Who is still in touch with their first love???I ll give you extra points if you say why

I'm still in touch. We've known each other for almost eight years. She is also single now, alone and I am closest to her and I want to help her and take care of her as much as I can. Because I decided to chase it again.

Look at your thoughts. If you don't want to continue, it is recommended that you leave it behind completely.

He said that because he still had illusions that they might be together in the future. It's going to be even more painful, and I used to be like that, for more than two years. In the face of his former lover, the most responsible thing to do when breaking up is to be ruthless to the end, cut off all contacts, shatter his illusions, and let him completely sober up, time will wash everything.

It may sound cruel, but let him understand that it is better for both parties to let go as soon as possible.

You can't be friends after a breakup - because you have hurt each other, and you can't be enemies after a breakup - because you once loved each other deeply.

So, it became the most familiar stranger in the world!

I can't let go of it even though I have a boyfriend now.

Don't be lovers and friends.

Do you think it's possible?

I'm still in touch, because after all, it's my first love, there is too much to give, and relatively speaking, we know each other very well, and it's good to be friends, and everyone will do their best to help each other when they are in trouble.

I think it's hard to break up after falling in love, and if you want to get in touch again. But it depends on whether you both want to do that, you can send it to him, if you can really open your hearts, I'm sure you can get in touch again?Let's do it ourselves!

Me!Because of the mistake, I am now in the same class as the university.

I didn't have a first love.

If you can't find someone you like, keep in touch.

My first girlfriend and I fell in love at first sight, and it has been 8 years and 4 months now.

Is there any reason for this thing to love?

Never contact. I know that the other party is still the person I trust unreservedly in this world, and after contacting, I accidentally leaked this trust to the other party, which is a big burden for the other party. After all, each other has their own life tracks and partners who need to protect and spend the evening and early morning together.

I know that the other person will still be my best friend, the best person to chat with, and the most witty** friend. But I don't make contact, I don't use the name of a friend, I don't go between love and a sense of responsibility and a sense of boundaries, I don't pretend to be free, I don't talk about the weather I don't really care about, I don't convince myself that I don't have any distractions, I don't take the risk of proving the facts that I have already discovered. I've gone through a lot of pits, **, real estate, career are very particular about timing, love is the most, there is a person, everything is right, but the timing is not right, you can't hold him.

When you are young, when your energy is very low, when you are too busy to take care of yourself, when you are living under financial pressure and the burden of your original family, and when you are being beaten all over the ground by the sudden illness of your family, you will think that the other person's reasonable self does not love you enough. But when you also grow and become whole, you discover what love is as it is. So, no more contact, never again turn into the vortex of the past.

This is the best protection for each other.

If one day, the other party is really just a good friend, without any feelings, then a good friend will not deliberately contact at all, the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, as long as you know that there is such a soul in this world, and have loved me for a short time, I feel very good, very vivid, I am grateful for life, through the wind and rain, and will continue to sail towards a life without you at all, but I will also try to be open, brave and fearless, like you.

- The original answer above.

When I say the word "first love", I unconsciously bring the feelings and the whole atmosphere of the text to more distant memories and personal emotions. After breaking up, there was no contact for 8 years, and I learned from mutual friends that he was very happy, had a special beloved girl, and was extremely down-to-earth to realize his original dream. Blessing with a capital letter.

I know that if there is a girl who can be with him, there is no other reason than that she is the only one who deserves it.

The emotional expression in the original answer did not take into account my partner's feelings, but the first love was very long, and I was extremely determined to never contact, and the memories I left were like old movie films and more like my personal belongings, so I also dug a hoe deep into my heart, thinking that if I hadn't transitioned from a classmate to a lover, maybe I would have earned a tacit and witty old friend now. Compared with the love affair that ended without a problem, I feel that the friendship that has lasted for many years is very precious. Dive inside and dissect the reasons why you can never be friends again and never get back in touch.

There is no contact here, of course, there is a fear of making the friendship go weird, but it is more likely that netizens remind them of the love for the person in front of them, and it is also the bottom line of the emotional outlook. Thank you again, I won't reply and explain one by one, thank you and bless you, I'm very happy now. And I also want to say that if a person has the ability to make herself happy, then she will always be happy.

There is no contact, it's been a long time, I've changed the city, changed the environment, and there is no contact at all.

Some people say that the first love must be separated, not that the first love will break up as soon as the key is broken, but because the first love lacks too much emotional resonance, he likes to get along with each other in the way he thinks it is right. I don't know how to consider the other person's feelings, and I don't think about the other party's point of view.

The reason why the first love must be divided is because everyone is just starting to get in touch with the relationship of love pants and does not know how to manage the disadvantages, and there are old people around me who carry out the first love to the end, and they are very happy.

Most people fall in love when they are in adolescence, and they are too ignorant and ignorant at that time, but there are people who keep going.

Most of the first loves happen when they are students, and both parties are not mature, and they are the same, but there are always those who have been together.