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Through your description, I came to this conclusion, you do manual work all day long, the income is not good, and your girlfriend spends her youth at home all day, and the emotional game takes time, and your girlfriend just meets the conditions... I think if you can't change the working environment in a short period of time, you still have to share it with her, and the long pain is better than the short pain.
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Then you should do more things that interest her, and if it doesn't work, be decisive, but think carefully, or regret it.
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What is such a woman worthy of you? Don't you feel aggrieved when you pay for her?
She disregards your dignity like this. Can't you give yourself some face?
Are you going to rely on her? It's not like that to love her. I think she's the kind of person who only enjoys and doesn't care about her family.
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I don't think she has any intention of continuing with you, I'm just saying what I think, and it's up to you how you do it.
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Everyone is different, what is suitable for others is not necessarily suitable for yourself, so you have to analyze your girlfriend's personality and what kind of boyfriend she needs, for example, if she only wants a boyfriend who can be by her side all the time, you either transfer schools, or you just let go, let her go, and let yourself go. Many people ignore the importance of common topics and fail to stick to them even if they know about them. I've been in a lot of situations like this.
Therefore, it is very important to maintain good communication, and report your life situation to the other party in a timely manner, for example, I have encountered some trivial things in my life, I am angry, happy, or I have encountered a funny thing, read a joke, etc. If you don't do well during the relationship, the girl will think that it will be even worse after marriage, and she can't count on you when she is in love, so forget it when you get married. In fact, if you love someone, then you can't help but think about her in everything you do, and when you see fun and delicious food, you want to buy it for her, out of an instinct, if you love someone, you are willing, and you can't help but want to be good to her.
If you have worked hard and you think you are good for her, then you can ask her what she wants you to be, maybe what you think is good is different from what she thinks.
In love, there are many topics to communicate, talk about ideals, talk about interests, talk about hobbies, talk about work, and if you have the opportunity, you can also find a place to be romantic, and you can also show your advantages appropriately. In this way, the relationship between the two parties can be maintained to move forward. Of course, it can't be, whatever she says is what she says, she can pretend to be confused about small things, and don't let go of big things.
You should take your own opinion, you have to take your opinion, as long as you do it right, you can still get her cool understanding. At this time, she will feel that you are a man and a person who can be trusted.
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In fact, you should find out what you are not doing well, and then let yourself make improvements, and do these things very well, and you will win praise from your girlfriend.
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After such a situation, you can communicate with the other party, and then you also need to make the other party realize that you are good, and at the same time, you should also let the other party see your efforts and dedication, and then you should also let the other party say more compliments.
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When you encounter such a situation, I think you should change it if you have it, and encourage it if you don't, and don't quarrel with your girlfriend because of such a thing.
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You should understand that girls often talk back, especially when they are angry, they like to talk backWhen you say I'm okay and I'm fine, you're saying he's angry and you're in trouble, so don't just understand the superficial meaning, even if it's through the screen, you should be able to feel the sour smell of his anger.
You're right about everything, it's all my fault, it's me who is amorous, they are used to using this reverse way of expression to express his emotions, on the one hand, he doesn't blame you, he only blames himself, on the other hand, he shows endless grievances, he thinks he has been hurt, and he is lonely and self-pitying, so as a boy, you should understand that girls are expressing emotions worthy of this characteristic, I think no matter how low EQ is, you can't see that your girlfriend is angry, even if he doesn't say that he is angry on the surface, You should also be able to tell if he is angry or not from the perspective of words and colors, because emotions will be written on his face or in his eyes.
If you still can't tell whether he is emotional, then please take a look at his eyes, human eyes can speak, when he is emotional, his eyes will definitely fluctuate, even if he smiles and talks to you, but you can also see the coldness and murderous spirit in his eyes.
Otherwise, it is difficult for boys with low emotional intelligence to get girlfriends, they just don't understand the girl's mind, and it can be seen from the West Street that he is angry, don't be that wooden boy.
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It's good to say it's okay, which means that the other party is especially afraid that you are worried and expresses it like this, just because I don't want you to worry too much about the other party.
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It means that he has begun to die to you and does not want to continue with you, you have to pay attention.
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It means that she is very sensible, she is comforting you, telling you not to worry about her, not to think too much, and to do your own thing. On the other hand, it also shows that she complains a little about you, because you can't feel whether she is good or not.
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As a girl, I think your girlfriend must be feeling very bad right now. But she needs you to guess her mind, instead of telling you directly, telling you that it's not interesting, and letting you guess is more interesting.
My boyfriend is stupid and doesn't know what I like to eat, so he makes me a vegetarian every day. He would beat me, beat me, and insult me.
I'm going to change my boyfriend.
I'm fine, I'm fine. He.
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It should be analyzed in the following situations.
She is in a bad mood right now and doesn't know how to express it.
She's in a bad mood and has a lot to do with you, so I can't talk about it.
She's in a bad mood, she's getting impatient with you, and she's even more annoyed that she's in a messy mood right now and needs to be quiet for a while.
She's really fine, she's just a little distracted.
She has a hard time and doesn't want you to worry.
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It means that she is actually not good, and some words must be listened to in reverse, especially women's words.
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It means that she is very bad, and she needs you to coax her and make her happy now.
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Wait for your girlfriend to say he's okay. Then you should coax her, but in your heart, you are unhappy, but people don't confess it. Then you have to coax the object, you have to coax or not to coax during the period, and this kid is not easy to do now.
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This can only be that she doesn't want to say anything more when she is in a bad mood, and she refuses to say a word.
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The explanation is that she has something to do, and she is not good.
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may be to cover up her emotional weakness, indicating that she still has you in her heart.
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He's covering up, and it's generally good not to say that.
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Explain that there must be a problem, and you should ask it clearly at this time.
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In fact, men have the best face, if the person you like says such things to you, the lethality is quite large, the light one is sluggish, and the heavy one will not say it (think for yourself). In fact, the most effective way to resolve the contradiction between the two parties is to keep working hard, and there is such a saying that is very useful: "Don't let the people who laugh at you laugh at you for too long, and don't let the people who expect you wait too long".
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Try to ask yourself what is in his mind?
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So, is she disgusting you?
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Judging by your girlfriend's personality, he needs you to have your own opinions and opinions. He asks you to do things that you think are wrong, so you can justify with her, and sometimes bickering is also a kind of fun in life. You can have your own independent opinions, maybe he will think you are very manly.
I will admire you from the bottom of my heart.
She should like you very much, since the masses say that you are good-looking, only she is not, she should be afraid that you will be distracted, so she deliberately hits you, and if she doesn't like you very much, then she won't pay attention to what you have with other girls. Some girls are like this, the more they like it, the more they are afraid, and the more they love to be unreasonable.
Love is two people to understand each other's character, family, living environment, way of processing, values, etc., from what you said, she values how much money you save, she should save more than you, or the standard in her heart is to ask you to save more than her, or more than she thinks, so it forms a different way of understanding two people, she is measured by how much money you save, which causes greater pressure on your heart. This shows that you lack the necessary communication and exchanges, and you should talk to each other about what you think in each other's hearts and how what kind of impact what you say will have on each other, and find a way to express yourself that is acceptable to both parties. >>>More
Communicate with someone to teach you, find a topic to talk to her, analyze her words carefully, try to understand her heart, discover what is deep in her heart, don't close your heart too tightly, you can share some things with her, so that she will think that she has a very important place in your heart.
Yes, if you don't do well, learn more.
It's not good, a confidant is a confidant, which means that you can talk to her a lot, and secrets are okay, but if you have a girlfriend, I think you still have to keep it.