What should I do if I suddenly lose the motivation to struggle after graduation?

In fact, after graduation, there is no motivation, which is really undeserved, because we go to school to be able to use the ability and way of learning things in our work after graduation, so everything we do in school is to work better after we go out.

This situation is because, when you are in school, you have a lot of things to do, such as certification, study, etc., these are very clear, and the people around you are also taking the test, so you take this study as your goal, and you have the motivation to study, or it may be that you are used to the study career of more than ten years, and learning has become a necessary thing in your life. But just like some people, although they graduated from a prestigious school, they still can't find a job in the end, in fact, this is not because they are stupid or have problems with learning, but because they have no way to transfer the things in the study book to work, life, or interpersonal communication, so they end up without a job.

You say that you are not motivated, then you can try to find a goal, just like in school, for a goal, and work hard, struggle, and often people say, if you don't have a goal, go blindly to work hard, such efforts can even be said to be useless, so first set a goal for yourself, so that you will have the motivation to struggle.

And even if you can apply more of your own learning methods in your work.

Isn't school just about knowing more things and then learning how to work hard, so adding some of your own methods and skills when you studied in school to your work will make your work easier and easier.

You can also communicate with your colleagues more, see how they usually do things, ask seniors for some experience, experience in the work accounts for a large part, so almost the company will always add a sentence when recruiting, and those with work experience are preferred. This sentence illustrates the importance of experience, and then you can find someone in the company as a goal to surpass, this goal is better than you, but not too much, of course, you have to keep this goal in mind, otherwise it will cause a lot of trouble, and then strive to surpass him, and set a time for yourself, so that maybe you will be more motivated.

After graduation, there is no motivation because you have not yet switched from the state of learning to the state of work, you can adapt to the environment and needs of work, find more opportunities to struggle in the work, when you do something, your motivation will become endless, so that you will succeed.

Get in touch with this society, adapt to this society, now that you have graduated, it is a great opportunity for you to show yourself, you must cherish it, learn to apply it flexibly, give yourself more self-confidence, and encouragement, believe that you can, and you will definitely find the motivation in school again.

After graduation, you lose the motivation to struggle, it may be because your family conditions can support your expenses as an idler when you lose the motivation to struggle, and because you have no ideals or your ideals have been realized. Imagine getting back the original motivation, you just think about your ideals, there are so many people on the road of struggle, how can you not work hard? With older and older parents waiting for you at home, how can you not work hard?

There are still your family burdens waiting for you in the future, how can you not work hard?

If a person has ideals and goals in her heart, then she will definitely work hard towards this goal, because she knows that her ideals have not been achieved, her wishes have not been achieved, how can she stop there? How many hard-working people are on the way to struggle, how many people are waiting to surpass you all the time, if you stop your own pace of progress, you lose the motivation to struggle, what is the difference between that and a useless person? A life that doesn't work hard isn't a life at all.

When you feel unmotivated, when you feel tired, think about what your parents are doing, think about what your favorite people are doing, and think about what your opponents are doing. They are all pursuing what they want, and their parents are also working hard all their lives to give us a better life, so if you don't work hard now, what will happen when they are old? What kind of old age do you want to give your parents?

When you think about it, you feel a lot of pressure, and that's when you want to work hard, because without pressure, there is no motivation. If you choose to escape on your own, then there is no one to help you. You choose to lie on the ground and don't want to go forward, do you still expect someone to pull you up from the ground?

Everyone will have their own ideals and goals, but they will often be polished all over the body by the real society, and the body is incomplete, but as long as you can find your confidence, regain your self-confidence, and find your goal, I believe you will find the motivation to struggle!

Just graduating is something that many people will encounter. When you just come out of society and learn a lot of things, you will find yourself small. Only then did I realize that my ideal and reality overlapped, and then it was so unrealistic, or unattainable.

But let's not be discouraged, we must be down-to-earth. First of all, we need to make a plan for life. Define your career and move forward towards your goals!

