irritable.

Today last year, I was in a different city, carrying a different schoolbag, having a different hairstyle, walking a different path, thinking about different things, having different thoughts, and loving different people. Who says it takes a decade for change. <>

There are a lot of cattle people around.,Like a god-like existence.,I'm just envious and think that I won't become that kind of person anyway.,Until one day a senior talked to me.,I learned that he also couldn't read the book when he also wrote ** when he wanted to hit the wall.,We all forgot what kind of price they used in exchange for such a life.。 He said that if you want to achieve your dreams, loneliness is a must for you. If you can't settle down, there's no way to achieve it, because it's definitely not an easy thing, loneliness makes you stronger, you have to find your rhythm in life.

I have a friend who likes to drink a little every day, watch a movie and go to bed on time; The Englishman who lives next to him is haunted. Sometimes I go to bed in the morning, and sometimes I go to bed just after dark; A boy in the next building gets up before dawn every day to run, and often at that time I am just about to sleep.

Recently, I have been obsessed with walking around alone, not a trip but a trip around the city, but it will not take too much time to prepare, pick up the bag and leave. I won't bring a camera just if I'm interested in taking out my phone to take a picture, **but I can't lose it when I go**, only**, can make the seemingly long wait into a graceful journey, it seems that I have nothing to do with the whole world, I just want to be a cloud without a name, wandering in the scenery that I don't know the name.

As mentioned above, I couldn't imagine what it was like to eat alone, and I can't imagine what it's like to take the bus alone. Who knows that it didn't take long for me to get used to taking the bus to school alone, I was far away from the school, so every time I got on the bus, there weren't many people, and I sat in the last few rows. Sometimes I look out the window in a daze, thinking about everything but not knowing what I'm thinking.

We all find our rhythm in life and then indulge in it.