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Freud believed that the personality structure consists of three parts: id, ego, and superego.
The id, or the original self, refers to the primordial self and contains the basic desires, impulses, and life force necessary for survival. The ego is the source of all psychological energy, the ego acts according to the principle of happiness, it ignores social morality, external norms of behavior, its only requirement is to obtain happiness and avoid pain, the goal of the ego is to seek individual comfort, survival and reproduction, it is unconscious, not perceived by the individual.
The self, which means "self" in German, is the part of the self that is conscious of the execution of thoughts, feelings, judgments or memories, and the function of the self is to seek the satisfaction of the impulses of the "id" while protecting the whole organism from harm, and it follows the "principle of reality" in the service of the id.
The superego is the ideal part of the personality structure, it is formed by the individual in the process of growing up by internalizing moral norms and internalizing the values of the social and cultural environment, and its function is mainly to supervise, criticize and control its own behavior, the superego is characterized by the pursuit of perfection, so it is the same as the id, most of the superego is also unconscious, the superego requires the self to meet the id in a socially acceptable way, and it follows the "moral principle".
To put it simply, the self is the "self" that manifests itself when the "id" and the "superego" compete with each other.
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themselves'It is also the writing invented by man. It's just a bunch of meat and bones. No one is special.
You are who you are.
I am who I am now.
There is no consciousness of the present. Self is just a word. Nothing else.
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Take a look at Zhu Jianjun's "Who Am I" and "How Many Souls Do You Have", and you will find your own answers.
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You are single, you are always yourself. You're the only one in the world. Believe in yourself.
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You are always you, and you are not you. The flowers in the mirror are beautiful, and the moon is full in the water.
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1. What is your own.
1. Is the lover yours?
No! Although you are in the same boat through thick and thin, happy together, physically intertwined, and emotionally intertwined, you will break up one day. It is possible to live together, but it will never be to die together, and it is just a good wish to grow old.
2. Are the children yours?
No! Although you have a strong blood relationship and an inseparable flesh and blood kinship, there can only be reunion, filial piety, visitation, and mutual care ......and so on. Even if you go to another world, they only see you off, but they can't bring you back to the human world.
3. Is the money yours?
No! Although you are desperate to make money, but you are trying to spend it, even if the bank has more deposits, it is something that life does not bring with you and death does not bring it.
4. Are the house and car yours?
No! Although you live in a warm and comfortable place, the day you leave, it is nothing.
Second, after a lifetime, what is yours?
1. Your body.
It is the only one that will never leave your life and complete the whole course of life. It is the only one that can desperately care for and protect your life until it exhausts all of its energy. The better your physical health, the farther you go.
Without a body, your life is over. Therefore, you should regard this only thing that belongs to you, the "body", as a priceless treasure, and take care of it and meet all its needs. Exercise, nutrition, work and rest, disease prevention and treatment, hygiene, good mood, free from harm, and all other protective measures should be kept up, and we should not relax for a moment.
2. Healthy body.
Good health leads to quality of life. If you are healthy, you will live longer. Without a healthy body, there is no life.
With life comes everything. Without life, nothing is yours. Therefore, as long as we live for one day, it is a blessing and should be cherished.
3. When it comes to health, prejudice is far more terrible than ignorance!
The biggest mistake in life is to trade health for things outside the body; The greatest sorrow in life is to exchange life for personal troubles; The biggest waste in life is to use your life to solve the troubles you create! Nothing compares to health. Take care of your body and cherish what you have now!!
3. A new standard for modern life:
1. The smartest person: old play, hail and old music, old open-minded, old humor;
2. The most stupid people: always anxious, old-fashioned, old-fashioned, always depressed, always working overtime;
3. The healthiest people: old walking, old moving, old exercise, old hugging;
4. The happiest person: always talking, laughing, and contacting! Cherish relatives and friends, because you may not be able to meet them in the next life!
