Please give your ideas feelings

1. You have to adjust your mentality, you can't affect your learning because of your feelings, your role at this stage is a student, so your main task is to study well, if your grades drop, I think your cousin doesn't want to see such a result, and even be disappointed.

2. Your current age is not suitable for talking about feelings, not only is it difficult to have good results, but it is also easy to let yourself fall into emotional troubles, it is recommended that you can maintain moderate contact with your cousin on the premise of not affecting your studies. Such as **, QQ or email, etc., I personally recommend that you write a letter, two people are so far away, writing a letter will be a more meaningful thing.

3. Finally, let me tell you, no matter what the outcome of your relationship will be in the future, I hope you don't think too much at this stage, no matter how much you think about it now, it won't play a big role, study hard, study well No matter what, it will help you very much for your future feelings and life!

You should forget about him, the goal now is to study, put all your energy into studying, don't think nonsense, divert your interest, and slowly time will wear out everything!

Invested in your feelings, but everything fell short when the most promising time, I can imagine your frustrated and unwilling mood.

But as a mature man, the most important thing is to learn to face reality.

This girl has never thought of you as a lover in her heart, really. She has always had only her ex-boyfriend in mind. So, I think you're in love with the wrong person, you're shaving your head and picking hot heads. It's unlikely that there will be a happy ending.

So, recognize this reality, you should understand. If you go the wrong way, turn back. Otherwise, it's a waste of your time and energy.

Of course, you may not be able to forget about her right away. It's okay, let time heal the wound. Everything will pass.

It can only show that she is actually still in love with her ex-boyfriend in her heart, and your appearance should not be a reason for them to break up, otherwise she will never give you a chance, and if you really want to recover her, it is not impossible.

You love her so much, I believe she knows and should have a good impression of you, but she finally thinks that the man is the most important and will give up on you. That's why she couldn't see the result clearly at first, so she didn't want to put it on either side. It can be said that he is still waiting for that man without explicitly rejecting you, and once he reconciles with that man, he will definitely kick you.

I believe that next time she breaks up with that man, she will come to you to complain, don't wait. In her heart, she treats you as a backup, and even after walking together, you can't get her heart. Although you may listen uncomfortable, think for yourself.

Give it up! This woman is even if you are together! She'll still be in touch with her ex-boyfriend!

Let's change it, I think this woman is just using you as a spare tire.

Judging by the tone of the sentences used in your description, the message I read is that you like her but you feel inferior. I don't know if I'm right about that. First of all, I want to say that she should like you too, at least from your description.

Two people like each other, and being together doesn't necessarily have a relationship with other things, right?

Of course, for the flowers of love to bloom brightly, it is best to have a fertile material soil. See what I mean? The flower of love can open without material soil, but it needs to be better and more colorful to make it bloom.

I don't understand that you are only 25 years old, what is there to be inferior to be so young? I'm almost 30 years old, and I'm just a small employee of a company, so shouldn't I have no girlfriend and no need to live? On the contrary, I have a beautiful wife who we love very much, and I also became a dad last year.

Although I am still poor, we are still very happy in life.

It seems to be a bit far, to give you two suggestions:

Find a job, do it first, and accumulate social experience. Paving the way for your business. It's the youth that is the greatest asset.

Create a little romantic atmosphere and try to say to her affectionately, "Please be my girlfriend.""。Don't say anything about whether our relationship can confirm such inexplicable words.

She's obviously willing to associate with you, she should be very emotionally indifferent, you can take the initiative further, you are only 25 and say that nothing can be accomplished, what can you do if you are older than you?

Are you sure he's telling you the truth?

If so, use your "savage kung fu" against him, and if you don't, you'll have to find a way to use it.

Tell him that if you love someone, you can change it, but you haven't seen his parents, and the ugly daughter-in-law has to see her in-laws! Another one is not an ugly daughter-in-law, he has done so much for you, why don't you let you see it? Ask him if he has something to hide?

Didn't tell you? Then you're going to have to deal with him with emotional power.

What I mean by barbarism is to reason with him, and not to let him say too much, that is, to let him know that in your heart, you have done a lot for him.

Ask him if his parents haven't accepted you yet, and if he's been lying to you.

Anyway, a whole bunch of reasons were in front of him, let him say it.

He is a good person, sometimes the two of them have to communicate more when they are together, let him tell you things, although not everything, but what you should know is still to know, otherwise how can you say that you are husband and wife?

It is to share hardships and happiness together, anything can be solved, the strength of the two people is different, don't shut you out of his heart, you also integrate into it, and share life with him.

He can bring you happiness, right? Happy to you!

If he still doesn't say it, then tell him that this marriage is undecided, and that both parents must respect both parents, which is something that both parents must verify together, and you can't make your own decisions.

What's the problem? Are you a boy or a girl?