What should I do if what I am looking for is different from what I am suitable for?

What you aspire to is often your ideal, and it doesn't have to be realized. The words of the people around you are just suggestions, and the decision is yours. You can find a job that you like, or a job that meets your requirements in all aspects (such as salary, job development prospects, working environment, etc.), and if you are willing to become a teacher, you can take a teaching certificate to work towards this.

For white-collar workers, there is a big difference between white-collar workers in reality and TV, you can learn about some of the living conditions of white-collar people around you, and then imagine that you are one of them, do you think you will be happy like that? If the answer is yes, you can move forward.

If you like it, say it out loud, as for whether it can be said differently, whether it is suitable or not to get along will be known later. If the two are happy, they will accept everything from each other, and both parties will slowly understand each other and cherish each other. There is no natural fit and no fit for couples, only a slow run-in.

Hope it helps.

Women have a lot of selective disorders, and you don't know what you want.

Even if you become a white-collar worker, that kind of fast-paced life may not be suitable for you, and you are also infected by TV dramas and other **, so you want to be a white-collar worker.

You like a guy, but just think that the other person is a good man or even a public lover, but it is difficult for you to take a step and become his girlfriend.

I think some things are still good with fate, it should be yours and it will always be yours, put a good attitude, and face the confusion in life with ease.

If you listen to other people's words and become a teacher, then you will want to be a white-collar worker every day, and they will advise you not to be with that guy, but you will continue to like him, so you say, your own business, others are just suggesting, and they don't necessarily feel right.

This one. Personally, I think. There is a certain difference between reality and ideals.

It doesn't have to be what you want the most to be the best. It's about adapting to life on your own. There's nothing wrong with liking someone.

You haven't started with him and how to know he's not for you. Everyone is 7 points false and 3 points true in front of anyone. How do you know if the real one isn't right for you?

My personal opinion is that you can try it.

Marital happiness is to meet one's own requirements and ask for one's own desires.

Just go according to your feelings, at least you won't have regrets.

What others say is not what you want, you should keep your original idea, this idea is your own, and it is not mixed with any interference from others.

I'm a boy, but I've never had the idea of "chasing money, big money, and famous cars", and I look down on people like that. But girls nowadays seem to have that kind of thinking, my girlfriend is too, and her relatives and friends around her are also like this, I don't know what to do, I wonder if I'm not thinking normally, so unmotivated ......

I'm in the opposite situation with you, and I don't know what to do right now, but I'm still going to school now, and no one knows what will happen in the future.

If he is willing to break in, let him go, it is too normal for men to have this kind of thinking, and I think I am not normal. Outside the male lead, inside the female lead, isn't it also good?

It's your own feeling if it's a match, and it's hard for others to help you judge.

But whether you want to put in the effort or not is the real deciding factor.

People think differently, and there is nothing to blame.

According to what you say, you are indeed not suitable, even if you force yourself to be with him, you will not be happy in the end, now you just can't let go, life is like this, at the beginning I always felt that what I insisted on was right, maybe after a long time, I felt that I was too ridiculous at that time.

You really don't fit together, and time will prove that your pursuits, personalities, and goals are too far apart, so. But you have to think about it yourself.

I think you should be separated from him, maybe you feel how reluctant you are, but the road of life is very long, two people can be together for ten or twenty years, relying on the same pursuit, the same faith, this is the heart-to-heart communication, there is no same life goal, what heart-to-heart communication do you talk about, there is no heart-to-heart communication, what kind of love do you sigh. Truth or yes, come on.

1.Try to convince him to fight with you!

2.If the previous one didn't work, you can try to stay away from him and give him a sense of crisis.

3.It's not a word, give up! Even if I get married, I think the days after marriage will be unhappy!

Maybe he needs the security of being with friends.

If you don't want to give up the relationship, try to fit into his life and accept that he doesn't have a future in some way.

A friend of mine, who didn't graduate from high school, drank and sang with his friends every day, and now he and his friends have contracted a hotel and opened a branch.

This is fate, how can there be a consistent pursuit of life, and you must plan your future while taking care of your feelings.

Problems that arise between you are very common, learn to try to communicate, he loves you and will definitely change for you.

Learn to understand each other's hearts.

In fact, a pair of people should be complementary. The reason is simple, just as the gears have to be dented one and the other to get stuck. Generally, the noisy ones will be very compatible with the quiet ones, and the personalities should be complementary, which is much better than the same 2 people together.

So it mainly depends on how much you love. In fact, your question can be analyzed from the perspective of the third party, if it is you who wants to enjoy the holiday at the beginning, and it is he who wants to work, do you think you will still ask today? Therefore, everyone will have a dilemma in the face of "how much love" and "reality".

My advice is that you are still young, and it is unknown whether you will get married in the future, and maybe you will meet the true destiny. So happiness is in the present, you can persuade it, don't force it if you can't persuade it, everyone does their own thing, and one day you will find that the original worries are superfluous.

I guess your boyfriend's family is in good condition. It would be better if I could guide him.

Find an opportunity to have a good talk with him to see what he plans for the future, whether he has his own life plan, if not, you can participate with him and help him set short-term and long-term goals. For example, if the college entrance examination has just ended, you can take a driver's license test in the summer and so on. Entering the university, also set a goal, although the family conditions are superior, but also need their own pursuit, positive progress, in order to have greater achievements, life is more meaningful.

I hope you can both have a positive attitude towards life, so that the two of you will be together for longer.

I'm a girl, and I think my thoughts are similar to yours. Life is not something that can be supported by two people who love each other, without a common outlook on life and values, even if you love each other very much now, you will not be able to avoid quarrels in the future, even if you get married, there will be a lot of bumps and bumps, and you may not be really happy.

But then again, if you're young and you love him a lot, you might as well consider taking a look at it, after all, most boys have a stage where they are young and frivolous and like to hang out. Maybe in the future he will slowly mature. But only if he is self-motivated.

Unmotivated men, even at the age of fifty, will still be content with the status quo and do not think about it.

The ideal of life is like the sun next to it, used to illuminate the future; The goal of life is like mountaineering, which is to rely on one step to praise the footprints of a wild group"Climbing"Target.

Because everyone's thoughts and aesthetics are different.

That's right, some people think that nature is nothing, and some people think that beauty should be decorated.

You manage people, you just think it's beautiful, then you say Shamat is beautiful or not, you don't think it's beautiful, people still pursue it, do you want to stop it.

Today I saw a beautiful woman, broad, with big skin, smiling at me, white, just a little shorter, but unfortunately I didn't go up at the beginning.

The goal is relatively close, you can make a plan, as long as you work hard, you can achieve the ambition is relatively large, it means that when you have not succeeded, you think of a farther goal, the ideal is too big, basically refers to the future, but of course it is also an important step towards success, in fact, the three are the same, all need to work hard to achieve success, as long as you are willing to work hard, I believe you will do it.

Different values, different ideals, different life choices

This problem should be solved by a little more exchange of ideas

That is, you don't think the same thing, you pursue the opposite thing, and it's not suitable for you to be together.

It's that he has plans to break up with you!!

What's not suitable??? And who is he???