No matter how bad the mood is, don't write it on your face sensitively, because no one likes to read it;
No matter how poor your life is, don't talk about it, because no one gives you money for no reason;
No matter how tired you are, don't complain, because no one will do it for you unconditionally;
No matter how bad the luck is, you must be filial to your parents, because you also have the day when you are old!
No matter how short life is, don't do it casually, because no one pays for your health;
No matter how hard life is, don't lose faith, because the good will be tomorrow.
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Everyone's behavior habits come from the inner habits, just like the image is not in the retina but the central nervous system of the brain, all comparisons, not as good as virtue, the most successful thing for a person is to beat himself.
Mr. Liang Qichao's pen and ink, also because the ambition lies in the habit, and the habit gives people is the ultimate value, only people who are full of self-confidence will have a manifestation of self-worth, can be admired by the world.
No matter how many tigers, calling for wind and rain, and having thousands of dollars in their waists, they will not get the corresponding self-worth, but they are just a product of the world, and the red mansion that is very popular in Lazy Changxing is just a mirage.
But everything that is built on interests, material or artificial things is not our own, but our habits absolutely belong to ourselves, and good habits will definitely have good harvests and grinding, and no one needs to evaluate Naiqi.
The sun will always shine brightly, the moon will always illuminate the night sky, as long as we do our best, develop good habits, cultivate good virtues, and raise good branches and acres of fighting conduct, it is the answer sheet of our life.
As for all the applause, glory, and praise, do you think it will be your own?
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What is laughter? Laughter is God; What is anger? Anger is a ghost.
When you smile, God comes. When you are angry, the ghost will come. As soon as God comes, the ghost has to leave, which is called the haunting.
If you are happy and carefree every day, you can starve to death. Illness lives by eating gas, and sores live by eating fire. "Qi" is the sick water, and "fire" is the sick food; If you don't get angry and don't get angry, it means that you don't give the sick water to drink and the sick food to eat. If you don't eat or drink, you will starve to death when you get sick.
You are always happy, not only do you not have problems, but also do things smoothly, this is the truth, but also life.
Take care of your body and take responsibility for your health. Because everything in this world is not yours, only your own body is your own.
Therefore, each of us has to take care of our own body, which is the only one of our own! Do you agree?
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Life is originally scattered and impermanent, ups and downs, no matter how good others are, it is just others, no matter how unbearable they are, they are always themselves, everyone is unique in this world, as long as they are willing to work hard to be the best themselves, it is enough, don't always estimate their position in the hearts of others, everyone only needs to go their own way, don't care about the eyes of others, it is enough to be the best yourself!
Give yourself a hug, don't expect others to be able to sympathize with you, others can pity you, the reason why each of us is troubled is because there are too many things to remember, whether it is something that should be remembered or not, it is put in our own memories, so that we often remember the things that should be forgotten, forget those things that should be remembered!
The happiest time in a person's life is to meet the right person at the right time, that person is willing to spoil you, indulge you, and love everything about you, but many times because of a word, a small thing, some people may disappear from your life forever!
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As the saying goes, "people are self-aware", correctly understanding themselves, objectively evaluating themselves, dealing with people and things and dealing with problems, will be of great benefit to the development of career and the satisfaction of life. If a person fails to evaluate himself correctly, he will have psychological disorders, show dissatisfaction and rejection of himself, or blindly become arrogant and become an arrogant maniac. Therefore, we should be able to understand and understand ourselves, so that we can better grasp ourselves and develop ourselves.
How to know and understand yourself? The following methods are described for reference.
Know yourself from what you say about yourself and what you say. Personal, representative individuals, such as your best friends, closest colleagues, etc., generally speaking, they know you better than others. Everyone's opinion can be the unit's view, or it can be a comprehensive view of everyone.
Learn about yourself from past successes and setbacks. Successes and setbacks are the best reflection of an individual's character or ability, so it is possible to discover one's own characteristics through one's own success or failure experience, re-recognize oneself through self-reflection and self-examination, and recognize one's strengths and weaknesses.
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