I have loved my best friend for five years, should I love him?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You ask here yourself, and you probably have a good impression of him.

    For the girl you like, the boy will have enough patience to wait for her, care about her affairs and care about her.

    This is normal. But after being together, it doesn't have to be so hard.

    And the affection is the input of both parties, and one side is not enough.

    Also, if you like someone, you don't care about his appearance, and if you dislike his appearance, it's better to just be a friend.

    Tell him well, we're just friends.

    Say to him, "I don't have feelings for you!"

    Boys hate this sentence the most.

    Most people will die after you say that.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First, following him will definitely not make you suffer.

    Second, people who love each other will be disgusted for a long time.

    Third, there are few good goods for handsome, if you only value appearance, this life is over for you...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you like pork, do you have to like pigs like you?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

    Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

    Love is not possession!

    You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

    In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

    Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

    You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you only know that no matter when and where, whether you are in a good mood or not, you hope that Gao Qing expects this person to accompany you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

    When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear the most, and make promises Why do we swear to each other, because we don't believe in each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

    The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

    knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

    Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

    When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

    In love, one thing is said and another is done;

    The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

    Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Many things are always understood after experience, just like feelings. After the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.

    Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

    Learn to give up, turn around before crying, and study abroad with a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable; Learn to give up, let all the troubles go away with the wind, and create every beautiful tomorrow.

    Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. The regret that we can't have makes us more restricted; Sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night make us feel more nostalgic. Feeling unfulfilled is a questionnaire with no answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

    Perhaps a touch of sadness will make this answer more timeless and long-lasting.

    Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain, miss the beauty, you will reap the happiness; Continue to lose, and you will reap your own happiness in giving up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's better not to do anything and just go with the flow. This situation is reckless, not only sorry for your friendship for many years, but also sorry for your sincerity.

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