What s it like not talking to someone for too long?

You ask how it feels like not talking to someone for too long, hey, what do you say, as soon as someone says something to you, you won't be able to stop the car.

Others just politely say good morning to you, but you feel that others like you, and then think about it, and then without hesitation, send a lot of lonely words: You are also good morning; What have you been doing lately? Didn't eat in the morning; Have you had any interesting things happening lately?

To be honest, this is loneliness and loneliness, so you need to keep yourself busy at this time, because only when you are busy, you will not feel lonely, lonely, and cold.

Personally, I recommend that when a person is doing these things, they can alleviate loneliness.

1. Read more.

In fact, reading is the most meaningful thing, because it can change a lot of your perception, make your heart become calm, no longer impetuous, so that you can indirectly gain a lot of experience from your predecessors, and then unconsciously, let you learn a lot of things.

Yes, there is something that cannot be seen on the surface, and that is the growth of a person's heart. This kind of growth may not bring you huge economic benefits now, but it will really change a person's temperament, make a person change a lot imperceptibly, and make a person's mentality of doing one thing change a lot, which can be called a person's intangible wealth, and the intangible wealth integrated into one's own blood. So, go read more books when you're bored.

2. Exercise more.

My dear, remember, you have to love yourself well, so you have to exercise well, don't get bored and go to someone to chat, because many times the chat is mixed with too many expectations, and of course, it will involuntarily hit the despair everywhere, so you have to learn to exercise. You don't need the care of others, you don't need the good morning and good night of others, you can also have a good body, and then live a good and comfortable life, because your world can only be you.

3. Invest more in yourself.

Don't put your hopes in others, and remember to invest more in yourself when you're bored. Do you know? A lot of people don't actually like to chat with you, because the real reason is that they don't like you at all, so they often chat with you out of politeness, so you have to know not to bother some people who don't like you at all, don't talk to them, because you will find out in the end that you will be disappointed.

The human heart is the coolest, you know enough, the test or something, I hope you don't go to the test, because after the test of the human heart, you will find that you will be more cold.

If you feel like you want to talk to someone, just write them down, remember not to talk to someone, because there are many people in this world who don't understand you, if you feel the need to change this lifestyle of not chatting with others, start with the person closest to you, say hello and say a few words occasionally; Or go to some small parties and make some strange friends, don't rush it.

I felt like I was alone. Because you haven't talked to your friends for too long, you will close your heart and not let the outside world understand him and care about him. When you are in trouble, you don't know how to tell your friends, and you have to face everything by yourself and carry it yourself.

Not sharing your joys, your sorrows with others. Only you enjoy the joy or sadness that such a thing brings you. Even if you encounter something happy, and you don't have anyone to give it to your friends, this element is reduced to a minimum, and maybe you don't feel that he is happy.

It's a feeling of helplessness. If you haven't talked to a friend for too long, it may be that you feel in your heart that you don't have a good friend to talk to. Or when you want to chat, you find that you don't have someone to chat with.

This situation can also cause you to not chat for too long. You don't know who to talk to about your joys and sorrows. You're afraid they'll have a bored attitude when you talk to them.

If you are for this reason. If you haven't chatted for too long. Then there should be a kind of helplessness in your heart.

I can't find anyone to talk to, and I have no place to share my emotions.

There is also a feeling of being relatively unfamiliar. It's not just a feeling of strangeness to the act of chatting, but also to the person you're chatting with. When you haven't talked to someone for too long, you have a fear of chatting with someone.

Because you feel like you can't talk anymore. This kind of psychology will cause you to not know what to say to the other person, or you think more when you talk to him, and his expression, an action, will also make you think about it. So it's a relatively strange and frightening emotion in it.

I will become less and less accustomed to chatting with others, more and more accustomed to loneliness, and I will forget what it is like to chat. At this time, if someone suddenly appears to talk to me, I will be overwhelmed.

If it were me, I would feel like I had nothing to say, I didn't know what to say, and I felt like it was so troublesome to speak!

If two people talk frequently, it is definitely easy to have a good feeling, because no one will chat frequently with a person who they don't feel at all. For people you don't like at all, probably the other party will feel annoyed if you send a few more messages, and you want to block the other party every minute. Therefore, the high frequency chat itself means that there is an element of "like", of course, it is natural to have the illusion of falling in love, but you also know that it is an illusion, whether you like it or not, and whether you want to fall in love, in the final analysis, it is two different things.

What kind of content can really develop a good feeling into a like, a like into a dependence, and a dependence into a relationship?

1. Share your daily life.

Sharing life is the first step to understanding each other and entering each other's lives, after all, the desire to share is the beginning of love. When two people find that they want to share with each other as soon as possible no matter what they encounter, they actually understand in their hearts that this is a good feeling that is beginning to ferment.

2. Talk about three views.

After all, no one wants to get along with people who don't agree with each other and have different ideas, don't speculate for more than half a sentence, and a deep chat can make a better choice, whether the other party is the right person for you, if you find that two people have the same ideas, you will also feel sorry for each other and deepen your feelings for each other.

3. Create ambiguity.

Sharing daily life will make the good feeling ferment, and chatting about the three views can deepen the sympathy between each other, but if you stop here, after a long time, you may become confidants, if both of you don't take the initiative to advance, both think so, then miss is inevitable. So when the chat reaches a point, you have to start creating an ambiguous atmosphere. But the ambiguous period is very sweet, yes, but the ambiguous period will not always exist, and if you don't take a step forward, you will definitely retreat to the position of friends or even strangers.

Normal. If you like him, it's normal, and at this time you should take the initiative to find a topic to close the distance between the two.

But if he likes you, this usually doesn't happen. Because he will take the initiative to find a topic to talk to you.

If two people are consensual, even if this situation occurs, they will not be embarrassed and will not notice. It is impossible for two people to have a topic to talk about all the time when they are together, and it is normal to have no topic.

What if I chat with someone I like and don't have a topic?

In fact, it is normal for no one to chat, because everyone has their own work and their own things to deal with, everyone is very busy and does not have much time to chat, in fact, it doesn't matter whether to chat or not, it is good to get used to it, because a person can also enrich himself, have his own hobbies and interests, and can pass the time when he has nothing to do, and he also has his own things. Other people also have families, jobs, and are working hard for their own lives, if it is in a familiar environment, a few familiar friends together will become more talkative, because everyone is together, you and I feel that chatting is also quite interesting. Because when you have friends to chat with, you will feel happy and you will not be lonely.

There are not many people who really care about you, and there is not much point in small talk, just talk and chat occasionally, and have one or two friends. It's not that the more friends the better, the more often they will chat with you, of course, too many people chatting will also waste time, they have their own things to be busy, not everyone is very idle, so it feels normal that no one chats, and it is not necessary to put your time on chatting with others, in fact, it doesn't matter if you chat or not.

If you have time to spare, you can also send a message to your friends to say hello, everyone has at least a few friends in their lives, and you can also chat with friends when you want to chat.