When breaking up, whether to let the woman make a choice or let the man make a choice

Whoever is bored makes the decision.

Other answers (11) Liu Suling, I didn't expect that there would be such a result, enthusiastic to ask friends2011-07-22 on behalf of the man still loves her, or reluctant to break up, do not want to separate. Maybe I'm wondering if the girl loves him or not, or something else. Enthusiastic to ask friends2011-07-22On behalf of the boy still loves her, unwilling to break up, enthusiastic to ask friends2011-07-22When the girl proposes to break up, the man chooses to be silent on behalf of acquiescence and agrees.

Enthusiastic to ask friends2011-07-22 means that you may not be reconciled, but you still choose to fulfill and protect in another way.

It can't be a friend, you have to break up cleanly, otherwise you are not responsible for yourselfIt is also irresponsible for him.

There is no right or wrong in love. There is only accommodation and non-accommodation, suitable and inappropriate.

I don't want to be a passerby because you have a memory for him, and he probably will. But that's about it.

The water that was spilled cannot be recovered, and the broken mirror cannot be as smooth as the original.

It's normal to avoid it, after all, longing is a difficult thing to figure out, so there will be"Out of sight is out of sight"This statement.

The best thing to do now is to remove everything that has to do with him and return to his life to prepare for the next encounter.

Work hard children, the more you feel sad, the more you have to make yourself stronger.

He is not everything, and since he has missed it, don't let yourself be held back.

That being said, a period of buffer is essential.

If you want to have a balanced mind, don't think about it, don't look at it, and don't remember everything about him.

It's not that you have to be ruthless when you break up, but you need to be really ruthless to yourself in the recovery period after the breakup.

Don't think about it! Just a direct stranger! Good to you and good to him! After you start a new relationship, if your boyfriend is still in contact with his ex-girlfriend, you will be very unhappy! In order to avoid contradictions in the future, let's be resolute!

That's right, it takes a little time, maybe in a few years, and you can face it very plainly.

Sometimes men are hurt much more than women!

I don't think it should be.

Is there a marriage license?

And the breakup fee?

I despise you for asking such a thing!!

No, both sides paid.

Love is inherently measurable, and it can only be solved with money, which can only be said to follow the flow of the world.

You can break up like this, how can you do it!

Affection is not money!

Otherwise, what's the difference with chicken?

What do you think? He has his problems. But I think he is still immature, I should say that your love is not mature, how big is understanding, if he loves you very much, then he should discuss with his parents, let his parents understand your love, and accept you.

Instead of choosing to break up, it's too irrational and doesn't cherish you. If it were me, I don't think he really loves you! Because, I will never abandon the person I love.

Now in general, parents are willing to listen to their children's ideas, after all, it is a lifetime event, and in the end, it is two young people who have to go through a long life, mainly the opinions of the children, and the parents secondly, unless there is some very special reason, there are many reasons for this, and it is not good to say.

If you love you deeply enough, you won't break up. Family problems are not the main reason for facilitating a breakup now.

It should be loved, but the man is more filial.

With this possibility, there is a high possibility of breaking up.

If he wants to be quiet, let him be quiet, maybe giving each other some time when they are separated is a test for each other!

The marriage date can be determined by the two of you, you can ask someone to see the date and ask the families of both parties to decide, or you can be watched by the families of both parties

Hello, as long as it is an auspicious day, and both parties and their families approve it, there is no need for anyone to have the final say!

It's good that you can afford to put it down. When you love, you love deeply, and if you don't love, you separate.

To let go of your hands is also to let each other go free.

Feelings are like two people pulling rubber bands, the one who is hurt is always unwilling to let go!

Blindly entanglement, not giving up, will not be exchanged for the next second of success, will only make yourself more painful.

In the world of feelings, the deeper the filling, the deeper the wound.

As a girl, you still have to protect yourself, especially your soul.

Since I have worked hard and fought for it, I have nothing to regret.

Don't care too much about what your friends say, you will always meet someone who really understands you, appreciates you, and cherishes you.

You're doing well, and choosing to leave isn't necessarily all wrong. Sometimes it's what boys love to leave calmly. Suddenly one day he will discover all the beauty in you.

I really want to be like you!

My experience is basically the same as yours, to be honest, it's not good, only people who have really experienced it know that it's better than bad, this kind of thing can't be seen chic, graceful and in the end sad and painful is yourself, so the result of this is self-deception, deceiving others can't deceive the kind of torment in your heart.

Why is it so similar to me, I also tried to keep him when he proposed it, but his attitude was very firm. So I chose to leave, and I cut off all contact from then on. Originally, he wanted us to be ordinary friends and meet once in a while or something, but I didn't want to, either we were together, or we were completely separated, and it was a hurt to meet after a breakup.

It was sad at first, but now it's doing well, and I still think about it occasionally, but it doesn't hurt so much anymore. Maybe it's too short, the longer I will be better, I think the moment I let go completely, maybe I will see him again, then he is just an old friend to me who no longer feels anything! It's like that song sings"Maybe I still think about him occasionally, and occasionally I will inevitably think about him, just treat him as an old friend, which also makes me feel distressed and worrying, but there is no longer a spark in my heart, let the past go with the wind.

I think you're doing a great job! Because I have a good example around me, my friend is going to break up with his girlfriend, and he still feels a little guilty before, thinking about the other party's little bit, and feeling sorry for the girl. But there is no distinction between life and death of women, and now my friends call her "nail household".

I just want to pull her out when to pull her out, so I think that kind of girl is very stupid, and she should be free and easy to break up, leave a good image for each other, and get together and disperse. It's not that if you keep it, it will make a difference! Letting go is also a beauty, both for him and for you!

So what's going on. Anyway, the more ruthless you are to the guys. The more he can't forget you ... Of course.. Anyway, I don't plan to be together, so I don't have to think about it so much.

That's right, you've done what you should have done, and if he still doesn't look back, then you won't regret it later. Stride forward, and you will meet people who are truly good to yourself.

It's good that you're like this, even if you beg him thousands of times, if he has made up his mind, he still can't save your relationship, let it go when it's time to let go.

I think you're good, too! Love is also dignified! It's just that you haven't met someone who really loves you and understands you!

Forget it, don't care what others think, after all, happiness is your own! It's up to you to master. Let's give the opportunity of love to others!

Maybe it's the next one you're looking for!

I think it's good that you're doing this, that's what women do, self-esteem, so that people can love, and if you really lower yourself to the dust, I think you'll get a lot more trampling than love.

You haven't found someone who appreciates you, don't change your personality for the sake of others. Women have all kinds of charms, and you are the rare little red.

I'm very optimistic about you.

The most hated thing in the world is.

Some people think I can't live without him.

No. You're doing a good job.

Love and personality are also required.

It's just that I didn't find a person who understands you, and I want to feel that 2 people are separated, and it's a matter of mentality and mentality.

Generally, the man chooses it, and this can be discussed by both parties

I think it should be a choice for both parties. After getting married, it is two people living together, you should learn to deal with it together from now on, and consider the time of both parties, so that it is the best.

Shouldn't they be chosen together?