I am unwilling to do a lot of things, and I am afraid that I will return in vain, what should I do?

Then do it, don't judge whether it's worth doing by the result of everything, the most important thing is to be worthy of your own heart, and don't let yourself have regrets.

I stopped going to school at the age of 17 and followed my cousin to work in other places, because I was young, and no one told me what the future path was, what I needed to experience, and what I could gain a foothold in society. <>

After two years of work, there was a big sister in the dormitory, she was studying Japanese on her own, and a training school was particularly popular at that time, so she enrolled there to study. Every Sunday she would go to study, and once we were chatting, she asked me how old I was, why I didn't go to school, why I didn't study a major at such a young age, and I couldn't work in this place all the time.

Having said a lot, she was my enlightenment big sister during that time, and now that I think back to what she said to me, it is still very important and useful. She also cared about my little sister very much, and also gave me a lot of courses about the training school, so that I could choose a favorite major to study.

At that time, I stopped her words and thought about what I wanted to learn, which would be good for my future development. I even thought about it for a long time, and finally I wanted to study accounting.

But I was afraid that my academic qualifications were not enough, and I was afraid that my foundation would not be able to keep up with the teacher's moderation, and I hesitated for a long time, but I couldn't make a decision on whether to go or not.

It's unwilling not to go to the heart, it's afraid to go to the heart, afraid of your own problems, and you can't go out of the teacher in the end, and you will return in vain. In the next year, the eldest sister in the dormitory resigned early because of family matters. There is no one to study with me.

I didn't do it in the end.

Now that I think about it, why didn't I go bravely, maybe I wouldn't be like this now, not to say good or bad. Nor does it say success or unsuccess. At least I don't regret it when I think about it now.

So do whatever you want while you're young. Don't end up because of yourself and your family.

Be brave enough to do it, of course! If you are afraid of returning to nothing every time you do something, then you will never break through yourself. Besides, you haven't done it yet, how do you know you're going to go back? Of course, you can't blindly do things that you are not sure of, so you must be prepared for the following.

First of all, you have to build up your self-confidence, as your question says, you are afraid of returning without success, so psychologically you subconsciously think that you can't do it, then it is possible that you will really return without success. So, first of all, you should build confidence and recognize yourself psychologically, so that you have the courage to be yourself. Just like myself, at the beginning of college, I was scared to speak in front of people, but I always motivated myself inside, so I was able to speak on the podium very comfortably.

Secondly, you need to organize the process and materials of the thing you want to do from beginning to end, and if the matter is not that complicated, you also need to think about the cause and effect of the matter. As the saying goes, opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared, and only if you are fully prepared, you will not be afraid of returning in vain.

You can always learn from your friends what you don't have, and it's better to arm yourself with this knowledge to enrich yourself than to return without success at first.

In fact, many things are important about the process rather than the result, and sometimes, you gain much more joy from the process than when the result is successful, so whether the result is good or bad, anyway, you have "earned" through the process, don't be afraid to return without success, let it go!

Many people will have this kind of confusion, then I think, since you will definitely not be willing to do this thing, then you don't have to be afraid of anything, just work hard, whether it is success or failure, at least work hard, you will not regret it!

I'm still a senior in college, and I've seen too many people who just have a passion and don't put it into action. The senior year is very confusing, and you will face many choices, such as: graduate school entrance examination, teacher qualification examination, civil service examination, ......There are too many choices, but there are very few people who have a clear goal, they don't know how to choose, some people want to go to graduate school because they see many people going to graduate school, and some people want to take the teacher qualification certificate because they have heard others say that being a teacher is very good ......Finally, some people make up their minds to do something, but when they take action, they feel very tired and decisively choose to give up.

For those things that you don't do unwillingly, do and worry about, I really recommend you to do it. Because if you don't do something you're passionate about when you're young, you won't do it when you're older. Just like some people say, when you are young, you can go to Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, so that you can go back to your hometown when you are old, if you choose to stay in your hometown when you are young, then it is difficult to go to Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou when you are old.

I decided that this sentence is very right, how many people choose to work hard in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou just to have a satisfactory life, even if they are tired, they will feel that it is worth it!

I have seen a lot of people working hard, and when I see them, I feel that life can really be beautiful! When a person decides to do something, and does it wholeheartedly, he will really feel that every day of his life is so beautiful, and he will feel that every moment of his life should not be wasted. Everyone should have heard a sentence, and you will definitely thank yourself for your efforts now in the future!

If you don't work hard now and don't do what you want to do, are you waiting for the future when you complain about your current self?

If it is immoral after doing it, then it is meaningless to do it, unwilling is just a state of mind, this situation is still important to mediate the mentality, time will dilute everything, doing something immoral is to solve a moment of unwillingness, but it will be a lifetime of regret, there is no if, if you make a choice between conscience and interests, I believe you will choose to understand.

You don't have to worry a lot, just be happy.

Brother, you don't want to sin, do you?

No matter what you do, you must first be worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth.

If you don't do something so risky and not worth doing, most of the setbacks will not become food for success, and will become black history.

Unwillingly, just a momentary impulse, will gradually understand.

If you are so entangled and you can't tell which is more important, then you follow the ancient method of taking a coin and throwing it at the back.

Then do it, if you are not afraid, it will become a thing of the past if you don't succeed.

Do it, if you don't do it, you may be unwilling and regret it.

If you do, maybe there will be a good result.

