Why don t you like the things you want so much when you get them?

I think as long as you are a human being, you will have such a mentality, and you will feel that what you can't get is the best. In this society, because everything is different, we can distinguish between beauty and ugliness, and because of the contrast, we can see the essence of some things. Sometimes, we crave something and think about it every day, but when we get it, after a while, we start to dislike it, even hate it, and this is our human psychology of liking the new and hating the old.

When we can't get something, we usually have this mentality. Because of some reasons and conditions, we will not get what we want, at this time, we will infinitely beautify such things, try to think of it as the most perfect thing, and see all the points of the object. Even, when we dream, we will dream of such things, and then, after we start to fantasize about how convenient and comfortable our lives are after we have this thing, we will like this object even more when we see others using what we want and doing what we want to do, because this is the beautifying effect brought by jealousy.

And when we get this item, we will have a different psychology. After using the item, we will find that it is not, we imagined it to be as easy to use, after using it, there may be a lot of problems, and when we solve these problems, we will be even more disgusted, because it brings too much trouble. At this time, what we see is the shortcomings of this item, compared to some other things with the same function, we will cast envious eyes, which is a kind of psychology of liking the new and hating the old.

This kind of thing doesn't happen just to some people, but to all people. When I was young, I was very eager to have a bicycle by myself, but due to family conditions, I didn't have the possibility of owning it, so I envied those children who had bicycles; When I grew up and had my own bike, after a long time, I realized that the bike was not so good, and sometimes I would be very tired, and I had to clean up and fix these problems, so it didn't take long for me to sell this bike.

People are like this, what we can't get, we will be very hungry, and what we get, we will start to become disappointed, because there is no novelty, and there is only disgust. Therefore, we say that what we can't get is often the most beautiful, so that we still have a desire that our hearts will always be the most perfect image of existence, and it will never be destroyed, as long as we don't get it.

I think it can be described by the words desire and liking the new and hating the old, people's desires are endless, they want to get something, and after they get it, their desires will not disappear, but they will divert their eyes and see something else you don't get, and then you will want to get another thing that you haven't gotten, and so on and so forth, and there is no end to desire, unless that day the mind is extinguished, and the desire will come to an abrupt end. Liking the new and hating the old is a common disease of human beings, always liking those things that they have never had, especially novel, but once they get it in their hands, then the feeling changes, and too much familiarity with a thing will make people feel that there is no sense of novelty, and they will feel disgusted. <>

That's how I am, I thought about buying clothes last year, I wanted to buy a windbreaker, but it was very expensive, but once I had this idea, I couldn't get rid of it, and finally made up my mind to save money and buy it back, but I only wore it a few times and it was still in the wardrobe, not that it didn't fit, it wasn't good-looking, it just had a dull feeling of getting it. For other things too.,For games.,I used to be obsessed with an FPS game.,But it's a lot of money.,It took a lot of determination to decide to buy it.,I think I can play it for at least a year or so.,But no.,After thinking about things day and night, I found out that it was like that.,Often there's no beauty in my imagination.,Or the desire to get it is gone.,Because it's been obtained.。 I think this liking is mixed with desire, and it will account for a large part, and once this desire is gone, the liking will shrink.

As the saying goes, what you can't get is the best.

Just like when we buy clothes in the mall, we usually wear street stalls, but when we buy clothes, we always like to see some expensive clothes, I feel that I want it very much, but we can't afford it, there are many times when we always feel that we are very poor, we can't afford the expensive clothes that others wear, in fact, it's not that you can't afford it, it's that you don't want to spend so much money to buy, you see that other people's clothes are brand-name, you are always complaining that you don't have it, in fact, you don't have anything less than others, others just love yourself more than you.

Just like I once went to a physical store to buy clothes, I fell in love with a strap skirt is a suit, wearing a particularly figure-showing, and more classy than the stall I wore before, because it was too expensive, I gave up but after I got home, I wanted to buy a set of clothes every day, I could buy a pair of shoes with my husband, three or four hundred, you can buy a set of clothes for my baby, one or two hundred, but when I came here, I bought a set of clothes for one or two hundred two or three hundred, and I was reluctant at all, because I didn't love myself to the same extent as others.

As long as I go to the street, I will go into the store to see if the dress is sold, but I don't buy it, but I still don't resist myself, I want to buy a dress every day for a long time, when we go to the street again, because that day is Valentine's Day, I gritted my teeth and bought that set of clothes for myself, and when I got home, I saw the strap skirt, which was equipped with a white sweater with a high neck, and it didn't feel particularly good-looking, and because the meat on the stomach grew a lot, so I wore it a little tight, I put it in the closet, and I haven't worn it once.

Because after getting it, you don't know how to cherish it, and you will feel that the other party will not leave you, and if you satisfy your desire to conquer, you will no longer have a sense of freshness.

Be possessive, I want to get it when I don't get it, and when I get it, I feel that it belongs to me anyway, so I don't care so much.

Because what was once a simple liking slowly turned into an obsession, and the obsession disappeared after getting it.

As the saying goes, what you can't get is the best.

Just like when we buy clothes in the mall, we usually wear stalls, but when we buy clothes, we always like to see some expensive clothes, I feel that I want it very much, but I can't afford it, there are many times when we always feel that we are very poor, and we can't afford the expensive clothes that others wear, in fact, it's not that you can't afford it, it's that you don't want to spend so much money to buy, you see that other people's clothes are brand-name, you always complain that you don't have it, in fact, you don't have anything less than others, others just love yourself more than you.

Just like when I once went to a physical store to buy clothes, I fell in love with a strap skirt is a suit, wearing a particularly figure-showing, and more high-grade than the stall I wore before, because it was too expensive, I gave up but after I got home, I wanted to buy a set of clothes every day, I could buy a pair of shoes with my husband, three or four hundred, I could buy a set of clothes for my baby, one or two hundred, but when I came here, I bought a set of clothes and a set of clothes one or two hundred or two hundred, and I was reluctant at all, because I didn't love myself to the same extent as others.

As long as I go to the street, I will go into the store to see if the dress is sold, but I don't buy it, but I still don't resist myself, I want to buy a dress every day for a long time, when we go to the street again, because that day is Valentine's Day, I gritted my teeth and bought that set of clothes for myself, and when I got home, I saw the strap skirt, which was equipped with a white sweater with a high neck, and it didn't feel particularly good-looking, and because the meat on the stomach grew a lot, so I wore it a little tight, I put it in the closet, and I haven't worn it once.