Men like a person s performance is to keep picking thorns, how to pick thorns?

Like a person (want to be together, but there is a gap) will not be picky, will be very cautious, speak and behave, and if you have a good impression of the girl (there is a willingness to be together, the gap is not big), then you will pick a thorn... Such as: from the female to eat, wear, etc.

Hehe, it's not that I like you if I'm always picky, I just don't want to be with you at all.

They have problems of their own.

If you haven't confessed yet, then congratulations, he probably can't find a suitable topic to communicate with you, so he has nothing to do, if he has already confessed, then you can leave, he doesn't like you anymore.

What's the use of this kind of husband, doesn't it drag you down, he's such a bad man, how did you marry him in the first place.

Hurry up and leave, it's all like this. What's the point of going on. If you don't have children yet, you should leave decisively, and if you have children by then, I'm afraid your life will be even more difficult!

This kind of man is useless, a dad-like mother, and he depends on you without a mother, and he doesn't dare to point fingers outside, and he is selfish at home! You are more fierce than him, and you want you to take care of him.

If you feel tired and don't feel in love, think about it clearly and decide whether to divorce or not according to your family situation.

I think this kind of person may actually have low self-esteem in nature. He is very proud and complacent on the surface, always provoking and provoking others, just to show himself and make others pay attention to him, which is actually quite pitiful. It can only be said that it is best not to deal with this kind of person, not to fall into the trap, and the problem of making him feel embarrassed will be solved.

Hugh will shine the bright moon on the ditch, and don't compete with the brain.

Life encounter is also a kind of fate, it is not a good thing to meet such a person, Seong lost his horse, and he knew that it was not a blessing. Don't be angry with such a person, meeting in advance is also to increase your life experience, talk less, and do your own thing silently. Polite and kind people are willing to help

First of all, to understand why this kind of person does this, most of them are looking for a sense of superiority, this kind of person is actually very pitiful and has not been recognized. It is good to have silent mercy on them in your heart, and not to be provoked and become like them. There may also be a pure bad mood or something, so don't worry too much about it.

1.First of all, you should calmly listen to the other person explain all his questions and thoughts.

2.Put yourself in the other person's shoes to understand and think about why he is the way he is;

3.When the above two points are done, show a sincere attitude and communicate with the other party in a calm tone, of course, the other party can reasonably solve or answer all kinds of problems of all parties!

4.Don't just deny the other person as soon as you come!

I have met such a person in the workplace, no matter what you say to him, he will always end up working against you. My approach is to get as far away from such people as possible, which is pathological and contagious.

Who is the other party? If it were parents and elders, it might be that they hated iron but not steel. In this way, you can communicate more and show your strengths.

If you are classmates and friends, stay away if you can, and people who like to provoke and provoke are not easy to deal with. If you can't stay away, ignore it. People who actually like to provoke and provoke don't have true friends, and it's pitiful.

Or you are not strong enough, if you are particularly strong, who dares to provoke you, do your best, make yourself strong, the century of the jungle, only self-improvement.

In a word, the reason why others disagree with you is because others are not afraid of you, your strength is stronger than others, and your status is higher than others, so naturally people will not dare to make irresponsible remarks in front of you.

No matter in **, your own strength is king, when your strength is strong to a certain point, naturally no one will dare to provoke you, question you and pick your thorns.

Unconfident in oneself, jealous that others have things that they don't have. There are no angry people who laugh, keep a distance from this kind of person, and it is not worth stabbing from the back if your eyes are red.

Don't ignore them if you don't go too far, let them think that what they do will only affect them, just open your heart and treat them sincerely.

If you have capital, hold back first, show your identity when he (she) is in trouble, and then pretend to ignore it (you can also help him (her)).

It has a fart relationship with low self-esteem! What kind of did you yourself and don't let people say? Wrong is wrong, what others say is called picking on you, you are not rigorous, think about whether you have a problem.

This kind of person is generally immature in mind, and he will tolerate it if he can tolerate it, and if he ignores it, he will not understand you.

If you haven't been beaten, you will find that this kind of person is quite polite to you after you are physically strong.

Actually, I can't understand it, I don't like to pick on other people's thorns, and I don't like to see others pick on other people's thorns

Stay away from this kind of person, otherwise your good mood will be affected, and over time you will become this kind of person.

Afflictions are Bodhi,,, this is an opportunity to improve your wisdom, and you should thank others.

Sit and watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court, and smile at the clouds on the horizon. The more you pay attention to this kind of person, the more you will find yourself angry.

I have dated a boy, the other party likes to pick thorns, I think you have to think about whether you can accept this kind of behavior, if you can't accept it, there is no need to continue dating, because there are many people in the process of falling in love, he will not praise the other party how beautiful the clothes are today, how good the makeup is today, or how strong the other party is, but a mocking way to treat the other party. I think couples should encourage and support each other, only in this way can two people go further, and two people can become better together.

If you say that when you are the happiest, the other party pours a basin of cold water on you, no one wants to see it, so if I can't accept it, I want to break up immediately, if you get along with him for a long time, you will find that you have no self-confidence at all, and you will begin to hesitate to do anythingBecause you are afraid that others will point fingers at your results, you really want to be encouraged by the other party, but the other party will always treat you with a cold attitude.

In the process of falling in love, we must know how to love ourselves, because we must make ourselves better, I think falling in love is not consuming our energy, but to find someone to share some difficulties with us, and share some joy with us, which is the most important. So if a person doesn't understand what you want, and he can't satisfy you, we must be happy, we must be thoroughDon't leave yourself with regrets, don't let yourself be tortured too much, isn't it good to make yourself happy? Why should you make yourself the object of ridicule?

Only when we learn to love ourselves can we love the people around us, if we say that we have become a person who can't think independently, then what is the meaning of our life? So we must find a really good boy, instead of letting the other party destroy us step by step, and break the castle in our hearts step by step, which we have built step by step over the years, and cannot be destroyed in the hands of one person.

It will take time to verify whether the value is worth it, and the person who likes to pick on thorns is not necessarily not a good person.

In my opinion, if you have dated a guy who likes to pick on children, it may just be that you are still a little short of the girl in his heart.

I think I've dated a guy, but the other party always likes to pick thorns, if you can't stand it, then break up.

What's the secret? I definitely don't like you, I definitely think you're annoying, I think you're stupid, I think you're flawed. Especially perfectionist people, maybe the person you meet is perfectionist, no one is perfect, and he will definitely find fault with you.

"Lack of real self-confidence" is often a common problem for Capricorns, you must always praise him and encourage him, he may seem "unbearable cool" on the surface, but in fact he is "very happy" in his heart. The Capricorn man is a big ram who struggles to climb to the top of a mountain with a heavy burden on his back. Traditions, responsibilities, ideals, and desires for wealth and social status are all wrapped in a big burden, which is the burden and the force that urges him upward.

What is less is that he is too serious in love, loves to be picky, and pursues perfection.

This shows that you care, you have to communicate more, talk about your heart, sometimes it's better to have a little affection, and there are fewer quarrels.

There are no perfect two, only two people who are suitable for accommodating.

The biggest problem with feelings is trust and tolerance. Understand.

That's right, because I can't accommodate him in my heart at all.

If you don't love this person, no matter how good this person is to you, you don't like him at all, hate him and don't care about him. That's why it's going to be a thorn in the bone! Find fault! Glamorous.

There are many kinds of people who don't love.,Some people who don't love can't talk about hating.,It can also be considered friends.,And some are similar on the road.,I don't think my love includes what I hate.,Hate is just hate.,But I don't think it's good to hate people who hate it.。

Maybe that's the case.

That's probably what you said.