We need to divide the goal into three parts, short-term small goals, long-term big plans, and the ultimate goal of our own ideals! Of course, you must be realistic when setting your own goals. Like Wang Jianlin, he can set a small goal and earn him 100 million first.

We don't have that foundation, so we plan first. What kind of job to find and what to do in a few years. You should also plan your own money reasonably, daily expenses, make friends, study needs, and then save a part to lay a foundation for long-term planning in the future.

Besides, we have to complete small goals to achieve big goals, and do it step by step in a down-to-earth manner, I believe you can do it too! When you can achieve your big goals in life, you can say that you are already a successful person.

In fact, many people have a chaotic life, that is, they do not give themselves a reasonable plan and arrangement, or they have a plan but they have never been able to stick to it. If you don't work hard if you have a goal, it's in vain. Successful people are inseparable from their own struggles and the ability to seize opportunities.

So you must start with a plan for yourself, even if you haven't been very successful, at least you have worked hard and struggled for it. I believe that when you reach middle age, you will be proud of what you have fought for, and you will not regret that you have a plan but did not work hard!

Who hasn't experienced peaks and lows in their lives? Maybe when you are at a low point, you will lose the motivation to struggle, but life is not just that, only by rekindling hope and building enough confidence can you get out of the trough and climb to the peak of life.

When a person loses his fighting spirit, it is very likely that he has already achieved his goal, that is, he has already obtained what he wants, so there is no need to struggle anymore, and he has lost motivation.

And all the motivation of human behavior comes from desire. Therefore, if you want to regain your former motivation and upward motivation, you must first ask yourself what you want, and only after knowing what you want can you set a goal for yourself.

According to this goal, we will work towards it step by step.

The most terrible thing about people is that they don't want anything. A person who has no desires is also unmotivated. Because he wasn't interested in anything.

For example, most of everyone's struggle is to make money, while some people think that it is useless to have too much money, and they are content and happy, so they will lose motivation.

Then I must re-acquaint myself and motivate myself to find the original motivation to struggle, I had this feeling of losing the motivation to struggle two days ago, because of the winter vacation, I was full of fighting spirit, and my roommate came to Beijing to find a hotel to work as a waiter, so that at least I don't have to ask for the living expenses of the new semester at home.

But I found that what I was thinking was always in conflict with reality, I originally thought, anyway, just to be a waiter, it's a big deal to be a little harder, I can definitely persevere, but when I really started to do this job, I found that I imagined it too simple, this job can not only be done by one person's hard work, but also know how to look at people's eyes, to be able to speak, to be measured, to know how to be smart.

Then in the first two days I came, I always felt clumsy, I broke a plate on the first day, lost the motivation to struggle, and wanted not to go home several times, no longer here, I couldn't hold on, but because my roommate has been with me and encouraged me, and then I always forgot the good side and thought, it's okay, there will be thousands of wages by then! Then I slowly adjusted my mood and found the motivation to struggle, so I found that after I lost the motivation to struggle, I had to adjust back in time and find the original motivation.

The motivation of struggle is not so high, maybe the motivation of your struggle is your dream, your dream is very great, and even a little bit of a feeling of not touching, but you must not forget that there is another point of motivation for your struggle, which is very realistic, that is, money.

Without money, you don't have a good life, without money, your parents don't dare to tell you that they are sick, for fear of increasing the burden on you, without money, your wife can't even afford perfume and lipstick, and without money, your son can't go to a good school. These are the motivations for your struggle, and at the end of the day, one word, money.

You don't need to make great excuses for your struggle, and you don't need to raise it to the height of dreams, the value of life, just for the sake of food and clothing in life, in order to turn your survival into life, and let yourself live like a person. This is what you strive for, and it is also the motivation for your struggle.

It's better to be realistic, don't think too many bells and whistles for yourself, just take the most immediate and most needed things as your dreams.