How can I know if my girlfriend who broke up still cares about me?

Hello friends, this question may already have an answer in your mind, and even this is your privacy, but as a distant friend, give a little advice. Think back to the days you spent with your girlfriend, whether it was a sweet and warm moment or a small noisy moment, there may be some behaviors and habits between you that only you understand or she understands. Now, after the breakup, if she still cares about you, as long as you feel with your heart and feel her behavior towards you before and now, it will not be difficult to come up with the answer you want!!

1.You're sick.

2.Make an internal response.

3.Angry with her with a fake new girlfriend.

There is a person, he can touch your heart, lose him you will feel that you will not be able to live, you will be unhappy when he is unhappy, when he is not by your side you will think of crying because you miss him, you will read his text messages over and over again, you can't help but pronounce his name, when you see him, you want to hug him tightly, when you can't have him, you just want him to be happier, not blindly thinking that you can possess him, you will have heartache when you see him bad, There is an urge to hold him and cry, you can put down everything in your hands for him and rush to him, this is to love someone. Because to love someone is to give, to keep giving.

That's what it takes for you!

Life is a hard journey, we need to trek, can be with you, through the wind and rain, can only be one. Maybe you have an unforgettable love before joining hands, such a marriage should be cherished, both men and women should always have a sincere, gentle, grateful heart, and each other to work together in the family and career, share joy and success, and bear difficulties and misfortunes together; Maybe you are in a loveless marriage, or even a wrong marriage, but since you have finally chosen each other, you have the responsibility and obligation to bear the pain, loneliness and loss that it brings. We should always accept each other with a tolerant, trusting, and understanding heart, think more about each other's benefits and advantages, take on more family responsibilities, and do not say goodbye easily until absolutely necessary.

With the passage of time, when you come to the twilight of your gray hair, you suddenly look back, it turns out that human marriage is in the process of tolerance, understanding and shared responsibility to achieve a happy ending, showing your shoulders to bear for each other.

However, what you need to realize is that there will be no smooth road in love, love only has ups and downs, only tribulations, and then it is still flat, and then it can be happy. Only by sharing weal and woe can we recess to the existence of each other and the needs of each other.

To love someone is to love his or her shortcomings, strengths, love everything he or she has, and also learn to tolerate and understand each other; Stretching out your hands to have each other, it should be that while owning each other, you should work together with each other to cultivate your family and career, share joy and success, bear difficulties and misfortunes together, and tide over the wind and rain together. In this way, the love between the two parties will last for a long time.

You don't need to know that if she doesn't contact you or ask about you from a friend you know, it means that she doesn't care about you at all.

Breakups are early signs and manifestations:

1. Symptom 1: Don't take the initiative, don't restrict, don't care. This is closed.

She doesn't care about you, and naturally she won't restrain you.

2. Symptom 2: The world ignores your contradictions, and does not make trouble.

There is still room to save for a breakup, and the determination to break up will only notify you once.

3. Symptom 3: Her words have become less, and she has no more usual nagging.

Girls generally don't stay silent easily, but once they are silent, it means that she is really wronged.

Sometimes it's not silence, it's just powerlessness.

4. Symptom 4: No longer coquettish and dependent, becoming more and more independent and strong. Mori re-fissure.

Strong because there is no one behind you to rely on.

5. Symptom 5: There is no expectation of you.

Do you know what it looks like to be completely disappointed in someone? It's just that I don't expect anything from this person anymore. Maybe you may not know that she already wants to break up. Because she no longer expects a response from you, and she no longer has hope for this relationship.

6. Symptom 6: The state of the circle of friends is only about herself. The real breakup started when she changed the background of the circle of friends; In her WeChat list, you are no longer in the "pinned" position; In her circle of friends, there is no longer any news about you.

7. Symptom 7: Deliberately dodging hugs and kisses, resisting intimate contact. Once upon a time, I was happy and wanted to hug.

I don't think you need to think nonsense, if the other party really wants to break up with you, they will break up with you whether they say this sentence or not, if there is a problem with the relationship between you, then saying this sentence is equivalent to a hint, but whether you can understand it or not, in the end, you still have to pick out what you say. And this sentence is just an ancient poem, an exclamation, not necessarily the meaning of breaking up.

First of all, "the flowers are similar every year", which means that the scenery is basically the same every year, and "the people are different every year", which means that the scenery around them has not changed much, but people have changed one stubble after another. If there is no problem in the relationship between the two of you, there must be a foreshadowing in saying this, either because of feelings, such as talking about the past with people, or thinking of people in the past, or touching the scene, etc., which is possible. And the most frequent occurrence of this sentence is "during the Chinese New Year", because of the relationship between welcoming the new and saying goodbye to the old, there are always some people who will sigh.