Don't let yourself regret it.

Dear friends, the most essential difference between us and animals is to learn, to think, but everything has a degree, because each of us is a different individual, everyone has their own strengths, when we are still in a state of ignorance, the choice of things is not necessarily suitable for themselves, there is a good saying, we must do what we can and not on paper, everyone's advantages are not the same, as long as we try hard, in the end we still feel that it is not suitable we can change things, Don't just chase for it, you must get it done!

Try to do it, the result is not important, the process is important. I don't know what the outcome of life will be, but everyone is trying to live because no one knows what the outcome will be until the last moment.

Look at whether this thing should be done or not, respect the heart.

People must have the spirit of adventure, dare to challenge to have a chance to succeed, the risk is proportional to the profit, it is possible to succeed if you do it, even if you do not succeed, you have experienced, you have more experience, you will regret it if you don't do it.

It's done, it's successful, that's called wonderful. If you do it, you don't succeed, that's called an experience. Go for it, you won't get anything out if you think too much.

Then do it, and it's better to not succeed and pay the price than if you don't do it, and you get tangled up there all day and before you know it, time has passed.

If you want to do it, let go of everything, it is better to succeed, and you will not regret if you don't succeed and work hard.

Not necessarily successful is not necessarily unsuccessful, what is the price to pay for the price? Why let yourself be unwilling?

It's not the price of life... Maybe it's going to work.。。

Do what you do to get results If you don't do it, there will never be results, even if you fail, at least you have worked hard to do it.

Then face it bravely!! Do!

There is no good way to follow your heart.

Just pass the level in your heart.

Hard work will definitely succeed There is nothing you can't do You have to be confident.

Since you are contradictory and you think about it, then do it, no matter what the result is

It will be because there is no turning back in life, as long as you choose, as long as you want to do it in your heart, you must practice it, otherwise you will regret it in the future.

There is a famous saying at Harvard, do what you want to do, or you will regret it.

If you really care that much about it, why don't you give it a try?

I often do this kind of unlucky thing, it's okay, be a man, how can there be so many people who don't regret it, do it first and then talk about it.

If you want to go back, you can go back, and if you don't want to go back, you won't go back, it depends on your own mood.

Ask your heart if you want to do it.

I also had this problem, and I decided to do it anyway.

It's a matter of your self-confidence and ability, and it has nothing to do with the thing itself. Even if you fail, you still have lessons to learn, you can't have nothing, but before you do it, you really have nothing, only fantasy and regret.

According to your description, you should be a relatively young person under the age of 25 and an introvert.

I personally recommend you to the trilogy of life - find problems, analyze problems, and solve problems. Not humble or arrogant, face reality, have the courage to try, and challenge yourself.

Let go of what should be put down, there is nothing to be nostalgic about, as long as you work your own things, you will not regret it. If you feel the need to do it, go for 100, because it's not necessary then don't do it.

If you want to give up, then why be unwilling? If you're not reconciled, why give up? Isn't that contradictory to you?

You can think clearly, do you want to give up or not give up? If you really want to give up, let go of your unwillingness, don't think so much, go with the flow, and let it be!

Sometimes success and failure are just one step away, if you try harder, you will succeed, but no one tells you before you succeed.

Visit your true heart! And just do it! On the premise of love, give up without love! If you have love, stick to it! Good luck!

Feelings are like that, you treat him as your favorite bag, how long you like this bag, and in the end it becomes an ornament. It's the same with feelings, if you don't like it so much, it's better to let go.

If you feel that it is worth it for you to insist, then you will insist, if it is not worth it, you will give up decisively, and after a long time, you will naturally be willing, there is nothing unwilling, and when you really let go, you will feel that your choice is correct. So think about it carefully, the main thing is to see if it's worth it for you to insist on, people say that it is not short in their lives, and it is not long to say that it is long, or be kind to themselves! Don't leave regrets when you get old!

It depends on what you want to give up and are unwilling, the question is not clear and cannot be answered, if it is love, it depends on your feelings for her, it is not easy to give up for many years, and slowly get out of the hidden shadow, if you really don't feel it, giving up is also a kind of release, I hope you distinguish priorities, whether you should give up depends on your own correct decision.

When you want to give up, it means that it is already a little tasteless, so there is no need to feel that it is a pity, because if you throw away this chicken rib, maybe what awaits you is a chicken leg.

In one thing, wanting to give up but not being willing is actually a lack of clear goals. At the moment, you should determine as soon as possible whether what you want to do or the person you love is the right thing and whether it is what you want. If you have a firm goal, you will work hard with perseverance.

Effort pays off. Let time witness your efforts. If the goal really doesn't suit, you give up decisively.

Then do what you like, don't be unhappy and don't know what to do, you can do it step by step, if you can't do it, let it go.

This is only you yourself to consider the specific situation, first of all, you want to give up means that you are not sure of success, rather than lose more than give up now, but you don't want to give up easily, since you don't want to give up, it depends on how much success of this thing is, how to increase the probability of success! Only by understanding the key to the matter can we know what to do!

People often feel pain about loss, when you have no choice but to give up, just give up, you can't hold it in your hands will only make yourself a waste of time, face the reality, be a chic person.

This is influenced by people's habitual thinking and behavior. Only by breaking through instinct can we move towards a better life. So you just need to find another thing you like to do to distract yourself. After a while, you'll think that the previous idea is a bit ridiculous.