Therefore, when your girlfriend tells you this, it does not necessarily mean that you are going to break up, you can continue to ask: Why are you still emotional? "If you're in a good relationship, the other person will tell you why.

If it's a reason that can't be said, the other party will directly divert the topic, but no matter which one it is, it doesn't actually affect the relationship and relationship between you, unless the other party really wants to break up with you, otherwise sighing like this really can't prove anything.

It's enough to send you four words: "wait and see", since you are now a couple, then don't think about anything else, as long as the other party doesn't explicitly propose to break up, don't think too much. If there have been problems in your relationship recently and you often quarrel over some things, either be mentally prepared or try to save the relationship as much as possible, but it is personally recommended not to take the initiative to ask whether you want to break up and other topics.

Because it is likely to be self-defeating, and if both parties are angry, they may say something irrational.

She starts to perfunctory you, rarely chatting with you, mentioning you with friends, or hinting at you to break up, cold and violent.

You take the initiative to talk to her, and she will start to take the initiative to tell you that she is busy, and this is a bit frequent. In fact, women are different from men in relationships, if a girl really loves you, she will look forward to your WeChat, instead of perfunctory.

The chat between you is a bit casual, and even when you contact her, she doesn't want to reply, so you have to think about why.

Second, you offer to meet her and she avoids it.

Meeting and getting along is the best way to test the relationship between two people. Whether it's a real breakup or a fake breakup, you can find out if you meet and chat. But when you propose to meet, she doesn't see you, or even doesn't pick up your **, you are likely to have been broken up.

Third, you talk to her about getting married, and she doesn't care a little bit.

If a girl really likes you, she must be full of joy when you say you want to marry her. But if you talk to her about getting married, and she is a little careless and doesn't want to agree, this may really be boring to you.

Fourth, you don't know anything about her, not even about her parents and her work.

When we are in love, we still have to know more or less about our partner, rather than knowing nothing. We need to know that our partner lives in the house, a basic family situation, the lack of Nahe, and what our job does.

Three steps to love: possession, management, marriage...

You've been together for more than a year, and you've passed the possession period. Now it's the business period... To manage a love, both men and women are critical, and how to manage it is the key to the key...

There are a few possibilities for you to be cold.

1.: Aesthetic fatigue period, because they stick to each other for too long, so even if they are beautiful and handsome, there will always be a time of aesthetic fatigue, this period, don't say that the two personalities are far apart, even if the two personalities are very compatible, they will get tired of each other... Most of the seven-year itch that the world says is because of this.,Lack of freshness.,It will make people feel broken.。。

But that doesn't mean she doesn't love you anymore, it's just that she doesn't want to put most of her energy on you for the time being, it's just temporary...

2: A third party inserts, I don't need to say this, because the relationship has reached a period of fatigue, and then there is a sudden interference, then the situation is terrible... If this third party is just a friend, then you can also try to indulge, after all, fatigue needs to keep a distance from each other, if not, then find a way to attract your girlfriend from all aspects, the charm of a man is easy to show, especially when you behave differently than in the past...

How is it different, depending on the situation.

3: Personal factors, such as family matters, such as work chores, such as the accumulation of negative emotions, sometimes, may be because of a song, a movie, a social scene caused by the unpleasant mood, because it has always existed in the heart is not exposed, and inexplicably can also be said to deliberately choose to vent this emotion to you, and at the same time can not be expressed very clearly, so you can only gradually close yourself, at this time, her focus is not on being cold to you, but on closing herself, it can be said that she doesn't want anyone" Deeply oblivious", to everyone is indifferent... It should be noted that the scenes and plots behind this negative emotion are not necessarily in the recent past, they may be in memory, but this period of fatigue is easy to occur...

It's all broken up, and that one is going to be strong.

Determining whether a girlfriend wants to break up may require a combination of factors and observing her behavior and attitude. Here are some guiding signs:

1.Lack of communication: She becomes cold towards you, unwilling to communicate with you, or has become less communicative.

2.Reduced emotional involvement: She may no longer show strong feelings for you, less of the passion and intimacy she once had.

3.Changes in intimacy: She may have a reduced interest in physical contact or sexual intimacy, or a marked change in this area.

4.Behavioral changes: She may have changed her daily behaviors, such as canceling dates, refusing to attend events together, or prevaricating your invitations.

5.Don't worry about planning for the future: She may no longer discuss your future plans with you, or ignore your future presence.

6.Make excuses to stay away from you: She may actively stay away from you, unwilling to spend time with you, looking for reasons to distance herself from you.

7.Show a change in interest: She may start to show special attention to other people or things and lose interest in you.

However, these signs cannot be considered absolute evidence, as each person's situation and expression may be different. The best way to do this is to have an honest conversation with your girlfriend directly, ask her if she has any troubles or ideas, and listen to her thoughts and feelings. Honest communication is the key to understanding and solving problems.